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Horizon Family Solutions NEWS & VIEWS
Working on behalf of families, both domestic and abroad
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August 2006
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Greetings!
Eagles Nest School for Boys, located just outside
Woodland Park in Colorado, is a place
where many go to heal.
I just recently returned from
a visit where the boys shared their downward spirals
of self-destructive behaviors. In their journeys
toward
healing, they explained that
they are learning to trust that they are able to
replace their feelings of despair with feelings of
hope.
Each boy was
brought to Eagles Nest either by their parents or,
in a few instances, by an "adolescent escort"
service".
There the boys met Bill Dean and his
staff. Bill Dean founded Eagles Nest School in April
2004 after working with over 10,000 troubled teens
in other residential programs to mixed results. Bill
feels that a combination of healing, unconditional
love, respect for all, and assisting teens to find their
heart is what was missing from his experience at
other schools.
Located above Victor, Colorado, near
the Skagway Reservoir is the site for this place of
transition. This remote location
allows for extensive, quiet contemplation and
reflection.
Running away is not impossible, but because of
the remote location and nature's challenges, there
are multiple deterrents such as fear of loneliness in
the dark, many unknown noises that are different
from the environment with which most residents are
familiar and a few wild animals. For the boys, nature
also has a positive effect that
helps in their emotional, mental, physical, and
spiritual healing. The boys learn to identify the
source of their
behaviors, which are the pathways to help them deal
with issues which have plagued them, in some cases,
for years.
"I started drinking and doing drugs, was
failing school, was arrested a few times," said a
young man of 16 from California.
"Naturally I was
angry right away when I got here," he said.
"I just
wanted to be left alone and not speak to anyone."
The staff was unfazed by his defiance. They just
waited.
"The staff told me it was my choice.", he
said. "I was not disciplined. I was given the
opportunity to find out what was working and what
was not working and to take a look at the behavior I
was choosing to display."
Academic achievement is an important aspect to the
program at Eagle's Nest.
The program offers a blend
of an independent, self-paced curriculum and
individualized education. For
all the boys, it is unlikely that where ever they are
from, they will be returning to a community that has
not been swept clean while they were gone. To
where
ever these boys transition, be it home, college,
trade school or a work environment, temptations will
always exist. They must have multiple skills of
self-discipline to deal with their issues rather
than continuing to escape from them.
One thing that
everyone can tell you, when you first arrive at Eagles
Nest you're going to get
hugged. For some of the boys, this is the first time in
a long time they have been hugged, or have allowed
anyone to hug them. Being away from their families,
no matter what the circumstances, is hard for all the
boys. One of the aspects of the program is that the
boys have an opportunity to be helped by an ancient
Chinese method of healing through energy
work.
"Without inner-healing, there is always
blockage that will need to be worked through, no
matter how much therapy and counseling you
receive," says Bill Dean.
The tuition at Eagles Nest is
$5900 per month. This is at the higher end of tuition
rates for many
similar schools yet when it's important to consider
that the average stay until graduation is only
seven months
versus 18 months in this industry; the overall
expenditure is much smaller. Eagles Nest
has a smaller student population than similar
programs and offers
one-on-one individual support between the staff and
the students. As part of the boy's therapy, the
school counselors work with the parents. This is not
a "please fix him" kind of place. There are many
reasons that
these boys are acting as they have, prior to the date
of entry, and it is not
because they are simply spoiled. Regardless of the
circumstances that brought these boys to Eagles
Nest, they have been given a second chance and
learn, as well, to give life a second chance. As with
us all, they have each been traveling down
and determining their individual paths in life.
And many are in denial of the paths they have
chosen. At Eagles Nest, each boy is given the
opportunity to know who he is. There are
no "bad" kids here, according to Bill. Each one is
cared for, loved and
nurtured.
For information about Eagles Nest School please
visit
their website -
www.eaglesnestschool.com or call 1-866-402
BOYS.
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4th Annual NW Regional NATSAP Conference
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August 10-11 at the Riverhouse Resort and Conference Center in beautiful Bend, Oregon
The conference brochure and registration form has
already been sent via U.S. mail. If you have not yet
received one and wish to register, please go to the
NATSAP website below. Also, if you have not already
done so, please make your room reservations. Once
again, a block of rooms has been reserved for out of
town guests.
To make your hotel reservations,
please call the Riverhouse Reservation line at:
and mention the NATSAP Conference to
receive the discounted rate.
For those of you who will be
arriving on Wednesday the 9th, there will be a
special, pre-conference dinner at the Crossings
Restaurant at the Riverhouse.
Thank you for your
ongoing support for the NW Regional NATSAP
Conference and I look forward to seeing each and
every one of you.
If you have any questions, please
do not hesitate to contact Erick Scheiderman,
Conference Co-Chair, Bridges Academy, Toll-Free: 1 -
888-283-7362 Ext. 112.
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Susanne Buxbaum and Kate Buxbaum
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Taking a one month hiatus from their regular columns during August
Susanne Buxbaum and Kate Buxbaum will be taking a
one month hiatus from their regular columns during
the month of August.
Every year, for the past six years, Kate and
Susanne have made the trek to Tepeji del Rio in the
State of Hidalgo, Mexico, with doctors, dentists,
nurses, opticians, pediatricians and neurologists, to
participate in "El Projecto Nino".
Most of the professionals are from Fresno Children's
Hospital in
Fresno, California, via a partnership between the
Fresno Rotary Club and three Rotary Clubs in the
State of Hildalgo.
An elementary school is cleared out,
classrooms burn into doctor's offices and this group
of volunteers sets up shop for a week, delivering free
medical
services to the residents of this and neighboring
communities. Susanne and Kate's involvement in
this effort has been a result of the encouragement of
Susanne's husband, Dr. Bill Jones, an educator at
Monterey Peninsula College, who has been involved
with this project for seventeen years. Susanne and
Kate continue to return, year after year, to provide
informational presentations and private counseling,
what has now been jokingly referred to by the El
Projecto Nino team as
"speed therapy". They see families, children,
teachers and factory workers - anyone, many
residents from
this tiny town as well as others who make the
journey, often on foot and frequently waiting hours
(or days) for eye exams, dental work, or to talk to
Kate or Susanne about family issues, substance
abuse or domestic violence.
The particular challenges
Susanne and Kate face, when working with
individuals or families in this community, are a lack of
resources
(for referral sources), the type which we access so
easily in the
United States, as well as difficulty assuring follow-
through once the team has gone home.
Wonderfully
enough, some families have returned the following
year to tell them that something they suggested,
some idea they recommended to a mother or
adolescent, was a success! This is the 21st year for
El Projecto Nino, an opportunity for giving in which
these two professionals consider themselves
fortunate to participate.
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Inhalant Abuse
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It's Deadly
It can kill suddenly, and it can kill those who sniff for
the first time. Every year, young people in this
country and all over the world, die of inhalant abuse.
Hundreds suffer severe
consequences, including permanent brain damage,
loss of muscle control, and destruction of the heart,
blood, kidney, liver, and bone marrow.
Today more
than 1,000 different products (mostly "household
products) are commonly abused. Other harmful,
irreversible effects may be hearing loss, peripheral
neuropathies or limb spasms, central nervous system
damage or blood oxygen depletion.
The National
Institute on Drug Abuse reported that
one in five American teenagers have used inhalants
to get high. According to NIDA, research suggests
that chronic or long-term inhalant abusers are among
the most difficult drug abuse patients to treat. Many
suffer from cognitive impairment and other
neurological dysfunction and may experience multiple
psychological and social problems. Many youngsters
say they begin sniffing
when they were in grade school. They start because
they feel these substances can't hurt them, because
of it's popular with their peers, or as a means to
deflect low self-esteem. (Most attractive is
availability and cost.)
Once hooked, these victims find it a tough habit to
break.
Inhalant abuse is the deliberate inhalant or sniffing of
common products found in homes and schools to
obtain a "high." Examples are volatile solvents, such
as industrial or household solvents or solvent-
containing products, including paint thinners or
removers, degreasers, dry-cleaning fluids, gasoline
and glue. Also included are household aerosol
propellants such as spray paint, hair or deodorant
sprays, fabric protector sprays and vegetable oil
sprays, gases used in household or commercial
products including butane lighters and propane tanks,
whipping cream aerosols, organic nitrates used in
some diagnostic medical procedures and sold in small
brown bottles labeled as "video head cleaner", "room
deodorizer", "leather cleaner", or "liquid aroma".
- What are the effects of inhalant abuse?
Sniffing can cause sickness and death. For example,
victims may become nauseated, forgetful, and unable
to see things clearly. Victims may lose control of
their body, including the use of arms and legs. These
effects can last 15 to 45 minutes after sniffing. In
addition, sniffing can severely damage many parts of
the body, including the brain, heart, liver, and
kidneys.
Even worse, victims can die suddenly --
without any warning.
"Sudden Sniffing Death" can
occur during or right after sniffing. The heart begins
to overwork, beating rapidly but unevenly, which can
lead to cardiac arrest. Even first-time abusers have
been known to die from sniffing inhalants.
- What products are abused?
Ordinary household products, which can be
safely
used for legitimate purposes, can be problematic in
the hands of an inhalant abuser. The following
categories of products are reportedly abused:
glues/adhesives, nail polish remover, marking pens,
paint thinner, spray paint, butane lighter fluid,
gasoline, propane gas, typewriter correction fluid,
household cleaners, cooking sprays, deodorants,
fabric protectors, whipping cream aerosols, and air
conditioning coolants.
- How can you tell if a young person is an
inhalant abuser?
When someone is an inhalant abuser, some or all
these symptoms may be evident:
- Chronic inhalant abusers may exhibit such
symptoms as anxiety, excitability, irritability, or
restlessness.
- Drunk, dazed, or dizzy appearance
- Nausea and/or loss of appetite.
- Red or runny eyes or nose.
- Signs of paint or other products where they
wouldn't normally be, such as on the face or
fingers.
- Slurred or disoriented speech
- Spots and/or sores around the mouth.
- Unusual breath odor or chemical odor on
clothing.
- What could be other telltale behaviors of
inhalant abuse?
Inhalant abusers also may exhibit the following
signs:
- Constantly smelling clothing sleeves
- Hiding rags, clothes, or empty containers of the
potentially abused products in closets and other
places.
- Showing paint or stain marks on the face, fingers,
or clothing.
- Sitting with a pen or marker near nose.
- What is a typical profile of an inhalant abuser?
There is no typical profile of an inhalant abuser.
Victims are represented by both sexes and all
socioeconomic groups throughout the U.S. It's not
unusual to see elementary and middle-school age
youths involved with inhalant abuse.
- How does a young person who abuses
inhalants die?
- An 11 year-old boy collapsed in a public
bathroom. A butane cigarette lighter fuel container
and a plastic bag were found next to him. He also
had bottles of typewriter correction fluid in his
pocket. CPR failed to revive him, and he was
pronounced dead.
- Another 13 year-old boy was inhaling fumes from
cleaning fluid and became ill a few minutes
afterwards. Witnesses alerted the parents, and the
victim was hospitalized and placed on life support
systems. He died 24 hours after the incident.
- A 15 year-old boy was found unconscious in a
backyard. According to three companions, the four
teenagers had taken gas from a family's grill propane
tank. They put the gas in a plastic bag and inhaled
the gas to get high. The victim collapsed shortly
after inhaling the gas. He died on the way to the
hospital.
- What can parents do to prevent inhalant
abuse?
One of the most important steps to take is
to talk with our children or youngsters in our care,
about the danger of experimenting even ONE time
with inhalants.
In
addition, we must talk with our children's coaches,
guidance counselors, and teachers. By discussing
this problem openly and stressing the devastating
consequences
of inhalant abuse, we may help prevent a tragedy.
- When you suspect your child or someone you
know is an inhalant abuser, what can you do to
help?
Be alert for symptoms of inhalant abuse. If you
suspect there is a problem, please consider seeking
professional help ASAP.
Sources: U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission
National Institute on Drug Abuse
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The Core Solutions Organization
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Each Community is designed for the individual School
The Core Solutions organization is designed to
promote and support family healing. It was founded
for Schools and Programs who understand the
difficult position their families face. These Schools
can now respond by offering solid solutions that will
take family healing to the next level by making it
possible for the entire family to become an involved
part of the solution.
- The problems presented to a family of an out-
of-control teen are not limited to the teen.
Our Schools really understand the challenges their
families face. Additionally, they also understand they
may be dealing with other pressures such as a two-
household family, the lack of support or even
criticism at the decision they've made for their
child,
hostilities from the other siblings still at home, a
single parent carrying the burden alone, and so forth.
The challenges and pressures are varied, but very
real.
Moving forward with such a profound solution needed
on their child's behalf can produce enormous stress.
Because our Schools recognize the need parents,
and even extended family have for support and
understanding, they choose to offer Core Solutions
Community for their families.
It is a private, on-
line
24/7
Community board, specific to their School or
Program.
There they will be welcomed by other parents of
their School's
Community who are already engaged in the
process
and in the best position to offer support,
encouragement, hope and understanding.
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Shane Pardoe was born in Baltimore, Maryland in December 1979
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Shane was incarcerated in January 2000
Shane is charged with First Degree Murder.
Sentence: 55 years in prison.
Shane is sharing his
poems
in hopes to help other troubled teens that are
experiencing the
same situations as he when he found himself in the
wrong place at the wrong time.
He hopes his poems
will help others to
see and understand that alcohol and drugs, even
marijuana, CAN and WILL ruin a life as well as
the lives of others around you.
Saying I knew him would be a lie
But for his loss
I still cry
He was lost
just like me
Lost to drugs
like so many
He had 2 guns
and verbal threats
So many lives
now have regrets
One of mine's
not callin' the police
I feel if I did
his life would not cease
So many choices
I made were wrong
I was abusing drugs
for too damn long
Now I'm apart
of a tragic night
Where a life was lost in a tragic fight
Shane had
a hard time understanding how alcohol
or marijuana could hurt anybody. He always
thought "Hey, I know what I am doing I am not
hurting me or anyone else".
However he came to
realize, a little too late, that a little bit of alcohol and
a little bit of weed only leads to a desire for stronger
and more stuff,
which also means tougher crowds and also means
bigger trouble.
He hopes that he can get into the heads of
the kids who are thinking the same way he did and
help them realize it will kill you and that you may not
be buried under ground but your life, as well as many
others, will be lost because of "a little bit of drugs or
alcohol".
He believes that if kids hear and see what
these behaviors and habits can do, hear it from
someone who had lived it, is paying the penalty and
is not yet an
adult, perhaps someone who is now a young adult as
is he, maybe
his message can get them to think about choosing a
better
path.
(unedited as received)
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OPERATION: SUCCESS
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M.B., Pennsy., Age 17
Coming to my "clinical boarding school"(*) was the
best thing that ever happened to me.
My parents
trusted Dore, and now Dore is a trusted friend.
A
part of being
here is learning to structure your days, and your life,
to become successful.
We learn to meet the daily
expectations of those
around us, as well as the expectations we have for
ourselves. Take our daily routine, for example. We
get up every morning ready to start our day on time
at 7:30 a.m. We prepare our meals, iron and wash
our clothes, make our beds, and clean up our
bedrooms.
We go to school at the same time every day. We
learn about everything from art to biology, and dance
to history, to language, math, and reading. Its a lot
like regular school but with one major difference, at
least for me. Before, when I didnt feel like going to
school, I just didn't go. Now, there are people around
to support me and remind me that going to school
will help me succeed in the future. We also spend
time every day in group meetings, learning how to
make the right choices so that once we graduate,
we will be successful.
We learn weekly responsibilities such as budgeting
our money and we spend time volunteering in the
community. My days keep me busy. The structure
they provide helps me construct my own life.
I've learned how to be on time and how to figure out
what needs to get done to accomplish my goals.
Ive
learned how to become more responsible and how to
create a better future for myself and my family.
(*) This student is still in their program and the
parents wish this to be kept confidential a this time.
If you are a student with a success story or a
parent, or a program, please write and let us know.
We will publish one success story per month and will
only share information in which we are given
permission. Write to Dore@DoreFrances.com.
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Academy at Canyon Creek - Student body with mild to moderate psychiatric disorders
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Coed ages 13-17
Academy at Canyon Creek and its owners are
involved in every aspect of program development and
design. With over 85 years of combined experience
in helping youth reach their full potential, this core
management team of professionals have designed the
best possible facilities and have combined the best
possible treatment and education offerings available.
Current management of the program and oversight
includes:
- Robert E. Marshall, M.Ed., Chief Executive
Officer
Bob received his Masters in Special Education
from UNLV with emphasis in childhood development.
Bob has over 35 years of experience and was initially
trained in the Boys Town Positive Teaching
Interactive Model. Later he received his certificate
as a trainer. His experience ranges from working first
as a therapist then Program Director and CEO for a
number of residential treatment centers and schools.
During his work history, Bob has overseen the
development of over 12 residential model schools.
He later served as Program Director then CEO for a
number of state mental health, non-profit and other
facilities around the country.
- Brad Gerrard, Chief Operating Officer
Brad graduated from the University of Utahs
school of communications with an emphasis in Public
Relations. Since 1986 he has spent his entire career
working for a number of large behavioral healthcare
corporations as Director of Business Development and
interim CEO. He has worked with a variety of
talented physicians, therapists, and school
professionals in designing successful models of
treatment for youth. As COO, Brad will oversee a
variety of functions including marketing, intake and
admissions and provide input on the overall
development of the program.
- David H. Blackwell, L.P.C., L.S.A.C., Clinical
Director
David received his Masters degree in
Educational Psychology from Brigham Young
University in 1980. He is a Licensed Professional
Counselor and Licensed Substance Abuse Counselor
in the state of Utah. David has worked in a variety
of settings including Utah Valley Regional Medical
Center as a therapist then 10 years as a therapist
for a large residential school in Utah. For the past
four years he served as supervising therapist where
he also served as supervisor of Chemical Dependency
Recovery Treatment.
David will oversee program development and all
aspects of the therapeutic milieu for the school
including: therapy supervision, substance abuse and
chemical dependency treatment, recreational therapy
and student living supervision.
- Karen Stevens, Admissions
Coordinator
Karen comes to the team with a background in
customer service and for the past two years as
admissions coordinator for a local residential facility.
She attended Brigham Young University and since
has spent 30 years serving in community youth
programs.
- Kelli Hamilton, Chief Financial Officer
Kelli began her career in healthcare finance in
1994. She has worked in healthcare insurance, as
well as, multiple behavioral health organizations. Kelli
has held many positions within the industry, such
as: Business Office Manager, Controller, Chief
Financial Officer and Assistant Corporate Chief
Financial Officer. These experiences have enriched
her professional development and documented a
successful track record. Kelli received her
accounting degree from the University of Phoenix and
is a Utah native.
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What Horizon Family Solutions knows and believes in
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FAMILY MATTERS
Horizon Family Solutions is excited to
announce the fourth, completing component of our
services: Family Matters Group, a strength-based,
highly individualized, needs driven,
Wraparound-style team designed to assure a
successful transition of children returning to their
homes from therapeutic residential programs.
As weve reviewed our services over the last
year, weve considered an important component
which
may be the exact part of the process often missed by
even the most sophisticated therapeutic residential
programs: preparing the family, in advance,
for a childs return home, for a variety of
possibilities:
- a child, now accustomed to a different level of
supervision and structure
- a child, now accustomed to a different level of
supervision and structure
- necessary strategies to repair burned bridges
with neighbors, friends and extended family
- regression of the returned child, even very
temporarily, to some old behaviors
- fear and apprehension from school faculty and/or
administration in a childs district of residence
when enrolling the new and improved child in
school
- the absence, or difficulty of locating a 12 step
program designed specifically for adolescents
- a break in therapeutic continuity
- reunification of the child with old pals with
whom he/she affiliated before placement
- PRE-TRANSITION PREPARATION: FAMILIES
ARE NOT
ALONE
The Family Matters Team begins, in tandem with
the childs family, the intensive, transition home
process by quickly establishing trusting
relationships with all family members, perhaps two
or three months before the childs predicted return
home via the acquisition of data, web conversations
with or conference calls, to hear the familys
story; their individual recollections about what
happened with the child in placement, evaluating the
familys readiness for reunification.
Data is
collected containing historic information such as
intake interviews, program progress reports,
academic documents, pre-placement education or
mental health assessments, as well as the original
information shared with Dore Frances, HFS
Educational Consultant; herself, a graduate of a 10
week Wraparound course and a major fan of this
evidence-based practice.
New information is also
collected by the team to help create the Transition
Home Team: the names of possible informal
support
team members such as nuclear and extended family
members, supportive neighbors, favorite teachers or
coaches or close family friends.
As weekly (or
bi-weekly conversations take place between the
*FMT
and the family members, several plans will naturally
evolve; naturally for the Family Matters team of
professionals and magically for the family that has
been under enormous stress, struggling with feelings
of guilt, worried about the future and anxious (AND
often fearful) for the family to be reunited.
Ongoing discussions will take place (which will be
completed when the child returns), to help the FMT
identify the strengths of each family member;
a Strengths Assessment. In addition, all members
of the family will have an opportunity to express
their needs as a family as well as their
individual needs, which they see as requirements to
make reunification successful. Parents may
anticipate the need for respite, opportunities to
share their ongoing journey with other parents or
need guidance with a new IEP.
The returning child
may identify some of his needs as help with
relationships at school, transportation to 12-Step
programs, strategies to meet new friends as well
as strategies to avoid the old ones whose values may
not fit into the picture anymore. Siblings may need
ways in which they can feel balance in the schedule
of household chores, privacy or quiet during
homework time, or help locating a weekend job.
- *FMT will reference Family Matters Team
throughout the remainder of this document.
While all of these discussions take place, strengths
and needs are identified and the following occurs:
- individual needs and goals will be identified by
the Family
- strategies will be developed to meet those
needs, often by the strengths of someone already on
the Team and an Individualized Family Plan will be
developed
One team + One plan = One Goal or Family
Vision.
- THE FAMILY SAFETY PLAN
The FAMILY SAFETY PLAN is developed, also prior to
the return of the child, and developed from data and
interviews described above, considering a childs
pre-
placement behaviors or danger zones. This
process
and outcome information is probably the most critical
piece of the Transition Plan. The FMT has had the
experience of transitioning hundreds of children
home, some from group homes, juvenile hall,
residential programs, or out of or
into foster placements.
The strategy
that often eases the minds of families experiencing
anxiety about a childs return, is that the developed
Transition Plan and Safety Plan will be revised, if
necessary, until and the family
agrees that its a plan that they can live with and
believe in.
In addition, it will be a plan that they will feel
confident to revise on their own, as months
turn into years and as the dynamics of the home and
the natural development of children in the household
change and reconfigure. The use of these time-
tested reunification tools by professionals who have
used them repeatedly and successfully, helps to
create what all parents want to receive from the
investments theyve made in the futures of their
troubled children:
The Family Safety Plan addresses typical
behaviors of the child that were present before
he/she left for placement:
- drug or alcohol abuse, violent behaviors in the
home or at school
- disrespectful or oppositional attitudes toward
authority figures
- destructive behaviors toward family property (or
public property)
- risk-taking behaviors
- behaviors associated with severe mental illnesses
including
- non-compliance with medication
- self-abuse/self-mutilation
- difficulty predicting consequences
- difficulty forming meaningful (or any) peer
relationships
-or the actions of a child with genetic mental health
disorders (severe, hereditary mental health disorders)
or the results of environmental damages causing
severe mental health issues or disabilities. These
would be the result of the negative behaviors
inflicted upon them by way of the inappropriate or
illegal actions of adults or even unsupervised minors.
The occurrences described above impact the
behaviors of children, taking the form of simple
survival mechanisms (fight or flight), and are the
result of incidents or events over which the child had
absolutely no control.
Once the behaviors are
identified (a list compiled by the Home Team (the
new team compiled of family members and the
FMT), strategies agreed to, in the event that the
behaviors return, then the Family Safety Plan is
created.
The Family Safety Plan is then
written and rehearsed until the family
feels confident that any version of those familiar
situations may reappear.
- CREATING TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS
This relationship isnt just business; its not
just
collecting data and hearing from the family.
The
strategy to help a family tolerate just living through
some painful memories is for the FMT to move
forward with strength-based, authentic dialogue
which the family will learn to emulate is
called, reframing. It can and will become the
tone
for conversations the family will have together in
nearly every possible future setting. The strategy
of reframing, makes strength-based language
possible, particularly when deficit- based language
has been heard and often repeated, out of habit, by
families for years.
Deficit-based language describes
all of the things that are wrong about a child, but
with practice, soon shifts into neutral . When
the
family is really getting it, really starts to think,
automatically, in the way in which the team is
talking, it shifts again, this time to Strength-
Based language.
The Safety Plan and Transition Plans are developed
through regular meetings, using the language
described above, beginning with the participation of
the Family team and the Informal Family Supports:
extended family members, friends, neighbors, youth
group leaders and other helping community partners.
This happens during a series of group or individual
meetings with a FMT members facilitating the new or
renewed relationships and agreements.
Once the combined HOME TEAM (Informal
Supports
+ Family +FMT), is in place, that team will dialogue
weekly in virtual meetings via webcams.
Fortunately for anxious parents, the FMT is
available via a 24/7 Crisis Line, for both parents
and the child until stabilization has become evident.
HOME TEAM Members should plan for weekly, one
hour meetings with a specific team-developed
agenda, (prepared in advance of the meeting with
agenda items contributed by all members), Action
Plans with members identified as responsible (and as
having the strengths to fit the task) who will report
back to the HOME TEAM.
Due dates for the
completion of Action Items are set and reviewed
each week.
At some point following the development of the
Safety Plan and during the development of the
Transition plan, the child who has been away will
come home.
The child will NOT return to the same
family with fears and anxieties as he/she left, but to
a Home Team using Strength-Based Language, a
Home Team ready to listen carefully for his/her new
needs and incorporate the childs new information
into the Transition Plan in process. At this time,
when the Home Team is complete, the Family
Vision, will be developed as a group project with
the
input of each, individual family member.
- SOUND COMPLICATED? SOUND HARD TO
DO?
What is complicated and what is hard to do is to
be the parent who is holding his/her breath until the
child comes through the door and is home for
good. What is almost unspeakably difficult is to
imagine going through it all, again, without support.
What is easy is to let the Family Matters
Team nurture your family through the a childs
transition home and teach the Wraparound-style
process that becomes a strong familys everyday
language and problem-solving strategy.
What is easy is to call a member of the
Family Matters Team at any time of the day or night
when parents worry, children become apprehensive
about re-entering the old school, seeing old friends,
answering questions, talking to neighbors, looking for
jobs or just feeling okay with themselves.
What is easy is to welcome a child home; a
child whom a family may have literally been afraid
to be around, but because the HOME TEAM is in
place, there is support and there are answers.
What is easy is to watch a child who has
returned home, see that his/her family has changed,
too.
What is easy is to have a sturdy, eclectic
Home Team that a family can count on after the FMT
members agree that its time to move on.
The Ultimate Goal of Family Matters Group, the fourth
part of Horizon Family Solutions services for
families in crisis, is to work their way out of the job
as team facilitators and turn it over, entirely, to the
HOME TEAM. But even then, support is just a phone
call away.
For Information contact:
- Susanne Buxbaum, MA, MS
- Susanne@Susannebuxbaum.com
- (831) 373-2209
- Certified Wraparound Trainer, Providing Ongoing
Wraparound Trainings to Agencies, Mental Health
Professionals and Social Workers & Former
Wraparound Program Director
- An announcement of the launching of the website
for FAMILY MATTERS will be coming soon!
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Recommended By Our Readers
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I gotta say, I like their stuff. It's entertaining,
and at
the very least the message is positive. The message
that I got is basically this: Going about trying to
change your world by running amok fixing everything
outside of you is bass ackwards. Instead, fix your
inner world with feelings like joy and that's what
you'll create. Believe! ~ H.S., Colorado
This book is great. I found it while I
was
looking for information on doing a project for school.
It has signs to look for if you think you're in an
abusive relationship, and stories about girls that have
gone through this situation. There is also a story
from a mother's view. It is a wonderful
book. I think anyone that thinks they might be in this
situation should read this book.~ S.T, N.J.
After reading the book, it made me think twice
before I send my child on a time-out. As someone
who relied heavily on rewards and punishments
through part of my life as a parent, Kohn's book
helped me decide that rewards and punishments are
a last resort, after more loving techniques have
failed. C.R., Florida
Our seven-year-old dog died this summer, and
our children were having a hard time dealing with it. I
found this book, and was able to put a wonderful
journal of his role in our family, from the day he was
born to his last days with us. It has thoughtful
sections that just about anyone can fill in about their
dogs. Now, when we're sad, we turn to the book and
it keeps him with us. It would have been great to
have when he was alive, and I'm getting one for the
other dog. ~ Dorothy B, Washington
This book may be small in size, but it packs a hefty
punch in terms of shattering personal illusions and
opening up a path to personal freedom. I consider
this book a must-have for anyone wanting to become
more conscious and wanting freedom from personal
stories and agreements that cause suffering. ~ Dore
Frances, Bend, Oregon
As a teenager about to enter the "real world," it
seemed all I heard from others was what I was "not"
doing right. I should know more than I did and be
more grateful for what I have; what college did I
want to attend? Why wasn't I more ambitious?
What's more, I was odd for being frightened by the
fact that the world as I knew it was about to fall
apart when all my friends moved away to college.
Raised among addicts and alcoholics, it had
been a difficult life thus far. And apparently, if what
teachers told me was any indication, it would only
get more difficult as I took on the responsibilities of
being an adult. This book gave me something
that I so desperately needed and could find nowhere
else: compassion. ~ W.W., California
I've read many self-help books
over 20 years time and all have helped in some
way. However, this book has helped me in a
BIG way. The book is an amazingly
comprehensive explanation on how our attitudes and
thoughts shape our lives, and how to approach all of
life's situations so that you are prospered. The book
explains that the word "rich" means having
an "abundance of good" or living a fuller, more
satisfying life, and that you are prosperous to the
degree that you are experiencing peace, health,
happiness and plenty in your world. So as well as
becoming financially independent and secure, all
areas of your life prosper, such as relationships,
health, ect., and really, that's what everyone wants,
even if they don't realize it. ~ Kenneth C.,
Sacramento, California
Its no secret that children do not come with
instructions, and there have been many times when I
needed help with answers to my childrens toughest
questions. A Parents Guide to Growing Pains gave
me
the extra help I needed in tackling those issues that
are most difficult to talk about with my children. ~
Susan S., California
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Falcon Ridge Ranch
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A state-licensed residential treatment facility for female adolescents, ages twelve to seventeen
Falcon Ridge Ranch has a fully integrated program of
equine therapy which includes individual, group and
family therapy, an equine science class horsemanship
skills and an equine leadership program. This year
the equine program at the Ranch set the goal of
providing training for therapists and equine
specialists.
In collaboration with Equine Assisted Growth and
Learning Association, Falcon Ridge Ranch sponsored a
level one training attended by equine therapists,
and specialists from across the country. In November
the Ranch will be partnering with E.A.G.A.L.A again
to sponsor a level two certification training. Due
to overwhelming demand, January will see an
additional level one training hosted by Falcon Ridge
Ranch.
Falcon Ridge Ranch is excited to announce the
implementation of a specialized internship
opportunity endorsed by E.A.G.A.L.A. for individuals
and programs seeking to enhance their therapeutic
program.
The internship offers development, and
enhancement of appropriate E.A.P. skills with
individuals, groups, and families. There will be
opportunities to shadow Equine teams in action and
practice skills under the supervision of our own
equine experts. Falcon Ridge Ranch began
incorporating a multidimensional equine program four
years ago in addition to their successful clinical
treatment for students and their families.
Research indicates that equine assisted
psychotherapy is a powerful therapeutic tool in the
recovery of students and families alike.
Falcon
Ridge Ranch is delighted to provide the opportunity
to pass on the knowledge that has contributed to the
accomplishment of so many.
Professionals interested in obtaining additional
information can reach us at,
www.falcon
ridgeranch.com
or by phone, (866)
968-4673, or the official E.A.G.A.L.A. website,
www.eagala.org
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4th Annual Wilderness Therapy Symposium
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At Naropa University
When: Friday, 4pm to Sunday 4pm,
September 15
-17, 2006
Where: Naropa University, Boulder,
Colorado
Visit Our Site - The
Wilderness Therapy Symposium at Naropa
University The Wilderness Therapy Symposium at
Naropa University brings together clinicians, field
instructors, rites of passage guides, individuals
seeking employment, referring professionals,
students, and personnel from related programs and
encourages the sharing of skills and knowledge
through interactive, experiential workshops.
The
symposium encourages intensive collaboration
between
the fields of Adventure Therapy, Adventure
Education, Ecopsychology, and Clinical Psychology
and promotes networking amongst a wide variety of
professionals and therapeutic programs.
This event is sponsored by: Northlight Family
Services; Aspen Education Group Wilderness Division;
Wilderness Quest; the Independent Small Programs
Alliance; Monarch School; and AIM House. Due to
a
CU Buffaloes college football game, it may be
difficult to find lodging within Boulder on this
weekend. To secure a hotel room within Boulder you
will need to book immediately. As an alternative
solution, we have reserved a block of rooms at the
Radisson Hotel 13.5 miles from conference location.
We have a private bus that can transport you daily
between the hotel and campus, and the public city
bus also services this route hourly. Please contact
our registration office at 800.603.3117 for more
information
regarding housing and transportation.
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Arms of Assurance
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A division of Horizon Family Solutions
Working on behalf of families, both domestic and
abroad.
Times may have changed dramatically over the years,
but one thing hasnt changed: Happy and Healthy
family life remains just as important today as it
was back then.
Take a moment to find out more about us, how we
work
to help keep families happy and healthy, and how we
might be of service to your family. See our new
site!
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A&E Features Passages To Recovery
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In Upcoming Episode Of "Intervention"
Passages To Recovery will be featured in an
upcoming episode of "Intervention" on A&E.
It
features an 18 yr old male who used to be a
straight "A" student until he turned to
methamphetamine to cope with his mother's near-
fatal illness.
The episode is scheduled to air on A&E (check local
listings for channel in your area)
on Sunday, July 30, 2006 at 10 p.m. (PST) and again
on September 10, 2006. Passages to
Recovery is a treatment and recovery program set in
the wilderness. The treatment program integrates
the philosophy of the twelve steps with traditional
therapy and the healing power of the wilderness.
Passages to Recovery is a living intervention whose
primary focus is to promote a holistic approach to
lifestyle, embracing spirituality and accountability for
one's actions. Passages to Recovery assists students
in the process of identifying and confronting their
fears, struggles, and patterns of behavior in a
supportive and emotionally safe environment.
Call
866-625-8809 to speak with someone or Click
Below to visit their website for
more information.
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Horizon Family Solutions, LLC - Working on behalf of
families, both domestic and abroad.
Our services include:
Please contact us with any Featured Article ideas
that you would like to see, to become a Sponsor or
to submit an article yourself for our consideration.
- Parent Seminars and Workshops
- Trainings for Schools and Programs
- Aftercare Student / Family Management
Transition Services
- Child Right's Education Law Consultant Recognized
Expert in Education Law, both Federal and State
- Parent Coordinator Services
- Parenting Plans
- Educational Consultation for At-Risk Students
The Horizon Family Solutions, LLC newsletter may
contain links to sites on the Internet owned and
operated by third parties. Horizon Family Solutions,
LLC is not responsible for the availability of, or the
content located on or through, any such third-party
site. Information in this document is provided "as is,"
without warranty of any kind, either expressed or
implied, including but not limited to the implied
warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular
purpose and freedom from infringement. The user
assumes the entire risk as to the accuracy and the
use of this document. Horizon Family Solutions, LLC
will not be liable for any damages of any kind arising
from the use of this information, including, but not
limited to direct, indirect, incidental, punitive, and
consequential damages.
All the best to you and your family!

Dore E. Frances
Horizon Family Solutions, LLC
Phone:
(541) 312-4422
Fax:
(541) 312-4420
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