Rachel among the orchids

Sym's Smiling Face



July, 2008
Vol 4, Issue 1
Explorations in
Kindness

Exploring the Spirit of Play

Rachel hugs SymI am sure many readers have noticed that images of me often feature my dogs.  This one is of me with my Great Pyrenees puppy (yes, he's still a young'un!), Sym.  Others are of me with my little Pug named Wee who was rescued from the Charlottesville SPCA.  I also introduce a new workshop with my colleague, Gail Todter, that merges shamanic practices with her use of horses as teachers.  I don't yet know a lot about horses, but my dogs remind me to not take life so seriously and to play often.   They keep me laughing and in the groove of my natural spontaneity.  This issue of my newsletter explores the connection between play, creativity, spirituality and healing. It also challenges us to consider the role animals can play in our healing and the healing they may need, as well.   The human and animal experience is often challenging, messy, troubling and painful. As the Buddha says, we will invariably experience old age, sickness and death.  Yet if we get mired in our suffering, we forget that life is also joyful, profound, and inspiring.  We forget how to play.  We forget to dance and to make love.  After a forest fire, the earth sends up new shoots.  After war, a community begins to rebuild.  Writing, making art or just playing a simple game of hopscotch can help us restore our sense of safety, trust and faith in ourselves and others.  The process may be slow, but little by little, new sprouts of comfort and even outright ecstasy will return.  Dogs, cats and horses know this and so do I! 
                     Yours warmly, 
                     Rachel  Mann
                     Founder and Owner          
                     MettaKnowledge for
                         Peace, LLC



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Freeing the Spirit: Shamanism and Integrative  Horsemanship
A New Collaborative Workshop

In this Halloween weekend workshop, Gail Todter (for more on Gail, see below), health educator and founder of Integrative Health Services, teams up with MettaKnowledge for Peace to offer participants a unique opportunity for personal growth through engagement on the ground with horses and in the spiritual dimensions offered by shamanic healing practices. Working with horses provides opportunities for reflection, insight, re-creation.  Horses, like shamanic healing practices and ritual, provide a connection to nature and help us reclaim our own innate beauty and power.  We will spent a day and a half in a lovely post and beam barn and in the fields and corrals of Galleywinter Farm in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains and cultivate the energies of healing with the help of Gail's herd of 6 horses.  Basic practices we will work with include mindfulness, horsemanship, loving kindness practices, and the rituals of stone and fire from the Q'ero of the Peruvian Andes.  For more information, click here
The Spirit of Play: Creativity, Spirituality and Healing
Rachel among the orchids
Dogs take play for granted. We have a lot to learn from them. Many of us have forgotten the art of play. Play is anything that involves spontaneity, creativity, the use of the imagination, the use of our bodies in athletic or fun ways, and relaxation. Often we believe that we are not playful, creative or artistic. We think that when there are so many problems in the world around us and when there are so many people and animals in pain and suffering, how can we justify doing anything fun? How can we find the time to do anything lighthearted when there is so much to do to help others?

Some of us also think that only "talented" people can make art. "I'm not talented," we say. "I can't paint, write, sing, draw, dance." You name it. All of the ways that we have been given to enjoy ourselves are somehow only within reach of the most gifted. There are many reasons for this rooted in the way our culture has removed storytelling, artmaking, singing, and other creative outlets from being part of the ordinary day-to-day enjoyment within families and communities. We are saturated with images of famous, "talented" people who do these things for us on television and radio. However, at a more basic level, our beliefs that prevent us from playing are rooted in the challenges of trauma, stress and violence.

People in helping roles often neglect playing and, like their clients, patients, or sick and ill loved ones, even forget how to play. In this way, they become very much like those they are seeking to help: survivors of violence and other kinds of traumas themselves often have forgotten this wonderful human capacity for joy. Many religious traditions frown on activities that engender playfulness, such as dancing, singing, lovemaking, and other creative uses of the body in service of generativity. Further, when your life is in danger or you are constantly at risk for being criticized, all you have time for is to be vigilant in developing and maintaining strategies to protect yourself.

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 MettaKnowledge Fall Workshops

The Art of Surviving Compassion Fatigue

In this workshop, we explore the meaning of compassion and its manifestations in our own lives and work. We explore why we have compassion fatigue and how to address it constructively so we can continue our work with a sense of energy, hope, and optimism. For more, click here

Where:  Canterbury House, Charlottesville, VA
Date: Friday, September 26

Exploring Dimensions of Spirituality on the Front Lines of Violence: A Workshop of Personal Exploration

Where: Galleywinter Farm, Afton, VA (outside of Charlottesville, VA)
Date:  Friday, October 24

Story and Healing in Action: Embracing Diversity with Compassion in our Workplaces

In this workshop, through the lens of storytelling and its power to inform and heal, we will explore with compassion and curiosity interracial and interethnic tensions in our workplaces with the goal of developing a deeper understanding of what causes these problems and to learn tools for addressing them. For more, click here

Where: YWCA of Southampton Roads, Norfolk, VA
Date: 
Friday, November 7

The Shamanic Spirit of Play: Finding Wholeness Through Creativity

In this workshop, we engage our natural spontaneity and courage to be ourselves through play, shamanic ways of seeing and art.  The focus is on releasing old patterns of struggle and trauma using methods from age-old shamanic healing practices. For more information, click here

All daylong workshops cost $95 (includes refreshments and lunch)

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Animals Need Healing Too!  
Rachel among the orchidsAnimals in our world take on many burdens and face many challenges. Like humans, they can experience trauma, abuse, neglect, abandonment, and illness.  However, unlike humans, unless they have been terribly abused, they do not lose a sense of connection with the living source of life that feeds all creation. Nonetheless, their bodies, minds, and energies can become imbalanced.

Animals grieve when they have lost a loved one, they feel anxiety when circumstances change, and they struggle against aging and sick bodies, wanting like any of us to be active and well. They also take on a great deal of our emotional baggage for us and are great teachers about our own shadows. For more, click here
Featured Colleague: Gail Todter, Founder and Owner of Integrative Health Services

Gail TodterGail Todter has become a highly valued friend and colleague of MettaKnowledge for Peace.  She gave me courage to start my own business helping others--to follow my vision, as this is what she has done with her life.  Gail is a tall, sinewy, blue-eyed presence who commands respect just because of her soothing and caring presence.  Visiting her 21-acred Galleywinter Farm which sits in a gentle cove below Afton Mountain is a rare treat. There is her post and beam barn that Gail built with her own hands which smells of cedar. One side is lined with horse gear; another opens out to a view of the rolling landscape. Surrounding the barn are rolling fields for her 6 horses, Felipe, Clary, Ali, Dulci, Blaze, and Sunny who work with her to teach her clients the practices of mindfulness, to adopt positive health habits, and to be more empowered in their lives.  Her two dogs, Bonnie and Jade bring a great deal of spontaneity and play to any setting.  For more information about her workshops and private sessions on nutrition, fitness and for her Horse as Teacher and Empowered Women series, go to her web site.  She can also be reached at:  gail@leadingforth.com.

Rachel and Lily on the Lawn When one studies violence in depth, as I have, it is impossible to confront the damage done to all of us--humanity, the earth, and yes, animals and other living creatures of all kinds--without thinking about healing. It is impossible to see an animal suffering from abuse and to not know that they need emotional and often spiritual healng as much as humans do.  I know from my own life, as well, about how much animals bring to the table to help others heal. Lily, my girl pictured here who died in 2006, taught me so much throughout her life and even in her death that feeds me still today. Animals more than humans live in the present and are willing to give so much of themselves.  They are a living, breathing lesson in the power of compassion.  I am therefore committed to bringing a message of hope and healing to all and to insist on the power of animals to be participants in our individual and collective healing from violence and trauma of all kinds. Part of that is how they teach us how to play and find the spark of creativity, of something divine in and around us, and their unbounded enjoyment of the Living World! 
                                                                   Warmly,
                                                                        Rachel
                                                                        Founder and Owner
                                                                        MettaKnowledge for Peace, LLC


Rachel E. Mann, MA, PhD
MettaKnowledge for Peace, LLC
rachel@mettaknowledge.com
434-787-3210