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Bring Your Hopes, Doubts and Questions
It's the question in our hearts when things go wrong-when we're abandoned, disappointed, hurt, when there is injustice in the world. Does God exist? Did He just leave us here on our own? How could He be good and yet allow evil? At Restoration Springs Church we're inviting you to join us as we tackle the tough questions-and the doubts-head-on. This weekend, come explore a relationship with the God who cares.
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If he stops, What Will you do, Wives?
Chapter from "Married Couples: Thou Shalt have Great Sex"
It is unfair and wrong for a wife to tell her man to stop a sexual vice and then withhold sex from him when he decides
to make the wife his only sexual desire. I understand, wives,
it may take a while for you to forgive him and trust him, but after a while, if you see his dedication, then you must turn the page. Some wives just have no heart. For a wife to
turn down requests for sex and not make herself sexually available to her husband is just plain wrong once the
change in the husband is permanent. Do I dare ask, did he turn to a sexual vice because you turned off the sexual
power that God gave you? I do not justify any wrong of the husband toward a wife, but if the husband makes the
change, the wife must relent.
I have counseled many wives who wanted their
husbands to stop sexual vices, but after the man stopped his vice, some of the wives did nothing, and I mean nothing. In fact, some of them became less sexual, and, on top of that, dared the husband to perform the sexual vice again. This does not compute. This will not work.
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Make her official
I encourage men to no longer make excuses for not marrying the girlfriend they live with who has been loving, loyal, and supportive to him. Because she has given those great qualities to you, she deserves that next step of marriage. Men, similar to how you have official documents for your car, home and other personal assets, it is now time to make your loving, loyal and supportive girlfriend your official wife. Ladies, when he officially marries you, then you can give him official loving.
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Excerpt of "New Sheets"
This is not a book with dos and don'ts of sex acts. In contrast, this book will hopefully get married couples talking
about sex. Because God has given married couples drives of
the flesh, individuals must learn to temper their drives according to their marital status. It's quite simple. If a couple
is not married, there is no sex. If a couple is married, they can
have all the sex they consent to based on prior mutual agreements. This is important because couples are still in their fleshly space suits. Food and sex are drives that must be
touched, handled, and fed. When someone is single, sexual flesh can't be pleased, but after marriage, all bets are off, and the time has come to please the flesh. This book is a bridge
that helps couples cross from single to married mind frames in
relation to sex. Married couples are holy already when they have coitus. This will be the major drumbeat throughout this
book. Things that are within limits and off-limits are truly up to the couple as they search their hearts. The only limits are adultery, homosexuality, bestiality, etc. Everything else is based on communication that the couple must work out
together.
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Thank you to my editor-in-chief Tyrone Waters.
Furthermore, if you don't have a church home we invite you to
Restoration Springs Interdenominational Church 1575 Thomaston Avenue in Waterbury.
www.rest.org
If you need baby blessings please contact me at 203-753-7377 or officiate weddings go to - S & M (Strong Marriages)
http://rest.org/SandMplus.htm
Remember In the Book of Ecclesiastes chapter 4 and verse 12 (Bible)
"And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."
TRANSLATION (With only husband and wife the commitment can easily fail, but with God, husband, and wife the cord of commitment is not quickly broken.)
Pastor TC Brantley
Restoration Springs Interdenominational Church
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Pastor TC with Stan Simpson and Jackie Brantley(wife). Recent interview will be on this Sunday at 10am.
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True definition of hypocrite (club and church)
In Greek, the word hypocrite means two faced. You are not a hypocrite if you go to a club and then go to church the next morning. A hypocrite goes to church on Sunday and then testifies that he was not at the club the night before. That is a hypocrite. |
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60 / 40 Rule
Chapter from "Married Couples: Thou Shalt have Great Sex"
Many couples have no idea how much their parents have affected them both negatively and positively.
Before you walk down the aisle and say, "I do," your parents have already taught you a way of thinking about
and acting in marriage. Be aware of this and be careful. In other words, before you build a marriage you must see,
interpret, and adjust the things you saw as a child-how your parents interacted within the marriage. Regardless if
you grew up in a traditional or nontraditional household,
you will still have internal issues to debate. Ideally, you will wrestle with these issues BEFORE you walk down the aisle.
Too many times, married couples fight unresolved battles inherited from their parents.
You would be surprised at how automatically you
become your father or mother during an argument. Many couples do this because they: 1) do what they learned as children and 2) are more comfortable or at ease acting like their role models-father or mother-in difficult times. We fail to understand that just as PHYSICAL attributes (nose, eyes, and hairline) link families together, so do EMOTIONAL attributes link families together.
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Come Back to Church This Weekend!
Do you ever feel disconnected and alone? Would you like to be a part of a real community of friends who go through life together? Then try church at Restoration Springs Church this Sunday. Here you will find friendly people striving for a better life, live upbeat music and a focus on living life with a purpose. Join us and see what church has to offer! |
Head Ache Does NOT Work any more
A study by University of Oklahoma health found that 20% of female migraine suffers reported relief from the headache after having an orgasms. Sex causes the release of endorphines and oxytocin, making you feel good whether you've got a headache or not.
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Improve Loving Making Husband
Let her drive the sexual positions. Simply give her the control and then you can enjoy the ride. |
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FACEBOOK and MYSPACE
No couple should have a private password for their myspace or facebook account under any circumstances. If your spouse does not want you to have someone on your facebook or myspace account, remove that person from your account. This must be done with no questions asked. |
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UNMET NEEDS = UNHAPPY SPOUSE
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A Man's Emotional Pain
Women, here is why I believe men can easily be emotionally scarred: Women are more use to getting into emotional cat fights with friends or relatives and then patching things up later. However, a man's pride may often prevent him from wanting to patch things up, leaving behind a raw emotional scar. These above perspectives present a potential conflict between within the relationship because the woman would want to work things out, while the man's pride would prevent him from wanting to work things out. In this situation, a wise woman will watch her tongue, because her words will cut deep into this type of man's spirit; also, a wise man will learn how to not let his pride hinder his ability to forgive and work through issues. |
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ADAM & EVE DAY
You and your spouse should have a day where you both spend time together at home naked. This task is easier when you don't have children. However, if you have children, you will have to limit that location to your bedroom, preferably after you have put the children to bed. This situation can also teach you and your spouse to appreciate each other's body without touching. |
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Don't Let the Phone Be Your Downfall
Having erotic conversations, sending erotic text messages, or having erotic pictures of your non-spouse will add some spice to your marriage. Erotic conversations, erotic text messages, or erotic pictures should be exclusively between you and your spouse. A non-spouse should never have these privileges. |
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Make each other a priority
It is important to make your spouse feel special (i.e. taking your spouse out on a romantic dinner). Unfortunately, due to unresolved issues, spouses may spend more time arguing and less time expressing love by making one's spouse feel special. To make that change, force yourself to make it a priority to make your spouse feel special. Your spouse should get a majority of your quality time; in other words, your friends should not be getting more quality time than your spouse. |
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Mutual Submission
Within a marriage, there should be mutual goals (goals that are achieved together, such as saving for a new car or a new home). This mutual concept applies to sex as well. When it comes to making love, spouses should work towards mutual satisfaction. In regards to married sex, an important component of mutual satisfaction is mutual submission. When you bow to each other in submission during lovemaking (by exclusively giving yourselves to each other's desires), you will stand against feelings of a stagnant love life. | |
Pastor TC on Radio
Hear DJ Buck and Nancy on August 27th 2009 (THIS THURSDAY) in having invited guest Pastor TC.
To hear previous shows go to Archive
Click to read some of the accomplishments of Pastor TC. All to the glory of God. |
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These are tough, uncertain times, filled with rapid changes that can shake our future, and our faith. If you have ever longed for a simpler time when things made sense and there was hope in something greater, come join us at Restoration Springs Interdenominational Church. Here we look past today's bad news, return to simple values and work toward a brighter future. Join us this weekend and be a part of a community that cares for one another. |
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Excerpt
from "Real Men Don't Have Closets"
GIANT PANDA
The female panda has a two- or three-day window in which she can get pregnant within
a year. The name of the game for a male
panda is timing. Timing is a companion of
communication. You can speak to your wife, but if the timing is off, you will not get a great opening in the end.
The male panda has to wait. Husbands, yes there are times we have to wait for the right time and place to make our move. A wife may
not hate a quickie, but not ALL THE TIME. A wife wants to know that you think she is worth the time. Many husbands will attest to the time when the wife took a long time to get dressed
for something. Yet after you waited, you were blessed with a beautiful creature.
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Excerpt from "Successful Marriages for Successful Men"
Another Point About Women
The first doctor to deal with this was Dr. Samuel Howard Monell, who talked about the pelvic massage, but the so-called inventor of the vibrator was Joseph Mortimer Gransville. In the 1920s, the vibrator moved from the doctor's office to the bedroom.
In the Victorian age, women were told to ignore their sexual needs and only be caught up in their
husbands' needs and birthing babies. It was not proper for women to have orgasms. And such mind frames have stayed with us even unto this day.
Climax is a natural thing from the Lord. I believe
some men may be having climax envy. For some reason, God made woman multi-orgasmic. In other
words, a wife can have multi-orgasms.However, a man, especially as he gets older, can have only one orgasm to her many.
Because of this point, men have become restrictive and placed that restriction on women. Instead of being envious of this point, men should just enjoy ride with their wives. A husband should say, in
essence, I made my wife enjoy the time of her life and I was the author of it. And, men, you never know, seeing your wives have fun might fuel the energy in you to climax again as well.
Brothers, within the confines of your marriage, you
MUST make your wife orgasm BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY. When I say any means, I do NOT include another person. Only you and her are in the
room.
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Choose ye this day: Spouse, Family, and Friends
After God, the next importance within your life should be your spouse, family, and then friends. Any spouse who does not follow this order will have a troubled marriage. When you are married, you should place your spouse's needs and concerns over yours. Such an approach displays a love that is unselfish. Do not take the above advice for granted; the more you understand this advice, there will less fights and more love in your home. |
| Overcome Your Issues and Love Again
If you your marriage is in a rocky stage, I encourage you to reflect on the mistakes you made, and address those mistakes by talking it over with your spouse (it may be helpful if a marriage counselor assists you through the process). I encourage spouses to work together through trying times instead of attempting to use divorce as an easy way out. If you want your spouse to turn towards you in a loving way, then you must turn away from your negative attitudes and behaviors and work on adopting positive attitudes and behaviors (once again marriage counseling may be helpful). I advise that you make the first move in working out your issues and bringing back love within the marriage.
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DO NOT TALK ON THE PHONE WHILE YOU ARE HAVING DINNER WITH YOUR WIFE! Plain and simple!
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