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FEBRUARY 2011                 

GRATITUDE & LOVE                                                                                               

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New year new look!  Enjoy the updated TwelveBeads site.  Please be mindful we are still in the process of updating pages.  For most up to date pages clean your cache and refresh your pages.  

 

Keep following TwelveBeads for our new collections in 2011!  The Crystal Collection featuring sterling silver and Swarovski crystals will be launching a piece at a time starting this month with the In The Moment Unity Necklace.

 

Happy Sober February!

Yours in service,

Gwen R.~

 

NEW BEADS

 

Recovery Necklace

In The Moment Unity Necklace
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Carnelian
 
Is believed to remind us to be "in the moment." It is
said to be a stone of protection particularly from
anger, jealousy and fear. It is also believed to assist
one in finding the right mate. This stone calms fears
about death and rebirth, bringing serenity and
acceptance of the great cycle of life.


 
Prayer Beads
Misael Prayer Beads

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The Hebrew name Misael means "who belongs to God"

 

A Gratitude List

Some people in recovery make a gratitude list every day.  I have done this on and off since the beginning of my recovery.  It really helps me to get down to the most important things in life.  For me they are always sobriety, family and friends.  I can have fun with the material things as well but they are really the icing on my gratitude cake. 

The practice of a gratitude list is not exclusive to the recovery community.  Many spiritual seekers use this technique.  Books such as The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, Thanks!: How the Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert Emmons, and The Gratitude Attitude by J. Carl Newell all share in this philosophy. 

Many famous people have embraced living in gratitude.  Oprah Winfrey talks of "The Magic of Gratitude" while Todd Aaron Jensen writes a book on the gratitudes of Sheryl Crow, Jeff Bridges, Alicia Keys, Daryl Hall, Ray Bradbury, Anna Kendrick, B.B. King, Elmore Leonard, Deepak Chopra and 42 More.  There must be something to it!

So whether you are in the pits of chaos or sailing smoothly a gratitude list helps keep things in check.  It is a reminder from within of what is most important.  List your top three or list everything.  It does not really matter.  What does matter is getting your heart and your head in the right place.

written by
Gwen R.
Half Measures Room

Half Measures RoomFrom  The Half Measures Room...

...on 'love and gratitude'

"My basic flaw had always been dependence - almost absolute dependence - on people or circumstances to supply me with prestige, security, and the like.  Failing to get these things according to my perfectionist dreams and specifications, I had fought for them.  And when defeat came, so did my depression.

"Because I had over the years undergone a little spiritual development, the absolute quality of these frightful dependencies had never before been so starkly revealed.  Reinforced by what grace I could secure in prayer, I found I had to exert every ounce of will and action to cut off these faulty emotional dependencies upon people, upon AA, indeed, upon any set of circumstances whatsoever.
"Plainly, I could not avail myself of God's love until I was able to offer it back to him by loving others as he would have me.  And I couldn't possibly do that so long as I was victimized by false dependencies."-
p. 55-56  The Best of Bill
 

At times I teeter either on the edge of being absolutely comfortable with my present circumstances and a position of complete despair...I have either been firmly confident of my will conforming with Gods', or utterly throwing my hands up without a clue of where to go to from here...there have been times when my difficulties appear to be unmanageable and I haven't the capacity or means to combat them...talking about these problems with others is helpful, but there are times when I face these anxieties alone...so I talk to God, pleading with Him for help...unfortunately, my Higher Power does not solve issues exactly when I want Him to, or think I need Him to all the time...in fact, God answers my prayers in His own time, I suspect when I am in spirit, ready to receive them

 


The Meaning of Pink Roses: Love & Gratitude

Pink roses are one of the oldest roses known to us and have a rich history that dates back to some of the earliest pieces of visual art. In the Talmud, it is written that pink roses are the only flowers allowed to bloom in Jerusalem; thus, they came to be associated with paradise. Pink roses were the dominant species of wild roses and were the first flowers to evolve into their present-day form. When roses were first cultivated in the 18th century for commercial use, most of them existed in shades of pink - from a pale, almost white to a deep crimson.
With the development of hybridization techniques and the discovery of new rose species, flower growers introduced new shades of pink to the public. At around this time, roses were also imbued with the ability to bloom all throughout the year - a significant development since garden roses only blossomed once a year. As more shades and species evolved, each began to have their own meanings, and the meaning of pink roses became even more refined.

Today, pink roses are known as symbols for love and gratitude. These pink flowers also carry undertones of elegance, grace, sweetness, and poetic romance. Because the pink rose was more prevalent over other garden-variety roses, it became strongly associated with these positive sentiments. Different shades of pink also carry their own meanings. Light pink roses symbolize admiration, gentleness, and can be used to bring messages of sympathy. Fuchsia-toned roses can mean appreciation and gratitude and are traditionally used to express thanks. As a decorative presence in the corner of a room, the aroma, color, and shape of a bouquet of pink roses can make everything look small and shabby in comparison.

Due to the many ways where they can be used to express a wide range of meanings and emotions, pink is the most popular rose color, second only to red. The symbolic importance as well as the delicate appearance and sweet fragrance associated to all roses are traced back to the oldest of flowers - the pink rose. Although much has changed about it throughout history, pink roses have held a consistent, prominent place in the world of flowers. Today, pink roses have a unique position that represents refinement and elegance while communicating admiration and thanks. Any recipient of a bouquet of pink roses will not only be taken aback by their beauty; that person is sure to feel special and loved.

About Author
This article was written by Timothy Spencer for Island Rose - Flowers Philippines. We hope you enjoyed this article and encourage you to visit our website http://www.islandrose.net Through Island Rose, you can find Gifts Philippines or simply browse through our blog for more informative articles.
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A Gratitude List - by Gwen R.
The Meaning of Pink Roses
February Affirmation
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Melissa is a native Tennesseean, married with two children. She works as a Licensed Professional Counselor, providing treatment to adults, children, and their families. Melissa specializes in trauma and addictions. She is also a songwriter and poet with poems previously published in The Phoenix literary arts magazine and All Around Us: Poems from the Valley. You may contact her by email at chloedawn10@yahoo.com
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