I was standing in Starbucks with a friend this week and I ordered a skinny blueberry muffin. When we sat down he asked me did I watch what I ate still and didn't I fancy the full fat blueberry muffin?
As he said it my inner voice said 'Why would I?'
And it was such a revelation to me!
In other words my logic now is 'I don't care whether I have a skinny muffin or a full fat muffin so why would I choose the full fat one?'
If I was to rate how much I wanted them both out of 10, then they would both score the same...
Therefore I am not hard done by by choosing the lower calorie option as it is the same to me.
If, for example, I was choosing between a vegetarian panini and a steak and cheese panini then I would want the steak one more and hence I would have it!
And it is a logic that works for me so well now and I didn't even realise that I did it!
I have thought about it during the week and I do it in loads of areas of food now. I drink black coffee and have done for 5 years. I like white coffee and black coffee the same and so why would I choose white coffee?
I like Helllmans mayonnaise both in full fat, light and extra light the same! Therefore why would I choose the full fat one?
But I don't like Heinz reduced sugar baken beans as much as normal Heinz beans so I have normal ones...
My point here is if you feel that you are not having things that you really want then you feel bad and end up resenting the diet or lifestyle you are following. Eating broccolli when you want chips doesn't tend to lead to much enthusiasm and smiling.
I have chatted this over with a couple of friends who are big and looked back on when I was big. Back then I would rarely choose the healthier options as I used to equate healthy with being a lesser product i.e. the healthy version won't be as nice, tasty, big etc.
So turning this to you? When you choose healthy options is it because you don't care which you have? or do you feel hard done by? Do you choose healthy options so you can eat more? Or do you choose them because you value your long term health?
As you stand in front of the counter in Tesco and make your food choices what are you really basing them on?
I would be really interested if you wanted to mail me and let me know! All feedback appreciated as I think I may be on to something here :-)
Have a great week
Mike ;-)