Tips for Overcoming Obstacles

1. Realize that what may be an obstacle for one person may be no big deal for another person, and vice versa.

Ask yourself, is this issue really an obstacle, or am I just choosing to look at it that way.

2. Look at ALL of your resources, opportunities and alternatives.

Don't forget to look at how others you know may help you. Engender their support.

3. Take a step back.

Remain cool and objective. If fear or intimidation is part of the obstacle, ask yourself, what is the worst that can happen if I approach this task.

4. Think about what you would tell a friend if they were faced with the same issues.

Sometimes it can be easier to tell someone else how to approach an obstacle and get around it. Act as your own friend.

5. Jump forward, then back.

Think about or envision having achieved your desired end result. Now work backwards to determine what you will need to do to achieve that result. (Who knew that hindsight could be so much fun...)

6. Ask for it!

Try asking directly for what you want. Sometimes that can cut through what was previously perceived as a stone wall.

7. Determine how else you can do it.

What other ways are there to transact business so that you can get to what you want? Barter; give something away; talk about what "you" can bring to the table. Be creative -- until the advent of leasing, driving a new car was an obstacle for many!

8. Use artful persuasion.

Make a good argument for why it's of mutual benefit to the other party to lower or remove the obstacle standing in the way. If given the rationale, people usually would rather please others than not.

9. Break down the obstacle into smaller, more manageable components.

We never eat a meal in one big bite (now that would be an obstacle!). Break it down into smaller components -- then continue to break down those smaller components until you're left with easily manageable components.

10. Muster determination!

By doing this, you will gain the energy and momentum needed to knock down and overcome obstacles that get in your way.