That's what happened to me. As I followed the path that trouble laid out for me, I eventually found wisdom. And although it didn't happen overnight, I also "discovered" a gem of an idea for a book, and I launched the first of a series of fine-art calendars that I call the Sacred Journey.
Then, years later, the path began leading me to this documentary project, Across the King's River -- and along the way I also discovered YOU.
The journey is hard yet fulfilling. I wouldn't trade it for anything. As much as we like being in control, truly amazing things can happen when we're not in control - that's when the genius of the universe steps in.
Chaos forces us to consider other possibilities - solutions we might never consider on our own. If we're lucky, chaos grants us the humility to reach far beyond ourselves for answers
Back when no other approach seemed to work with Malcolm, I decided to consult an African shaman who happened to be in town.
I was only hoping to get insights into my child, but when the shaman consulted the great spirit that the Yorubas call Ifa, I received something of greater value - insight into myself: who I am, my purpose, my destiny - a side of myself that I didn't even know was there.
And then many things that seemed unconnected started making sense.
After that flash of insight, I almost wanted to thank Malcolm for causing all that trouble. After all, it helped trigger self-awareness.
Inspired, I went to Africa and met others elders who revealed a universe of other possibilities.
And I took Malcolm with me to save him from the deadly streets of Oakland - and to breathe life and hope once again into my family.
Can't tell you what happened in Africa right now. I'm saving that for the film. Africa changed my life, and after you experience Across The King's River, some part of you will be profoundly changed too.
The elders are certain of this - it's all a matter of time. A film that will have an extraordinary impact is on the way!
For now, here's what I want to say. Every misfortune that comes your way might not be a blessing but it's surely not a curse. And it's definitely not the end.
Trouble is not always your enemy; sometimes it's a friend -- a very good one. Stop resisting. Open the door. See what your "friend" wants. Go where you're being led.
Trust the leadership of your heart.
You'll be amazed at all the light that follows deep darkness.
Until our next time.