ACHY BREAKY BREAKOVER
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If you saw Larry Crowne, you already know that he divorced, took on too much debt, worked at what looked like a big box store, and was their best employee, and yet was fired. It shook him up, to say the least. He had been just going and doing whatever he had done for many years. He was forced to re-evaluate his life, and went back to college. He was fortunate enough to meet a young female friend who gave him a makeover. His life changed and all sorts of things he never dreamed were possible opened up to him. Including falling in love with Julia Roberts.
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Life sometimes needs ...
a makeover! |
If we all could have a young person with great taste befriend us and give us a makeover, that would be great. But it doesn't often happen that way. However, you can accomplish a self-made makeover. It starts with taking a hard look at how you present yourself. No matter whether the divorce was your idea or not, it's a challenging experience and many people experience feelings that no one will ever find them attractive again. One of the ways to cope with this is to make sure that you feel good about the way you look. If you have ever watched even one episode of TLC's What Not to Wear, you have seen what a dramatic difference that the right clothes, haircolor and cut, and makeup will make. When you look good, you feel good and you're better able to navigate through the pitfalls of whatever situation you find yourself in with ease and confidence.
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What Not to Wear at Work
in the 3-Way Mirror |
A makeover doesn't have to cost a million dollars. Some stores, like Nordstrom's, offer personal shoppers, at no cost. They will choose items for you to try on that you would probably never have noticed. You will find your personal style by trying on lots of clothes. Some will be awful, and some will be funny, but a few of them will make you look at yourself in an entirely different way. If you don't have a personal shopper, take a friend with you who always looks put together. Open your mind to new things. And find a great tailor. Some items you find might be great, but they need to be tailored to fit you body!
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Which would you choose? |
Think of someone you know whose hair always looks great, and ask them where they have their hair done. I personally have my own hair stylist who is my daughter, Katie, but most of you will have to ask around. Don't go in saying what you want done. Have a conversation about your hair and your routine, and ask them for advice. Take a chance - it always grows back! And ask them for detailed styling instructions, and even go back and ask again if something isn't looking right. Often hair stylists either are or know makeup consultants that aren't at the cosmetics counter in a department store. Again, be open to suggestions and make it clear how much time you are willing to devote to looking great.
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Susan Boyle Before |
There are other ways to take care of yourself, too, like getting a massage regularly, having a manicure and pedicure, and making sure that you, even if you are a parent, have time to do things that you like and spend time with adult friends. It goes without saying that eating right and getting regular exercise will help you manage the stress of any situation better. A makeover does not need to involve plastic surgery or any other extreme measures!
A divorce is never easy, but it opens new possibilities to those who are willing to try new things. One of the things I ask new clients to do is to envision what they would like their new life to look like. That helps me know what my client's priorities are, and how to find solutions that are win-win, if possible.
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What a Difference! |
If you, a friend, relative, client or colleage need assistance in a family law matter, please consider providing them with my name. From the first call or email, your referral will be treated with compassion and respect. If I can't help them, I will send them to the most competent attorney that they can afford, without making them feel bad about it!
We understand. We can help.
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Life is not a destination!
Make yourself happy! |
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Jimmy Vaught
Vaught Law Firm, P.C.
www.austindivorcelawyer.com
(512) 342-9980
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