At the present, you may be fly and have the body of a model, but times may change such properties.

 

This is why it is so important for couples to be in love and not in lust. When you love the intangibles more than the tangibles you will secure a great marriage in the long run.

 

However, when the body changes, don't just accept it, but find ways to address the issue in love and find a compromise that works for both parties.  

Way too many couples forget to flirt with one another. Flirting attracted you and it takes flirting to help the marriage.

 

For many married couples, flirting is only experienced through another woman or man that is not their spouse after the marriage.

 

To combat outside forces, couples need to continue to flirt with one another. And husbands, flirting does not mean she wants sex, she just wants to insure that she still has your attention. 

 

In these economic times, couples need to feed each other a good helping of conversation and intimacy.

 

When couples feed each other there is never a need to go hungry.

 

Husbands, if you don't like your wife talking on the phone a lot, are you giving her a daily dose of communication?
Wives, if you don't want your husband to do freaky things by himself, are you giving him a daily dose of intimacy?

Feed each other and never go hungry.

Proverbs chapter 20 and verse 28 says:

 

" A faithful man shall abound with blessings; but he that makes haste to be rich shall not be innocent"

 

 (Translation: Short cuts will only lead to poverty in the end yet those who are consistent and faithful to God will be blessed)

Until she left Ike in 1976, this great woman stayed with a man who abused and depressed her life.

 

The first problem was meeting Ike at the age of 18. She was young and Ike took advantage of this.

 

Anna Mae Bullock, Tina, endured until she could not endure anymore. She was blessed to have made it out the marriage alive because many women have died both physically and emotional by being in such marriage. Don't be apart of this number.

Husbands before your wife feels your member, let her feel your heart, dedication and truthfulness of your love to her.

 

Too many times in the morning, the husband touches his wife in the back with his wood instead of love, time, and patience.

 

Change your objective and she will have no problem in turning over and loving you back sometimes.

Men, we must learn to cuddle and not nail our wives in the back with our member. When you continue to do such, you only put her in the mind of sex instead of a mind of comfort.
 
Husbands when you hug your wives from the back, your penis will automatically start to work, so when that happens point your member toward the bed and not toward her back.
Upon doing this, you will raise your wife testosterone WHEN you continue to hug her.
 

Fathers, how you train your daughter is how she will become. If you treat her negative, she will treat her husband negative. If you break promises, she will expect broken promises from her husband. 
 
And wives who had hurtful fathers, do not make your husband into your father. Remember, he is not your father but your husband. Do not let your husband pay for the hurt your father has placed upon you.

The key to a fight is to stop fighting and come together.

 

Instead of focusing on what you disagree on focus on what you do agree upon.

When you can find what you both agree upon, you can then find the solution to the disagreements. 

 

Bottom B**ch

I heard this term on VH1, which describes how some guys feel toward women that love them but they use them like a tool or backup system. These women allow themselves to be used as a last option in regards to sex or money. In other words, when all else fail or that particular man can't get a booty call or wants money, they will fall back on their bottom b**ch.
 
This as you know is unacceptable in any matter. This again is why I feel marriage is good before sex, because if you continue to give away the milk for free (or give up your sex before marriage) he has nothing to show forth his comment to you.
 
If a man can not commit to you, why commit your body to him? You ladies are not a bottom feeder or low life. 

 
Ladies, do not allow a man to manipulate you for his selfish desires.  If that man is not going to appreciate and be committed  to you, you need to move on to a man who will.

In summary, ladies don't be "it" in the B**ch.

This picture speaks a thousand words.

 

This goes for both men and women who bring things to the bedroom. Bring your love and not your work.

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Most couples deal with past mistakes from their relationships.

 

 

Ladies you have no real competition. You can create intimate images for your man that he can will never forget. This is a better option versus worrying about who he is looking at.

 

His interest may be in other vises (clubs and cinema) , but you are the real thing. This is similiar to Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell song "There is nothing like the real thing."

 

Yet for you to give him intimate images, he must give you intimate conversations, faithfulness and love. One hand washes the other.

 

Again, wives your teddy lingerie has the power over any faithful, committed and loving husband.  

Men we have high testosterone and it works well, but many times this is not what your wife wants to see FIRST thing in the morning.
 
So, cage your lion (member). Hear her concerns and dreams. Too many times, our un-caged lion will put us in a selfish mind-state, but having such a selfish midstate will not get you more "nookie", if anything, it will get you less.
 
Cage your lion, and a good wife will let it out every now and then because she knows there is nothing worst than a lion that is always caged;however, for her to let you out brother,  you must allow her to let her emotions out as well.  

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