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Issue: # 1 July 26th 2008
Greetings!

Thanks for subscribing to the first weekly newsletter which I am going to call the "No Willpower Required" newsletter. The reason for calling it this is that I have been doing a lot of work recently with successful dieters and maintainers for a project I am working on and the common factor in all of them is that they agree that they didn't actually need willpower at all when they reduced their weight.
 
The reason for this is that if you need willpower then it means you have a conflict going on, i.e. part of you wants to be slim and part of you wants to eat. Therefore if you have truelly decided 100% to be slim then why would you need willpower?
 
Therefore if you need willpower to reduce your weight then my first question to someone is always "What is the benefit of not wanting to reduce your weight?" and the answer generally has nothing to do with food.
 
I hope you will find this newsletter useful and if you think it could be useful to your clients, friends or family then please forward it on for them to join. As I said this is only me sending out this newsletter and I have no intention of sending out spam and have deliberately not got anyone to register with their home address or anything and hence I won't sell your details to anyone!.
 
Have a good weekend, I am off to a garden party later round my friends and the weather report is for thunder and lightning so it might become a kitchen party yet!
 
Mike :-)
 
The Two Types Of Dieter 
 
Which do you choose to be?
 
When I was slimming down I always could see that there were two types of dieter and now I have seen many clients personally and over the web I am even more convinced of the stark differences between them.
 
The first type of dieter is the one who says that reducing weight is hard, they hate dieting, hate the fact they are big, don't like the fact that they can't go out etc. Therefore they see dieting as a prison sentence and it is all about what they can't do and what they aren't allowed to do.
 
They tend to rarely smile when I meet them and generally are not enjoying the experience, therefore at some point they tend to break out of the prison cell that they have imagined and go on the run. And from experience and talking it over with another counsellor this week we couldn't think of any long term maintainer who had the prison sentence mindset.
 
The second type of dieter is the one who sees it as a choice, they choose to be slim, they choose to be healthy and they choose to take control. I was definately in this category and absolutely loved becoming slim, I laughed and smiled my way through it and always said that I could eat whenever I liked but I was choosing not to as I wanted and valued being slim and healthy more.
 
I am not saying that I was giggling the whole time I was reducing my weight but I always saw it as a positive experience and a choice that I had made.
 
Therefore if you see reducing weight as a prison sentence then why not decide today that being slim is actually good fun and a choice and therefore choose to be slim!
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I am certainly not the fountain of all knowledge so if you have any advice, guidance or knowledge to share with others in terms of the mindset around weight management and motivation then please E-Mail me directly at mike@emijo.co.uk.
 
I will of course credit you with your own work!!
 
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Believe You Can, Believe You Can't, You'll Always Be Right - Anonymous