September 2010Vol 3, Issue
39 
Pastor TC Brantley - Writer and Publisher
Tyrone Waters - Editor in chief
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Strong Marriage Newsletter
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Please enjoy this month newsletter on the subject of marriage and relationships.
 
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Ask just about anyone at your church what it is that they consider the leading problem that the church has to face and undoubtedly you will hear the growing rate of divorce amongst Christians as one of the first three that will be mentioned.

Pastor T. C. Brantley has a growing concern that there is a silent killer that is having a devastating effect on the body of Christ.  This killer is divorce and with the growing number of high profile divorces that are taking place in the church, he maintains that the church must organize and make it a priority.

Feature Book: Married Couples:Thou Shalt Have Great Sex
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Why Couples Cheat 
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Why Couples Cheat 
 
Sexologist Tammy Nelsom and relationship counselor T.C. Brantley talk about why celebrities, especially men, cheat on their spouses
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Thou Shalt Have Great Sex
 
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Why do some married men love to cheat on their wife with younger woman?
  1. Sin
  2. Feeling of recapture their youth
  3. Created some much pain in their home, they feel that cant take what they reaped when they sowed in their own home
  4. No appreciation just constant nagging of what he is not doing but never seeing what he is doing
  5. Sex has dried up between the husband and wife
Can I have a 3 some?
  1. No
  2. Its adultery
  3. Your wife has encourage multi orgasms in her that you don't need to cheat or have another party in their
  4. We are created to have one spouse at one time and not multiple ones.
Can my wife and I have different forms of sex?
  1. Hebrews 13:5 - Marriage bed is undefiled
  2. Spouse Must Agree Together what they desire in the relationship bedroom
  3. Any type of sex should not hurt or humiliate your spouse
  4. If you can do it to her, she should be able to do it back to you.
How Long after a divorce can I start dating?
  1. That is totally a time thing
  2. You must take your time in the dating world
  3. First heal from the pain of a relationship
  4. Please look over the new relationship from head to toe before you dive into it
  5. Relationship first, marriage second, and intimacy third.  Having sex before another marriage will only cloud your mind frame.
Do you think a man can be with one woman?
  1. If a man makes up his mind, Yes
  2. If the spouse are committed to evolve with the relationship
  3. If they have constant counseling at least every three months make sense to me
How Do I avoid temptation from the opposite sex?
  1. Understand you are going to be tempted by the opposite sex.  Its natural
  2. Have a plan of escape.  Always date around other couples. Never be by yourself
  3. Have accountability so that you will not go down a strange path
  4. Stay busy with church and hobbies.
Why Is it so hard to express myself to my wife?
  1. Men are not use to sharing there inter feelings
  2. The wife is upset that you can not communicate like her
  3. The rejection and interruptions between the couple along the years just mean hard feelings have grown in the relationship
  4. What you said does not come across of what you are trying to say to your spouse.
  5. You may need a third party in your relationship to help out (Counselor)
  6. When you communicate never assume, accuse, shame or say something negative.
How Long Should I Hang Out with My Single Best Friend?
  1. Not to the point of taking time away from your spouse
  2. Not to the the point that your spouse seems neglected
  3. Please insure that your spouse has advanced notice of you going out
  4. Dont go out more with your friend than you do with your mate
Rules for Husband and wife on a trip?
  1. They should not leave each other side
  2. Even when one is sleepy, try to find each other flow of thinking
  3. Insure have rules that will not take the spouse to an argument
  4. Be assured to be on your best behavior.  Do things that will take you out of your comfort zone together
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  • Married Couples: Thou Shalt Have Great Sex 
  • New Sheets
  • Successful Marriages for Successful Men
  • Real Men Don't Need Closets
  • Even Christians Use the Bathroom
  • You Can't Have the Head without the Body
  • Store Front Church: I am not ashamed
 
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Relationship and Marriage(Pre & Post) Coaching available with Pastor TC (M. Div). Call 203-753-7377 for scheduling. There is presently an opening for new clients.
 
Its time to have a Marriage Coach in your life to either enhance or help you get through the many experiences that marriage brings. Call Coach TC today and schedule your first appointment.
 
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