La Jolla Elementary School
Parents, Please Read this Important Information
Regarding Social Networking Sites (Facebook, MySpace)

Dear Parents,

It has come to our attention that many of our fourth and fifth graders have illegally signed on to get their own Facebook accounts. It may be that parents are either unaware that they are underage for such accounts or unaware that they have these accounts (they may have set them up with the help of an older sibling while at a friend's house). We discussed this with the fourth and fifth grade students at a recent assembly and let them know that a follow-up eblast would be sent to parents.
 
I asked Sigurd Kallhovde, aka Mr. K, to put together some information to share with parents concerning these accounts.
 
Age Requirement for Social Network Sites:
Social networking sites ("SN") such as Facebook and MySpace are prohibited for children under 13 years of age. If a sub-13 child gives his or her real birthday, the site refuses the account and gives the following message: "Sorry, you are ineligible to sign up". By extension, a child under 13 with an SN account has not been truthful about his or her age.
 
Here is the page where one can report underage Facebook members:
 
http://www.facebook.com/help/contact.php?show_form=underage
 
Educating your child when they become of age:
When your children are of age for SN accounts, they will need some good training and advice on how to use these sites appropriately. Children tend to, unwittingly or otherwise, divulge personal information on SN sites that could be exploited by somebody with malicious intent.
 
They also need to be made aware that everything somebody posts or does on a SN site adds up and affects their reputations and may stay on the Internet for the rest of their lives.
 
Employers and college admissions officers use SNs to filter applications: One third of employers surveyed had rejected applicants based on what they found out about them online.
 
What you can do to protect your child from SN risks when they become of age:
 
  • Make sure your child uses privacy settings. By default, these settings are very generous in the way personal information is distributed.
  • Parents should set up their own SN accounts and ask their child to be an "unrestricted friend" on their account. In this way, you can monitor your child's SN activity.  

Here's a page with a lot of useful information for parents:
 
http://www.facebook.com/help/?safety=parents

Thank You,
Donna Tripi