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Simple Truths for Authentic Living October 2010
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Greetings!
Wherever
there is a human being, there is an
opportunity for a kindness. ~ Seneca
Venturing out to run errands, enjoy a meal or simply play at the park often exposes my kids to actions they can learn from. Generally we're blessed to witness a few good deeds but can always count on enjoying some behavior of the "didn't your mother teach you any better" caliber. Those are the events that cause you to throw your hands up in the air while thinking to yourself, Really? Really?!
Sometimes I'm dumbfounded by thoughtless choices people make. I know I'm not the only disgusted one, because there are blogs, magazines, newspapers and books bulging with stories of rude, indifferent people for whom the only thing that matters is me. Me. Me. Me.
In an effort to make a difference, starting with this newsletter, I'll offer quick tips for cultivating character, one trait per month. It'll be short, sweet and inspiring; and sometimes, even really funny. This month's trait: Attentiveness.
Also in this issue is the monthly giveaway you won't want to miss, some new websites to explore, and, of course, an Anger Management Tip that sheds some light on ways we deal with unrefined anger.
Helping you keep your cool, with simple truths for authentic living...
Teresa TeresaDrake.com
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Cultivating Character: Attentiveness
"It is amazing how quickly the kids
learn to drive a car, yet are unable to understand the lawnmower, snow-blower
or vacuum cleaner." ~ Ben Bergor For Adults: Only after we notice the world (people, issues, opportunities) can we begin to care for it. Every act of kindness is, at first, an act of attention. When we pay attention, when we are alert to the world, we improve substantially the quality of our responses and therefore the quality of our lives and the lives of those who touch ours. For Children:
Attentiveness is showing the worth of a person by giving full concentration to his or her words. Children can be encouraged to do the following: - Look at people when they are spoken to
- Ask questions if they don't understand
- Sit or stand up straight
- Do not draw attention to themselves
- Keep their eyes, ears, hands, feet and mouth from distraction.
Sources: Choosing Civility by P.M. Forni, "Third Watch" SRVCA Newslettera a a a a a a a a a a a |
Anger Management Tip
The Three Faces of Unrefined Anger
People who face difficulties processing and managing anger haven't cultivated successful methods for communicating anger. They're still relying on tactics useful in childhood. As an adult, these practices (yelling, blaming, bulllying, etc.) are immature, inappropriate, ineffective and ultimately, hurtful for all involved.
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Websites Worth a Look... The MOB Society . . . For Moms of Boys by Moms of Boys. A website and blog in support of moms "reaching the hearts of boys for the Gospel & preparing a generation of men to love the Lord." Website features a blog, resources, and giveaways, and is a must-see for moms of boys!  PureFreedom.com & SecretKeepergirl.com. These two websites "place a special emphasis on equipping moms to raise their tween girls to be sexually pure, modest and emotionally whole teen girls." Resources of Pure Freedom offer frank and transparent books and events for teen and college-aged students. Articles of Interest
Car Booster Seats to Avoid, an article from CNNMoney.com, highlights these latest findings: "The
good news is that booster seats are getting safer. The bad news is that
there are still some seats out there that may not protect your child in
a crash, a report released in September showed."
You can read the article here. Or, check out the complete review of 72 booster seats here,
which includes quick-to-read lists of Best Bets, Good Bets and Not
Recommended, according to the Insurance Institute for Highway Safety. Quick Links
FYI...This month I'm speaking in Crows Landing, Marin, Pleasant Hill, Roseville, San Jose, Tracy and Walnut Creek. If you'd like to come see me, click here for details. www.teresadrake.com Anger Management Tips by Teresa Simple Truths for Authentic Living (Archived Newsletters) On My Bookshelf (What I'm currently reading) a a a a a a a a a a a a The difference between something good
and something great is attention to detail.
~ Charles R. Swindoll
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