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Questions from Recent Marriage Seminar: How long should a married couple go without sex? |
It is important for the married couple to come up with a mutual agreement in regards to how often they have sex. However, my rule of thumb is the couple should have sex at least three times per week. Make sure you do not use sex as a weapon to punish your spouse (withholding sex from your spouse). Instead, you should use sex as a tool to help strengthen your marriage. Within I Corinthians 7, it states the husband's and wife's body belong to each other. If there are certain issues that affect the sex life such as past relationship issues, health problems, and etc..., those issues need to be addressed and worked through (I suggest with marriage counseling). It is important to address these issues so that bitterness will not seep into your marriage and affect your intimate time with your spouse. |
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Questions from Recent Singles' Seminar: Why are men afraid of commitment? |
I believe that many men have not been taught how to be husbands or boyfriends. If a man has not been trained on the proper principles of a relationship (such as how to communicate with a woman), he will most likely run from getting into a committed relationship because he is not prepared to put in the large amount of work which is required within such a relationship. If a woman is interested in being in a committed relationship, then it is important that she expresses that desire to the man she is with. Further growth within the committed relationship can be fostered with marriage/couples counseling. |
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Questions from Recent Singles' Seminar: Why are men afraid of commitment? |
I believe that many men have not been taught how to be husbands or boyfriends. If a man has not been trained on the proper principles of a relationship (such as how to communicate with a woman), he will most likely run from getting into a committed relationship because he is not prepared to put in the large amount of work which is required within such a relationship. If a woman is interested in being in a committed relationship, then it is important that she expresses that desire to the man she is with. Further growth within the committed relationship can be fostered with marriage/couples counseling. |
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Questions from Recent Singles' Seminar: Why couples not in the mood? |
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When a married couple is not in the mood to have sex, it is important to still maintain intimacy in other ways such as cuddling, massaging, and kissing. But it is important for the married couple to make some time for sex. I find it interesting that people can press their way to work when they don't feel like going; however, when it comes to having sex with their spouse, they come up with all sorts of excuses. I encourage the married couples to press their way through when it comes to spending intimate time together. Sometimes married couples are not in the mood because they have allowed bitterness or unforgivingness to come through their door. Don't allow bitterness and unforgivingness to come through your door and take your love life hostage. Fight against it with love, communication, and sound counsel. |
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Questions from Recent Singles' Seminar: Is it wise to date outside your race? |
I believe that love can exceed the boundaries of race. Concerning marriage, the Bible has an issue with homosexual relationships but not the marriage of different races. If you are dating outside your race and you are in constant fear of what outside forces (i.e. parents and friends) will say about your relationship, you are setting yourself up for a failed relationship. However, it is important to note that love will drive out fear. In addition, if there is too large of a language barrier between both of you, dating that person may not be such a good idea because you will not be able to communicate effectively; a good relationship requires solid communication. |
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Questions from Recent Singles' Seminar: How long should you date before intimacy? |
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The Bible states that you must wait until marriage before you have sex. There are many negative implications that can appear when you have sex outside of marriage such as STDS, broken hearts, unwanted pregnancy, and mistaking lust for love. Saving your sex for your spouse is more powerful than giving away your sex away to 20 people (who you would rather forget).
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| Fast Facts |
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Halving his risk of heart attack. According to research in the American Journal of Cardiology, men who have sex at least twice weekly can cut their risk of heart disease almost in half. The study of over 1,000 men found that regular sex appears to have a protective effect on his, but not her, heart. |
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Men need to educate themselves about sex during pregnancy. Unless her doctor says otherwise, she's good to go and in many cases rearing given the engorgement of blood to her genitals and hormones. Men need to let her lead the way when it comes to sex, at the same time taking steps to overcome their issues, from counseling to buying her a baby doll dress to cover up her bulge. Finally, men need to realize that many women are their most orgasmic - and multi-orgasmic at this time. Keeping that the focus can divert his attention and help him to see her as more sexual and sensual than ever. (Source: Foxnews.com Sex Column) |
| Helpful Hints |
- Husbands and Wives know what turns each other on. For a husband it could be a smile, jeans and humor. For the Wife it could be her charm, skintight dresses, stilettoes and sexy wear.
- Some women are afraid of acting sexy because then they would have to follow through (AC). Because of this husband, when your wife takes you to 3rd base don't go all the time to the HOME PLATE.
- Wives do not need to orgasm ALL the time to enjoy sex (AC). Wives enjoy the intimacy and closeness. So husbands if she says she happy with the orgasm she really y is happy. There is nothing wrong with your wife is she does not orgasm all the time. HOWEVER, if she NEVER has than we have a problem and together you must find the answer. If may be physical issues, technique or position. But whatever find the solution together.
- The G-Spot is not the goal is loving and appreciation your wife. Some husbands have never heard of female ejaculation but it does exist. If your wife happens to be one learn what is happen and DO not get her for such actions.
- The More you exercise husbands and wives the more your libido will rise.
- Indiana University examined men and women all over the US and found that vibrator use during sexual interactions is quite common. Of all participants involved, 53% of women and 45% of men agreed 18 to 60 reported vibrator use during sex. From the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 91% used it during foreplay or intercourse of the woman. ALSO the first portable vibrator was advertised in a Sears catalog in 1918,
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