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From Paddling the Rapids ...
Greetings!
Welcome to the new focus for our newsletters. We have created a learning agenda for the year, which grows from being intrigued with how sabbaticals could transform leadership sustainability and vibrancy. This is the third issue. If you are curious about the content of past newsletters, click here to access the archive from our homepage.
You are invited to pause with us, each month, by reading this newsletter, thus taking a sabbatical of your own. Cease. Reflect. Enliven.
Have you scheduled your vacation? Write and tell us. Carol & Deb |
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The Power of the Sabbatical
Each month we will highlight a leader who has found a strategy for renewal that works for them. Typically sabbatical is thought of as a year away from one's work. We are taking liberty with that traditional definition - and extending it to mean any strategy that allows you to cease work as usual, reflect, and enliven your practice. We will tell your stories each month. Email us with yours.
From Nat Shed, executive director of The Friends Camp in South China:
"In the fall 2011, I was given the opportunity to take a six-month sabbatical from my work as the director of Friends Camp, a small Quaker youth camp in South China, Maine. The guidelines for my sabbatical were simple: fifty-percent pay, full benefits and no work related tasks or expectations. When I think about my sabbatical, I have three overwhelming thoughts: what a very special blessing it was, what would the world would be like if everyone could have a sabbatical, and finally having the opportunity to try out and see what an active, thoughtful and creative retirement would feel like. My sabbatical time-off was mostly focused in six areas: family, travel, exercise, meditation, house projects, and a new creative project. Our family gatherings, more time with my lovely partner, Julie, and our rituals of daily exercise and a twenty-minute meditation in the afternoon were very important to each of us and to our relationship. To have had a once-in-a-life-time trip to Alaska and to have had a long road trip to visit with many friends and family were adventures that would not have fit into the annual two-week vacation slot. The most interesting and thought provoking part of my sabbatical time was my work on a project called; A Promise to your Children - Healthy Co-Parenting. It will be group sessions with divorced parents who wish to be excellent co-parents. This sabbatical project has not been completed, but it is almost ready for some test sessions and for marketing and business plan to be implemented. I would have liked to have completed the A Promise to your Children project, to have meditated more and to have had a few more relaxing dinners with family and friends, but overall it was a wonderful sabbatical and most importantly, I was excited to get back to my Friends Camp work in January."
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Reflect
From Deb: Tony Schwartz (see Resource section below) urges us to "take real and regular vacations." Why are vacations essential? Having just returned from one, here are my responses: Sleep - lots of sleep. I didn't realize how tired I was. Having days with nothing scheduled; days when I could wake up and follow my nose rather than my calendar nourishes me like nothing else. Being in the striking New Mexico landscape and having time to take long walks and hike to my favorite canyon in Bandelier National Monument feeds my spirit. I am also replenished at a primal level by long talks with good friends who have known me for years; time to share our stories from the past year, to laugh a lot and cry easily, eat good food together, and talk of what matters. I returned home feeling full and eager to re-enter the rhythm of my days.
How often do we need a real vacation? What truly replenishes us? What combination of adventure and rest works? Can staying home also work? What is the balance between time alone and time with others? What are the essential elements for you - time in nature, physical activity, time in the city, a planned tour, a quiet retreat? I am now looking at my calendar and planning my next two vacations. Do you have yours planned? Start imagining your vacation...  From Carol:
Having uncommitted time is an odd, unfamiliar and somewhat uncomfortable phenomena. I don't like to admit it, but I am accustomed to being attached to my planner and having multiple lists driving the organization (or not) of my day. Purpose and productivity. March 20th marked the end of a hard push through the physical detachment of my mother from her primary home. I arrived back to my home tired, satisfied, and with time. At first reclaiming my space and integrating in the few belongings of my mother's that I kept was my focus. Opening mail, catching up on correspondence, dealing with my finances filled the days. A recovery period from a surgery followed. Then those tasks were complete. Then what?
Space. I have space. This is exactly what I asked for - wasn't it? It is taking some practice to give myself permission to settle in to a day of openness. I get curious about the part of me making plans and get to ask, "Is this really what I am longing for?"
This time is not a vacation. It is my life - right now. This sabbatical frees me to re-acquaint myself with dreams, to look at what work is now, to stretch the edges of how I define my purpose, to breath more deeply, to care for myself more fully, and to laugh at how serious I can be more frequently.
And I get to go to Alaska and sit in the wide open beauty and silence of Denali for a week in June. A big dream. All because the wisdom of the sabbatical made it so.
Considering a Sabbatical? Want support in framing it? Questions? Send us an e-mail 
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Resource
THE MAGIC OF DOING ONE THING AT A TIME
from HRB Blog, by Tony Schwartz, president and CEO of The Energy Project and the author of Be Excellent at Anything.
Why is it that between 25% and 50% of people report feeling overwhelmed or burned out at work? It's not just the number of hours we're working, but also the fact that we spend too many continuous hours juggling too many things at the same time.
What we've lost, above all, are stopping points, finish lines and boundaries. Technology has blurred them beyond recognition. Wherever we go, our work follows us, on our digital devices, ever insistent and intrusive. It's like an itch we can't resist scratching, even though scratching invariably makes it worse.
Tell the truth: Do you answer email during conference calls (and sometimes even during calls with one other person)? Do you bring your laptop to meetings and then pretend you're taking notes while you surf the net? Do you eat lunch at your desk? Do you make calls while you're driving, and even send the occasional text, even though you know you shouldn't?
The biggest cost - assuming you don't crash - is to your productivity. In part, that's a simple consequence of splitting your attention, so that you're partially engaged in multiple activities but rarely fully engaged in any one. In part, it's because when you switch away from a primary task to do something else, you're increasing the time it takes to finish that task by an average of 25 per cent.
But most insidiously, it's because if you're always doing something, you're relentlessly burning down your available reservoir of energy over the course of every day, so you have less available with every passing hour.
I know this from my own experience. I get two to three times as much writing accomplished when I focus without interruption for a designated period of time and then take a real break, away from my desk. The best way for an organization to fuel higher productivity and more innovative thinking is to strongly encourage finite periods of absorbed focus, as well as shorter periods of real renewal.
If you're a manager, here are three policies worth promoting:
1. Maintain meeting discipline. Schedule meetings for 45 minutes, rather than an hour or longer, so participants can stay focused, take time afterward to reflect on what's been discussed, and recover before the next obligation. Start all meetings at a precise time, end at a precise time, and insist that all digital devices be turned off throughout the meeting.
2. Stop demanding or expecting instant responsiveness at every moment of the day. It forces your people into reactive mode, fractures their attention, and makes it difficult for them to sustain attention on their priorities. Let them turn off their email at certain times. If it's urgent, you can call them - but that won't happen very often.
3. Encourage renewal. Create at least one time during the day when you encourage your people to stop working and take a break. Offer a midafternoon class in yoga, or meditation, organize a group walk or workout, or consider creating a renewal room where people can relax, or take a nap. It's also up to individuals to set their own boundaries. Consider these three behaviors for yourself:
1. Do the most important thing first in the morning, preferably without interruption, for 60 to 90 minutes, with a clear start and stop time. If possible, work in a private space during this period, or with sound-reducing earphones. Finally, resist every impulse to distraction, knowing that you have a designated stopping point. The more absorbed you can get, the more productive you'll be. When you're done, take at least a few minutes to renew.
2. Establish regular, scheduled times to think more long term, creatively, or strategically. If you don't, you'll constantly succumb to the tyranny of the urgent. Also, find a different environment in which to do this activity - preferably one that's relaxed and conducive to open-ended thinking.
3. Take real and regular vacations. Real means that when you're off, you're truly disconnecting from work. Regular means several times a year if possible, even if some are only two or three days added to a weekend. The research strongly suggests that you'll be far healthier if you take all of your vacation time, and more productive overall.
A single principle lies at the heart of all these suggestions. When you're engaged at work, fully engage, for defined periods of time. When you're renewing, truly renew. Make waves. Stop living your life in the gray zone.
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Sabbatical or a sabbatical (from Latin sabbaticus, from Greek sabbatikos, from Hebrew shabbat, i.e, Sabbath, literally a "ceasing") is a rest from work, or a hiatus, often lasting from two months to a year.
CEASE.
REFLECT.
ENLIVEN.

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"[She] or he who returns from a journey
is not the same as s/he who left."
Chinese Proverb
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Upcoming events, leadership institutes, and retreat venues:
Events: November 9-12, 2012 - A Sabbatical for Leaders with Deb & Carol, Maine, interested? (request info ) Imagine...having unfettered time to reflect, time to engage in meaningful dialogue with colleagues, stretching the edges of your usual responses, having someone prepare delicious food for you, watching leaves drop in a beautiful place, and mulling on the questions that keep tapping you on the shoulder... Join Deb and Carol on a retreat for leaders. Join your colleagues on the journey. Join yourself in a time of refreshment and renewal.
May 6-11 - The Ease of Being: Spring Yoga & Meditation Retreat, Brooks, ME - info May 28-June 3 -Beauty, Heart & Spirit Retreat: A Woman's Circle of Transformation - Paris, Giverny Gardens, & Chartres, France with Barbara Babkirk -info July 9-13 - Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, Nancy Hathaway, USM, ME - information link July 19-25 - Beginning Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, Robert Cox, Brunswick, ME - information link July 27 - Courage to Lead: A Retreat for Personal Renewal, Wellesley College, MA -information link
Institutes: April 9-13 - The Art of Leadership, Rockwood Leadership Institute, NYC area - info August 6-10, Leadership and the New Science with Margaret Wheatley, Cape Cod Institute, MA - info Retreats: Maine Huts & Trails, (Poplar Stream, Flagstaff Lake, Grand Falls), Maine - info Nurture Through Nature, self-designed retreats, Maine -info Fifth House Lodge, west of Portland, Maine - info Rest & Renewal, Kripalu, in the Berkshires, Western Massachusetts - info  |

About Paddling The Rapids, LLC: Like paddling the rapids, leaders are faced daily with a multitude of issues, decisions and tasks competing for a finite amount of their time, energy, and resources. The Paddling the Rapids team of Deb Burwell and Carol Carriuolo respect and honor the courage it takes to be leaders. We bring leaders together in peer learning forums to share wisdom and experience, sharpen skills, and renew energy. Additionally we work with organizations to build leadership and organizational capacity.
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