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Michele Woodward Executive Life Coach
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Powerful Coaching. Powerful Results.
April 13, 2009
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Daffodils Poking Their Heads Up Edition
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Greetings!
I met Faith on an airplane.
She settled in next to me and when I
introduced myself and held out my hand, she
took it saying, "Wow, that's so polite. I'm
Faith."
For those of you who have always wondered,
how did Faith look? Like a walking goddess --
you know, like JLo, without the attitude.
Now I could go all allegorical on you and
imagine some deep and meaningful conversation
with Faith...
But I really did meet Faith. And she's a PhD
candidate at Northwestern University in
Chicago. Young and vibrant, Faith turned out
to be wise beyond her years. And we had a
surprisingly deep and meaningful conversation
on our hour plus some flight from Chicago to
DC the other day.
I walked away from meeting Faith with more
faith, and that's what I want to tell you
about.
Faith comes from a family that didn't have
many things, and couldn't provide Faith with
many opportunities. But a great one fell in
her lap when she was 14 -- she got assigned a
Big Sister.
This Big Sister inspired Faith, coached
Faith, believed in Faith.
So Faith decided to try getting into a
college, something that no one in her family
had ever done.
And she got in.
And excelled.
And kept going.
And now Faith is a PhD candidate who hopes to
use her training to help the community she
came from.
She's got vision, she's got direction, and
she's got hope.
She's Faith.
Our conversation was so powerful that I
noticed the people across the aisle straining
to catch our chat. What did we discuss? We
talked about fears, and redefining oneself.
We talked about what it's like to be highly
educated in a family made up of people who
are not. We talked about how relationships
work and how they fall apart. We talked about
what women need to do to preserve their
identities and their options while in
relationships. We talked about books that
have been important to our lives, and
meaningful quotes. We talked about the past
and we talked about the future. We talked
about what we believe about the world. We
talked about faith.
The plane touched down and we left each other
with a smile and a wave. And as Faith walked
away, down the airport hallway toward
whatever's next for her, I said a little
prayer of thanksgiving. Thanks to that Big
Sister who reached a hand out to a promising
young girl, and thanks to all the other hands
that have helped her along the way. Thanks to
Faith who could have made other choices about
the direction of her life but hasn't. And
thanks to Providence for placing us
side-by-side on that airplane.
Because I walked away from my meeting with
Faith renewed, restored and hopeful. Meeting
Faith helped me remember that people touch
people in the most unexpected and important
ways. That people, by and large, are good
and generous. That strangers are simply
friends I haven't met yet.
Yes, I met Faith on an airplane. Where I
least expected her. Which just might be the
most important lesson of all.
Nearly 200 past columns are available at my
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here.
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HOW ABOUT SOME HORSE WHISPERING?
Primal Leadership, June 2 - 4th, Marriott Ranch, Hume, VA
I am happy beyond measure to announce that my
horse whispering friend and fellow Master
Coach Koelle Simpson is coming to the East
Coast to do her first
workshop - and I'll be
on-site helping her deliver a great,
breakthrough program.
The 3-day workshop, called "Primal
Leadership" is set for June 2-4, 2009
at the
beautiful Marriot Ranch in Hume, VA.
Here's what Koelle says about the workshop:
"You are trying to take charge of your life.
You want to be heard, understood,
motivational, and self confident. But some
areas of your life aren't quite coming
together as you had hoped.
"You might wonder how you can learn to become
a better leader in each aspect of your life
by hanging out with horses. Here's how: these
animals are very sensitive to human
communication. When you're internally
agitated, keyed-up, dishonest, or stressed,
it doesn't matter how upbeat and positive you
are on the outside--just like the people in
your life, the horse knows better. They won't
trust a weak, scared, or phony leader."
Would you like to hone your leadership
skills? Figure out what's holding you back,
or how to get going? This is just the
program for you. Want more information?
Check out Koelle's
website for more info -- we have
room for just twelve people to insure a great
experience for everyone. Early bird
registration discounts are available. It's
going to be a great event, and I really want
you to be there to experience this one of a
kind learning. It's going to be great!
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INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE DU JOUR
"Strangers are simply friends I haven't met
yet.."
-- me
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SOMETHING TO READ
Still Alice by Lisa Genova
I picked up Still
Alice
because I read that Lisa Genova, a
neuroscientist/first-time writer, had shopped
this book to publishers only to get rejected.
So she published the book herself and used
innovative strategies that got the book read
by the public. Once the word-of-mouth
spread, she got a mainstream publisher and
the book is now a best-seller.
Love
that story.
And I love the story in Still
Alice . Alice Howland,
distinguished linguistics professor starts
suffering memory loss (and who at about age
50 doesn't?) that turns into a devastating
diagnosis of early-onset Alzheimer's disease.
With compassion and understanding, Lisa
Genova writes eloquently about the impact on
Alice, her husband, her children and friends.
And the redeeming value is this -- even at
the book's end, when Alice is unable to
converse with the stunning ease she once had,
when she's unable to remember her husband or
children... she's still Alice. There is
something immutable in all of us that even
disease cannot destroy. In the end, she's
still Alice, and she's still loved. That, in
and of itself, is reason enough to read this
lovely first novel.
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FREE RECORDING AVAILABLE
The audio recording of March 27th's free
class "Yikes! What's Going On With The
Economy and Why Am I So Freaked Out?" is
available on my
website, right under my picture. Take a
listen -- think you'll like it. The next
free call is Friday, April 24th at noon
(EDT). Put it on your calendar and I'll be
sending the call-in info next week.
While you're visiting my website, check out
my upcoming appearances -- some are open to
the public and I'd love to meet you, so come
visit! If you have ideas for other
speaking/teaching opportunities, let me know.
I love this work and love having the chance
to do more. :-)
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Michele Woodward
Michele Woodward Consulting, Inc.
phone:
703/598-3100
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