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May 2010


It has been quite a while since my last newsletter -  October, 2009 to be exact. For this I apologize. It seems that the wrinkles of time do set in when one moves on in years.  I had planned to travel to India in October, 2009 but called that off due to severe hip pain. Then again in January.  After getting a shot of cortisone (or something akin to it) the pain started to diminish. So, India awaits. I will be traveling there, God willing, this coming October. I am hoping to celebrate the feastday of Saint Francis (October 4th) in Alleppey. 
Bishop of Alleppey to California

There is much news from India.  The most recent is from Bishop Stephen, the Bishop of Alleppey, concerning his travel to the United States. As you know the diocese has very little in way of financial resources consequently the need to make mission appeals overseas. He has been given permission by the dioceses of Sacramento and San Francisco to preach there the first three weeks in June. He then will spend three days in Connecticut. This is a great opportunity for those of you living in these areas to visit with him if you wish.  If you want his schedule please contact me at ffaindia@att.net.
Goodbye to a Wonderful Woman - Miki Lovett

I want to take this opportunity to sing the praises of Miki Lovett, our webmaster. Miki came to us first as a sponsor, then as a webmaster and lastly, as a member of the FFA board of directors. Our website, www.openhearts.org  is the product of her genius. I am indeed thankful for what she has brought to the Apostolate. Not only has she created a thing of technical beauty but brought us into the 21st century world of cyberspace. Today, because of her, we have sponsors from Scotland, England, New Zealand and,  just this month,  from the United Arab Emirates (U.A.E.). This would have been impossible a decade ago. I can only credit this to the attractiveness of our website and Miki's hooking us into Paypal which facilitates our foreign exchange problems. To date 155 families have been sponsored off our site.

Regrettably,  Miki will be leaving us this year in July.  We are losing a great talent and a great woman. We all wish Miki well in her future endeavors.  I am sure she will likewise bless others with her presence and talents.
Welcome Donnie Welsh...Across the Pond

It is said "when the Lord closes one door He opens another."  Welcome to Donnie Welsh. When he signed up over two years ago as a sponsor from Lancashire, England,  Donnie, a professional website designer, offered to assist with the website.  He has agreed to step in as webmaster. He will be sending us some recommendations at the end of this month.  So "wither goest" our website? The Lord only knows...and Donnie.  Be on the lookout for changes.  Again Donnie...many thanks for helping your friends "across the pond."
Think Again, Please if You are Ready to Give Up

Given the downturn in the economy I expected we would loose some sponsors.  I have received some letters reluctantly dropping family support due to either a loss of work or problems in just paying the bills.  This, of course, is a sad situation. Some sponsors have not notified me and just stopped. So it took a little while for me to catch on that support is not coming for a particular family. But there has been good news also - two sponsors just this month (I would love to mention their names but I don't want to embarrass them) decided to pick up 16 families who have lost their sponsors since the economic debacle of 2008. Also two gifts arrived, one for $15,000 and one for $5000, to be used at the FFA's discretion.  So, if you are having a hard time and are thinking of leaving the FFA please do not. Give me a call and I will make arrangements to pick up the family as a "ward of the Apostolate" until you can get back on your feet.
On the Road Again - to my fellow Secular Franciscans

At the age of 73 I am again hitting the road.  As you may know, because I am a Secular Franciscan, the Secular Franciscan Order was my first audience when I started this apostolate 39 years ago in 1971. It's creation was my way of addressing the spirit of Franciscan poverty required in the Rule.  The whole idea of Franciscan poverty  is very difficult for Americans. The very idea of an American Franciscan ( read: rich /poor) seems to be an oxymoron,  the use of to contradictory words to explain something. I found the best way for me was through the idea of stewardship.  Today, much to my surprise, there are many Secular Franciscans who never heard of the FFA regardless of it having been a nationwide apostolate since its  founding. That means it is time to hit the road. I am hoping to address the problem at the regional level.  Please, if you need a speaker at your regional chapter - meeting  encourage an invitation.  I do a pretty good "dog and pony act" for the poor. It is the best way to reach down to the many fraternities in the various regions around the country.
Your Family is Only a Click Away

Sister Daphne has been with us for over a year now. She is really very wonderful (as are all our Canossian Sisters). She is energetic, full of ideas and persistent in her claims on behalf of the poor. She loves visiting the families and is enjoyed by our wonderful staff - Babu, Lilly, Beena, Darly, Annamma, Karoline, Sophie, and Soona. They all have your interests at heart. One of my boasts during presentations on the FFA is our technical ability to reach out to our families through our staff. If you have a computer they are only a click away. You can reach them at ffaalleppey@gmail.com or you can "Skype" them if you like. Just look for "Franciscan Alleppey" in the Skype directory.  If you want info on your family, email them, they will go out and visit the family directly and send you photos of the visit if you wish. When I first started the Apostolate in 1971 it took a few weeks for a letter to get there and a few weeks to get back not including the time it took to think of an answer! Now your poor family is only a click away. So don't be shy. Indian time is ten and a half hours ahead of our time.  If you send an email at night it will be day in India. You will have a response when you get up in the morning. So, we have done much better than the old USPO.

This also goes for our Andhra Pradesh sponsors. Sister Carmel Paul is busily involved with all our families there with the help of Sister Thankam. If you wish to contact her she can be reached at  carmelpaula@yahoo.com. Our problem in Andhra however is one of distance. The areas we care for families in are very spread out and quite distant - taking a whole day to reach in some cases. So we must give Sister Carmel, who is doing fantastic work,  more space in which to do her work.
And So...

Lastly,  hearing the news everyday points out how fragile we all are - from top to bottom, from the single "you" to the corporate "they" to the government "we". No single entity can do it alone.  We all need each other at every level. The world is changing and doing so in God's good time or I should say "God's God time". Please remember the importance of daily prayer so that we can move with Him as instruments rather than obstacles living the prayer of Saint Francis "Lord, make me an instrument..."

Next month I hope to get another one of these bulletins to you but from Sister Daphne. Let's hear what she has to say.

It is said the Holy Spirit moves as a driven leaf on an autumn day. As we prepare to celebrate the upcoming feast of Pentecost - be prepared! It could be you.

Warmest regards in Saint Francis

Alan J. Ouimet, S.F.O.

 
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