#Hillsborough Education Foundation                                                                         June 2010

Mentee Graduating 

Mentor

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Greetings!
Chamberlain High School Graduate Gives the Foundation and His Mentor Accolades

Stephen ArceBelow is the full text of a speech written and delivered by Steven Arce, a recent graduate of Chamberlin High School and a Hillsborough Education Foundation Scholarship recipient. The speech was delivered May 22, 2010 at the 2010 Scholarship Reception made possible by Citi, the presenting sponsor. Steven entered the Take Stock in Children scholarship program his sophomore year.  His personally chosen mentor, Mr. Marcus, was his English and journalism teacher.  During his two-year participation, Steven changed his career goals three times based on experiences in classes, interaction with his mentor, and actively participating  in the writing for and production of the Chieftain, the school's newspaper.  Starting this fall, Steven will begin his college career at the University of Florida. 

As you read Steven's speech, you will be very proud of this confident young man, who along with his mentor, Mr.  Marcus, has carefully planned his career and has certain resolve toward achieving the goals he pursues. There can never be any doubt about the importance of the Foundation's scholarship program and in particular, the positive impact Steven's mentor and the many other mentors have on the children and young adults they support. 

 I received my scholarship from the Hillsborough Education Foundation and Lazydays in 2007 when I just a sophomore in high school. I remember at the time I had dreams to be a doctor. I wanted to surpass myself and reach my goals. I wanted to go on to college and get a degree so I could be functional in a world that was increasingly getting more difficult. I didn't think about money at the time. I believed that my hard work would prevail, and that eventually, somehow, I would pull through.

That 'eventually' came that sophomore year. One of my counselors, Mrs. Aplin, called me up to fill out a form for the Hillsborough Education Foundation. I filled it out, hoping I would get something. And soon enough, I received a letter in the mail saying I won a scholarship. I was excited, and happy that I was one step closer to being able to pay for college. Mrs. Aplin called me up some time later and told me I had to choose a mentor. They had suggested Mr. Marcus, my creative writing teacher. It was a good suggestion, for Mr. Marcus was the one teacher who probably knew me more than every other. I was writing out my thoughts and feelings in his class, what I thought, what I believed in, what I wanted out of life. I was proving myself to him as a writer. Gladly, I told Mrs. Aplin that I would choose him as my mentor. And what a good decision that was. Mr. Marcus has proved to be more than just a mentor to me. He's been a friend, an adviser, a guardian even. My sophomore year he asked if I wanted to be a part of the school newspaper. I was a bit wary about it; I was not fond of the idea of writing so much with so many limits. And indeed I was not fond of the limits I had by working on the Chieftain at first. But it was the most enriching experience I had at Chamberlain. Soon, I learned that taking care of patients and marrying myself to a hospital was not my vocation. It was writing. I began to love journalism and what it meant to the world. Being able to spread the truth and inform people was attractive to me. I can thank Mr. Marcus for letting me discover it.

And while I have changed my decision to become a journalist and instead go into law (Yes that might seem ironic to you all), I have done so because I know have the confidence and opportunity to go to college now. Thanks to the Hillsborough Education Foundation, Mr. Marcus, my family, my teachers... everyone who's helped me really... I can say that this fall I'll be a freshman at the University of Florida. I thank the Hillsborough Education Foundation and my sponsor once again for letting me have the opportunity to be receiving another scholarship. Thank you.

Mr. Marcus expressed the following regarding his relationship with Steven: "I wish I could say that as his mentor, I inspired Steven to achieve.  Quite frankly, he's been more of an inspiration to me. Steven's dedication is unparalleled and his motivation to excel has been infectious in our journalism class.

Throughout our relationship, I've had the privilege of offering Steven opportunities and advice.  He's taken both and made the best of them, sometimes by doing what I recommend and sometimes by reasoning things out and making his own decisions.  I'm proud to have contributed to Steven's development, but he gets all the credit."

It is apparent from comments shared by Mr. Marcus mutual respect has been cultivated throughout the mentoring relationship. Certainly, both will forever be positively impacted by the mentoring experience.

Which rings stronger for you? "Out of sight, out of mind" or "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"

These two old adages take opposite viewpoints when relationships have become well established but separation invades due to circumstances and through no cause of the people involved.  Because of your participation in the Hillsborough Education Foundation's mentoring program, your dedication to your mentee and to the program is most evident.  There is a serious need for you to make an effort to continue your presence and relationship with your mentee over the summer break. 

Here are a few suggestions for keeping dialog going and having your positive influence continue to be felt over the coming months:

Communication Tools:

·         Exchange E-mail

This is probably one of the best ways to converse as access is up to the individual and not as demanding as a telephone call or text message.  In addition, your mentee's writing and composition skill will continue to be practiced through your email exchanges.  Pictures of summer activities can be exchanged which can visually add to the topics of conversation.

·         Twitter

Twitter icon 48x48You may recall in the March Update we announced the availability to "tweet" through the Foundations Twitter site.  If you haven't tried it yet, here are the directions for getting started:

Twitter is a free service that lets you keep in touch with people through the exchange of quick, frequent answers to one simple question: What's happening? Join today to start receiving Hillsedufnd's tweets.  Start the fun now; just click on the button below:
 
Follow us on Twitter
 
Messages are limited to 140 characters. 

To get a dictionary of abbreviations go to http://pistachioconsulting.com/top-15-twitter-acronyms. 

                  ·          Phone Calls
 

The warmth of your voice, the smile your mentee hears, the tone used for expressing concern, giving praise, acknowledging humor makes telephone talk almost as effective as in-person conversations.  Furthermore, the immediate give and take during your conversation can instantly resolve any misunderstandings or miscommunications.  Written messages can often be misinterpreted because they are unaccompanied by body language or voice intonations.

Here are a few points of which you need to be mindful:

The stipulation that no in-person visits can take place in any location except on the mentee's school premises continues to apply during vacation days.

Be watchful of what you say and how you say it.  Verbiage taken out of context can sometimes cause problems inadvertently.

Enjoy your summer and continue to reap the rewards of mentoring through continued contact with your mentee by embracing the adage..."Absence makes the heart grow fonder!"

 
KH2GO Step 3: Helping Your Mentee Find the Right Fit

A student aware of the program of study he or she will pursue will have an easier time narrowing down college choices. Some colleges will not offer the program of study your mentee has chosen while others will be recognized for their work in that particular field. If your mentee has not selected an area of study, he or she should not worry. There is time between the end of high school and the first few semesters of college to decide.

To help your mentee determine the right fit, take a few minutes to map out potential majors together. Encourage your mentee to do some research to determine the classes students have to take within a chosen major and the colleges that offer strong programs in that field. 

The Foundation Office is Moving
 

The Hillsborough Education Foundation will be relocating to El Centro Espanol this month. Staff will maintain current email addresses; however, telephone numbers will change. The new main number for the Hillsborough Education Foundation will be (813) 574-0260.  

Centro

                      Hillsborough Education Foundation

2306 North Howard Ave

Tampa, FL  33607

           
 
 
In This Issue
Chamberlain High School Graduate Gives the Foundation and His Mentor Accolades
Which Rings Stronger for You?
KH2GO Step 3
Foundation Office is Moving
Mentors Needed
Mentor Recommitment
Important Dates
Mentors Needed
Have friends or colleagues who would make an amazing mentor? Send their information to Julie Rocco and she will contact them! 
Mentor Recommitment

Providing ongoing mentoring to your mentee offers continuity in his/her life and builds upon the established foundation of trust you have developed throughout the course of your relationship. You will soon be receiving a letter along with a form asking you to recommit to serving as a mentor during the 2010-11 school year. Please take a moment to complete the form and send it back to the attention of Julie Rocco at 2306 North Howard Ave, Tampa, FL 33607.

The mentoring team at the Hillsborough Education Foundation looks forward to continually supporting your role as a mentor and thanks you for your service to our youth.

Contacts
Programs Director
(813) 231-1970
 
Pat Wharton
Student Advocate
(813) 231-1971
 
Julie Rocco
Programs Specialist
813-231-1924
 
 

Let us know if you have any questions or concerns.

 

Whether you have been a mentor for many years or just joined the program, we are excited to have you as part of our mentoring team.
 
The Foundation and your students are more than grateful for your dedication and the honor you bring to the title "MENTOR."

 
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Important Dates

Last Day of School/End of Fourth Grading Period/2nd Semester. ..June 10, 2010

Teacher Post-Planning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . .    June 11-14, 2010
Sincerely,
The Mentoring Support Team
Hillsborough Education Foundation