The 'Comfort Zone' is something that I hear a lot when working 1-2-1 with people. The notion of the comfort zone is that by not changing things and by keeping the 'status quo' then it is a comfortable place to be.
Now the comfort zone does exist but it isn't where most people believe it is!
My example would be my old job.
I was very much in my comfort zone. I had worked there for 15 years, I knew the job inside out and upside down, I was good at my job, I worked with some great people, I earnt good money, everything was perfect apart from the fact I wasn't happy! I wanted to make a difference and I couldn't make a difference there anymore.
I knew after working there for 10 years that I wanted to leave but I was in my comfort zone, it was more painful to move jobs and more risky than staying there and hence I spent every day wanting to leave but never doing it.
So I was in my comfort zone...but it wasn't comfortable because I wasn't happy, and all I thought about was how much I wanted to do something else.
Now after I had worked there 12 years I got offered a new job, it was a very good job but I turned it down as I was worried that the job may not work out and wanted to stay in the comfort zone of being unfulfilled and unhappy!
But then I felt the fear and did it anyway! I am a great believer in talk it, walk it and hence I stepped out of my comfort zone and resigned.
Then I started my new job which I now love, I am doing and acheiving loads more and getting up in the morning with a spring in my step, I am now HAPPY at work!
Therefore the comfort zone did exist but it was the other side of the line! So to get to my comfort zone I had to change...
And change is certain! Change is going to happen whether we all want it to or not.
So turning this to you.
Are you in your comfort zone? If you are, is it a nice place to be? Or do you keep feeling bad because you aren't doing, acheiving or having what your really want and deserve?
I spent 20 years being overweight, sitting on the sofa and not living my life as I was in my comfort zone...looking back now I realise that it was never that comfortable.
Have an amazing week and let me know if you are going to step out of your comfort zone into the real comfort zone!
Mike ;-)