Wow, this feels big. I
mean, just saying it out loud.
Deep breath.
Here goes: I have started writing another
book.
There. Now it's out and I'm on the record and
have made a promise.
You're my witnesses and I can't back out
now.
What I'm attempting to do with this book is
tell the story of one coaching client,
blending fiction and self-help so that any
reader can use the tools to help themselves
learn and grow. And any coach or would-be
coach can get insight and instruction about
how a coaching practice really works. And,
with any luck, the story will be compelling
enough that a general reader will enjoy it,
too.
What's the emoticon for happy/excited/yippee?
Because that's how I feel about writing this
book. It's an absolute joy -- which is how I
know it's right.
OK, I've only just finished the first
chapter, and, true to form, on the re-reading
one line presented itself for further
inquiry. When I posted it on
my
Facebook page, I got some immediate,
strong reaction, so I thought I would write
about it today.
"So many of us spend time seeking
that we don't stop to enjoy what we've
already found."
Know what I
mean?
It's like spending six months planning your
wedding, and when that happily anticipated
day comes, you're totally focused on...the
honeymoon.
Or sitting in a weekend personal development
workshop, perusing the catalogue to
see...what workshop you can do next.
Or, the family joke, eating breakfast while
discussing...what's for lunch.
Brings up a couple of ideas I've written
about before. Remember
Here
But Not Here? How using a cell phone or
Blackberry conveniently keeps you from being
present right here, right now?
And even last week's
3
Ways to Get Out of Your Own Way. We are
foursquare in our own way when we're so busy
seeking the next great thing that we can't
appreciate what's right in front of us.
Because seeking means we're looking ahead.
We're looking somewhere else. Anywhere but
here. Raising your hand and saying,
"Absent."
It takes being fully present to fully enjoy
what you've created. When you create, then
drop your creation in favor of something new,
what you are actually creating is a
never-ending cycle of never being
satisfied.
That's being driven, most certainly. Icky
driven.
So, dare to be present. Dare to say, "Hmmmn.
This feels great. Think I'll be here right
now and...enjoy."
Enjoyment. What a concept. A very happy
concept.
Like writing a book, if you ask me. And so I
bring it around to the beginning. I'm
writing a new book, and I thank you for being
my virtual accountability buddies. It's going
to be fun, anything but icky, and I'm glad
you're along with me to enjoy the ride.