Healthy Reflections Newsletter
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Linda Young, Ph.D., LMFT
Publisher
 5/31/07

As we soon move from spring into summer, many of us begin to think about clearing out the unnecessary "stuff" from our lives ---both the physical items around us as well as the emotional concerns that may be weighing us down.  In today's newsletter, I've included a few tips to begin the process of simplifying your life if that's an area that needs attention.

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Tips For Simplifying Your Life
 
Many of us feel that we no longer control our time or the direction of our lives.  There are more and more things to do and, seemingly, less time to do them in.  We may have created a full and challenging life but have no time to enjoy it.  However, there are some ways to slow things down and simplify our lives.  Listed below are four suggestions:
 
1)  In order to make more time for yourself, paradoxically, you have to take time to examine how you are using your time now.  There's the saying "if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten."  Begin to think about what can be changed or eliminated in order to simplify your life.
 
2)  Vilfredo Pareto in 1897 stated the 80/20 Principle, which says that 20% of our effort produces 80% of the results.  The challenge is to identify these few vital items that produce the greatest value for you.  Focus on the activities that result in the greatest satisfaction and eliminate those activities that are unprofitable.
 
3)  If you want to simplify your life, learn to say no.  Individuals get into trouble when they agree to do things they really don't have time to do.  This eventually leads to a constant state of being overwhelmed and frustrated.
 
4)  Clear away the clutter around you.  Get rid of things you don't use.  One suggestion is to go through your house and get rid of everything you haven't used in the past year.  When considering your next purchase, consider not only it's immediate cost in money but the cost of it's use over time.  Particularly with the latest electronic "toy or gadget",  factor in the cost of setting it up, learning how to use it or fixing problems with it down the road.  There's the saying, "that which we own owns us." 
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Quotes To Ponder:
 
It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness. ---
Charles Haddon Spurgeon
 
I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is to try to please everyone. ---Bill Cosby.
 
Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable. --- Sydney Harris
 
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Stress Tip:
by G. Gaynor McTigue

Visualize.

Picturing in your mind beforehand how you want something to turn out can strongly influence how it actually does. At the very least it will positively affect your approach to it. So do a mental run-through of the event first. For example, visualize yourself as an
enthusiastic contributor at a business meeting. See yourself hitting a golf ball successfully before taking a swing. Picture a calm, harmonious evening with the family. (Yes, it's possible!) While it won't assure you'll get the desired result, it will certainly help. Conversely, negative visualization can adversely affect a situation. So try to avoid it. (Remember, things usually aren't as bad as we imagine they'll be.) When you visualize the way you'd like something ideally to play out, you're already one step closer to achieving it. Why make yourself crazy? 
 
 
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Mental Health Facts:
 
4 of the 10 leading causes of disability in the U.S. and other developing countries are the following mental disorders:  depression (#1), bipolar disorder (#6), schizophrenia (#9) and obsessive-compulsive disorder (#10).
 
--- World Health Organization
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