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Appreciation Service
If your man makes an HONEST living, why not have an appreciation day for him.
Yes,it's easy to get on him for working too much.But lets look at the opposite situation;would you rather he be lazy and you do all the work?
Since the answer is no, learn to appreciate a man who works for his family. |
Just like Me
Many women get upset with their man because he does not act or think like her.
Yes, that is right because he is a MAN and you are a WOMAN. The sooner you understand that, the less aggravated you will get.
A man could never act or think exactly like his woman because they are different from one another.
Appreciate and learn from the differences. |
How Long?
How long does your man have to say sorry before you forgive him?
If he has not cheated, forgiving smaller issues should be easy.
Believe it or not, you are not perfect yourself; therefore, you should learn to forgive. |
Speak to Your man
Speak to where you want your man to be. If you only speak to where he is he will stay there.
Men love a challenge so in your wisdom instead of fusing at him, challenge him by giving him a romantic goal and once he reaches such reward him for his efforts.For every accomplishment he makes, give him a reward. |
Mission
if you Choose
to Accept
Most husbands have a freak inside of them? Their desire to have sex is not sin, its only nature.
The job of every wife is to find, acknowledge, respect and love the freak side of her husband.
As long as the freak is not conducting any illegal activity,be the one who supplies his demand. |
Why Church?
Since God created communication, marriage and sex, doesn't it make sense to learn His word from an anointed and appointed teacher who rightly divides the word of truth.
Restoration Springs Church is a great place to meet new friends, find needed encouragement and discover God's plan for you. We invite you to join us. It's a move in the right direction! |
Thank you to my editors Tyrone Waters and Michele L. Wood.
Furthermore, if you don't have a church home we invite you to
Restoration Springs Interdenominational Church 1575 Thomaston Avenue in Waterbury.
If you need baby blessings please contact at 203-753-7377 or officiants to weddings go to - S & M (Strong Marriages)Sincerely,
Remember In the Book of Ecclesiastes chapter 4 and verse 12 (Bible)
"And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken."
TRANSLATION (With only husband and wife the commitment can easily fail, but with God,husband, and wife the cord of commitment is not quickly broken.)
Pastor TC Brantley
Restoration Springs Interdenominational Church
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DEPOSIT LOVE and not Just Observations
Many ladies have PH.Ds in "fussing at their man". Yet you can draw your man close to you better with with honey than with bitter kool aid. Compliment your man instead of fussing at him all the time. Let him catch his breathe.
In fact, Instead of fusing at your man, compliment him tonight for no apparent reason.
You will be surprised of his response.
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Hard Saying
Many wives have a difficult time showing appreciation for their man. One reason for this is, throughout their childhood, these women may have NEVER seen their own mother appreciate their father.
Some women grew up hearing their mom fuss at dad a majority of the time.
So now even though such a wife may have a good man, she may be conditioned to complain about him a majority of the time because that is the same behavior she witnessed with her mother.
Some church women become the church mother (mean and bitter) of their own home instead of a loving wife. Bitterness is the crime but forgiveness is the key to the jail.
Ladies who have this issue, you must learn to somehow turn from this type of behavior. |
This would not kill you
If you have a good husband at home, would it kill you to one time buy a dress and say, "I brought it with you in mind to tear it off."
Simple instructions for a smart wife. |
Man Changed
Some
Some things will never change in your man, but when he attempts please acknowledge it.
Some ladies only acknowledge the things they disapprove about their man and NEVER acknowledge when they see he is striving to make small improvements. This must change.
When he hears you and tries to change course for the better,let him know that you appreciate the change he is making. |
Talkers and Lovers
Husbands are not born talkers but lovers while wives are born talkers and slow to love.
Find the middle ground ladies. Since you know he loves sex, and you know you love communication,combine the two.
Wives, do in a way that you are blessed and he is blessed. |
| Forgiveness
"Forgiveness is medicine for the hurt and not for the abuser."
These are the words of Christ and Madea (Tyler Perry).
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Promises Kept
Just like you want your husband to keep his promises to you, you must in turn keep your promises to him.
If you promised him a night of passion,then you must give him that night of passion. |
| I want him to stop
I believe all men have vices that their wives either disgust or tolerate.
When you ask your husband to stop something,there must be a replacement of the vice.
Next time you ask your husband to stop a vice, offer a constant and consistent replacement such as giving him the loving he would have received from self loving.
If you don't want your husband out a night, there must be a substitute to the vice. When you help him replace his vice, you only save your marriage down the road. | |
Pastor TC on Radio Hear pastor with Buck, Nancy and Chef on March 5, 2009.
To hear previous shows go to Archive
Click to read some of the accomplishments of Pastor TC. All to the glory of God. |
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Excerpt
from "Real Men Don't Have Closets" by T. Charles Brantley
"It will take a true man not to stay under the banner of condemned but to move over into the area of convicted. A convicted man will do right whether his wife sees it or not. He can be condemned and still lie, cheat, and steal. However, a convicted man has a conscience. "
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Excerpt from "Successful Marriages for Successful Men" by T. Charles Brantley
"This is a strong point for men to regulate within the confines of their marriage. In turn, wives must try to comprehend the sex drive. How else can you explain prostitution, porn, strip clubs, and erotic chat rooms? One thing you learn in business is that
if there is no demand that supply will evaporate.
I think we can honestly say that the sex industry is not going away because there is a market for it due to the male sex drive. Looking at all the ED pills in
the market explains why 70 and over men still
want to have a libido that reminds them of their youth."
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Excerpt of "New Sheets" by T. Charles Brantley
"As a husband must adapt to his wife, so must a wife adapt
to her husband. For most wives, this means adapting to their
husbands' sex drives. To adapt, a wife can't look at her husband's urges as nasty or out of context.
God gave man a natural, strong, healthy drive in the beginning. The wife and husband together must understand
this drive and make sure the drive is following the roadside safety instructions that are created by God and the couple.Remember, the man is going to drive; the question is, on what
highway and how fast?
In reference to the highway, the husband has only one highway to drive and that is his wife. The wife can't get tired
of her husband driving on her highway. Yes, there will be potholes to fix and crashes along the way, but this can't deter
the wife from allowing her husband to drive. Remember, ladies, if he doesn't drive on your highway, he will find
another if he's not totally sold out to Christ."
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