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January Special
Keeping Your Resolutions
Start Getting Organized
Isabella's Bella Cucina
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AYS Says . . .         January 2011
Greetings!

 


AYS will be donating a portion of this quarter's proceeds to Harbor House of Central Florida.

Harbor House is partnering with Orange County Animal Services to build the first PAWS (Pet And Women's Shelter) to house the pets of domestic violence survivors. Almost half of all domestic violence survivors delay leaving an abusive relationship because they do not have a safe place for their pets. Human victims - adults and children alike - often feel they have no choice but to remain in violent households in order to protect their pets.

There is a growing public awareness of the direct relationship between domestic violence and animal abuse. Each year, defenseless pets face the grim reality that they will be victims of domestic abuse. Research shows that individuals who abuse animals rarely stop there.

For more information, visit the Harbor House website at http://www.harborhousefl.com/give-help/help-us-build-a-kennel.


If you want to keep up with AYS, you can become a fan of At Your Service (AYS) on Facebook. AYS also posts periodic updates on our activities at aysflorida on Twitter.

The Tweetdeck application. an easy way to keep up with all your social networking, is available at http://www.tweetdeck.com. Come see us online!

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Keeping Your Resolutions

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Whose bright idea was it for the new year to start in the big middle of winter? Oh yeah, thank Pope Gregory XIII for that. Most of us have trouble even getting out of bed on the dark, cold mornings of January. And now we've made a commitment to ambitious, virtuous, game-changing resolutions. And we were probably crazy enough to write them down, as well as tell everyone about them.

How are we going to escape mockery? (Not to mention making those life-style changes we know we should and really want to.)

Here are some tips from ehow.com by Bob Strauss.

Aim low.
It goes without saying that most New Year's resolutions are easier announced (or written) than done-but if you set the bar too high, you're doomed from the start. Instead of a sweeping declaration like "I will lose 30 pounds by April and finally fit into that dress," target a goal that's more attainable, like losing 10 or 15 pounds.

Don't overload yourself.
It's difficult enough for the average person to follow through on one ambitious New Year's resolution; why on earth would you saddle yourself with three or four? Choose the most pressing issue at hand - losing weight, finding a girlfriend, improving your relationship with your parents - and concentrate on that. Trying to do everything simultaneously practically guarantees failure across the board.

Tell everyone you know.
One school of thought says that New Year's resolutions are best kept to oneself, but look at it this way: the more people to whom you announce your resolution (say, to get out of your dead-end job by spring), the more people there'll be to prod you along if you fall behind. There's no shame in seeking help if you can't accomplish your resolution on your own.

Reward yourself.
Following through on a New Year's resolution is rarely easy, so a little Pavlovian conditioning goes a long way. If you've resolved to shop less, stroke yourself for not buying those shoes by springing for a steaming hot cappuccino at the mall. If you've resolved to be nicer to people, buy yourself a nice jacket after enduring that tedious cocktail party without delivering any insults.

Wait until spring.
Sometimes the best way to accomplish a New Year's resolution is to make it at a time of year of your choosing, rather than the one dictated by the calendar. May 1 is a good alternate date, since the change of season will neatly coincide with the change you're hoping to accomplish in yourself.

[This is part two of an article that began in December's AYS Says...]

Start Getting Organized
 
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If "Get Organized" made it to your New Year's resolution list, you may be wondering how to achieve that goal. Whether you want to be able to invite friends to your home on the spur of the moment or you're tired of wasting time and energy trying to find your vegetable peeler or that special scarf or the stapler, here are some tips from organizational gurus on line.

 

Seven Simple Tips to Organize Your Space from onewithnow.com by Manal.

 

1.      Just start.

If you wait for the right time or to have a complete plan before you do something, you'll never get it done. The best antidote is action. Go to the space you want to organize and take everything out. Once everything is out of its place, you have to deal with it.

2.      Identify problem habits.

What are thoughts and behaviors add to your physical or mental clutter? Once you become aware of those barriers, try to break the pattern.

3.      Work with what you have.

If you need something, you can get it as you progress: it will be a nice break and change of routine.

4.      Things don't have to be perfect.

Don't get bogged down by details. Focus on the improvements you have made so far and be prepared to change some of your ideas.

5.      Find uses for the stuff you own.

Don't go buying stuff to replace what you have. You may also get creative in how you use your space.

6.      Keep only what you use.

Getting rid of what you don't use is harder when you start thinking of what you could do with your stuff. If you're unsure whether to get rid of something, put it in a visible place and put a date on it within 8 weeks. If you don't use it before that date, get rid of it.

7.      Create an ongoing maintenance process.

Once you've deal with your problem space, you'll have a better understanding of how you got there. Take advantage of this knowledge while it's fresh and create a simple maintenance process you can apply on a regular basis to eliminate the need for another big organization project.

 

Six Reasons to Let it Go from unclutterer.com.

 

 You don't use it, love it, need it, or treasure it.

 

It's broken, busted, damaged, or destroyed and you haven't fixed it in six months.

 

You have multiples of it. (Just keep the best.)

 

It's expired.

 

You don't have anywhere to store it.

 

It doesn't fit in the life you desire.

 

Five Top Organizing Tips from punkrawkyoga.com by jenny lens.

 

1.      If you don't have time or inclination to organize yourself, ask an organized friend to help you  or hire a pro. Or bring someone in, once a month or so, if you cannot stay organized. Accept it and deal.


2.      It's easier to sort and discard when someone else is spending their time and energy to help. You can't sit down and get lost in pile of books or magazines. You must keep focused.


3.      Organization is cheap! Find boxes, trays, shelves, and such at a discount store, hardware store, thrift shop or yard sale. Use things you already own, but aren't using.


4.      Don't be seduced by expensive filing or storage systems you can't afford. They don't ensure successful organization.


5.      Get ready to commit to mindful organization of your space and stuff.

 

January is National Get-Organized Month.  Call on AYS for any organization project that is too big or too time consuming to tackle on your own.

 

Featured Business
Each month AYS Says features a local business that might fill a need for our subscribers.


 

Isabella's Bella Cucina has been the passion and dream of its creator, Isabella Morgia di Vicari, for several years.  Isabella is a first generation American born in this country. Her passion and love for life, family and food has deep roots from a family who has owned and operated several Italian restaurants in central Florida since the early 1970s. 

 

Today, Isabella is a personal chef who specializes in authentic Italian and Spanish food.  Isabella's Bella Cucina offers a private gourmet dining experience for eight or more in your own home, as well as full catering services for any of your special events. Personalized cooking classes are available in your home or at Aggressive Appliances in Orlando.  She also delivers one-two weeks of healthy conscience delicious meals customed for your dietary needs. 

 

Visit foodwithpassion.com to learn more about Chef Isabella and her upcoming events. She also shares recipes and you can even ask her your cooking questions.

 

Enjoy!

 

 

Jolynn Haven       Lynette Reynolds       Rod Wiesinger


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