Michele Woodward Executive Life Coach
Powerful Coaching. Powerful Results.
April 13, 2009
Michele Woodward
Greetings!

I met Faith on an airplane.

She settled in next to me and when I introduced myself and held out my hand, she took it saying, "Wow, that's so polite. I'm Faith."

For those of you who have always wondered, how did Faith look? Like a walking goddess -- you know, like JLo, without the attitude.

Now I could go all allegorical on you and imagine some deep and meaningful conversation with Faith...

But I really did meet Faith. And she's a PhD candidate at Northwestern University in Chicago. Young and vibrant, Faith turned out to be wise beyond her years. And we had a surprisingly deep and meaningful conversation on our hour plus some flight from Chicago to DC the other day.

I walked away from meeting Faith with more faith, and that's what I want to tell you about.

Faith comes from a family that didn't have many things, and couldn't provide Faith with many opportunities. But a great one fell in her lap when she was 14 -- she got assigned a Big Sister.

This Big Sister inspired Faith, coached Faith, believed in Faith.

So Faith decided to try getting into a college, something that no one in her family had ever done.

And she got in.

And excelled.

And kept going.

And now Faith is a PhD candidate who hopes to use her training to help the community she came from.

She's got vision, she's got direction, and she's got hope.

She's Faith.

Our conversation was so powerful that I noticed the people across the aisle straining to catch our chat. What did we discuss? We talked about fears, and redefining oneself. We talked about what it's like to be highly educated in a family made up of people who are not. We talked about how relationships work and how they fall apart. We talked about what women need to do to preserve their identities and their options while in relationships. We talked about books that have been important to our lives, and meaningful quotes. We talked about the past and we talked about the future. We talked about what we believe about the world. We talked about faith.

The plane touched down and we left each other with a smile and a wave. And as Faith walked away, down the airport hallway toward whatever's next for her, I said a little prayer of thanksgiving. Thanks to that Big Sister who reached a hand out to a promising young girl, and thanks to all the other hands that have helped her along the way. Thanks to Faith who could have made other choices about the direction of her life but hasn't. And thanks to Providence for placing us side-by-side on that airplane.

Because I walked away from my meeting with Faith renewed, restored and hopeful. Meeting Faith helped me remember that people touch people in the most unexpected and important ways. That people, by and large, are good and generous. That strangers are simply friends I haven't met yet.

Yes, I met Faith on an airplane. Where I least expected her. Which just might be the most important lesson of all.

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HOW ABOUT SOME HORSE WHISPERING?
Primal Leadership, June 2 - 4th, Marriott Ranch, Hume, VA

I am happy beyond measure to announce that my horse whispering friend and fellow Master Coach Koelle Simpson is coming to the East Coast to do her first workshop - and I'll be on-site helping her deliver a great, breakthrough program.

The 3-day workshop, called "Primal Leadership" is set for June 2-4, 2009 at the beautiful Marriot Ranch in Hume, VA.

Here's what Koelle says about the workshop: "You are trying to take charge of your life. You want to be heard, understood, motivational, and self confident. But some areas of your life aren't quite coming together as you had hoped.

"You might wonder how you can learn to become a better leader in each aspect of your life by hanging out with horses. Here's how: these animals are very sensitive to human communication. When you're internally agitated, keyed-up, dishonest, or stressed, it doesn't matter how upbeat and positive you are on the outside--just like the people in your life, the horse knows better. They won't trust a weak, scared, or phony leader."

Would you like to hone your leadership skills? Figure out what's holding you back, or how to get going? This is just the program for you. Want more information? Check out Koelle's website for more info -- we have room for just twelve people to insure a great experience for everyone. Early bird registration discounts are available. It's going to be a great event, and I really want you to be there to experience this one of a kind learning. It's going to be great!

SOMETHING TO READ
Still Alice by Lisa Genova
Still Alice

I picked up Still Alice because I read that Lisa Genova, a neuroscientist/first-time writer, had shopped this book to publishers only to get rejected. So she published the book herself and used innovative strategies that got the book read by the public. Once the word-of-mouth spread, she got a mainstream publisher and the book is now a best-seller.

Love that story.

And I love the story in Still Alice. Alice Howland, distinguished linguistics professor starts suffering memory loss (and who at about age 50 doesn't?) that turns into a devastating diagnosis of early-onset Alzheimer's disease. With compassion and understanding, Lisa Genova writes eloquently about the impact on Alice, her husband, her children and friends.

And the redeeming value is this -- even at the book's end, when Alice is unable to converse with the stunning ease she once had, when she's unable to remember her husband or children... she's still Alice. There is something immutable in all of us that even disease cannot destroy. In the end, she's still Alice, and she's still loved. That, in and of itself, is reason enough to read this lovely first novel.

FREE RECORDING AVAILABLE
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The audio recording of March 27th's free class "Yikes! What's Going On With The Economy and Why Am I So Freaked Out?" is available on my website, right under my picture. Take a listen -- think you'll like it. The next free call is Friday, April 24th at noon (EDT). Put it on your calendar and I'll be sending the call-in info next week.

While you're visiting my website, check out my upcoming appearances -- some are open to the public and I'd love to meet you, so come visit! If you have ideas for other speaking/teaching opportunities, let me know. I love this work and love having the chance to do more. :-)


Michele Woodward
Michele Woodward Consulting, Inc.
phone: 703/598-3100