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April 2010
 
 
 
In This Issue
Birth Rates Drop
Pediatricians Endorse Abstinence
Comprehensive Sex Ed
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We are pleased to announce new, lower priced program options to fit your budget for the 2010-2011 school year. Book before September 30, 2010 to guarantee our lower rate options. From small school specials, lower cost assembly rate fees and reduced travel expenses we are working hard to make our programs as economical as possible.
 
Thank you to all of the nurses, counselors, teachers, principals, PTAs, school board members and community members who plan and budget for our programs each year.
Teen Birth Rates Drop!
 
After the 2008 birth rates were released a few weeks ago, the CDC announced teen births have once again resumed a downward trend.
 
10-14 year-olds 
     1991-2005 dropped 53%
     2005-2007 dropped 7% to the lowest % since 1954
     2008 unchanged
    
15-17 year-olds 
    1991-2005 dropped 45%  
    2005-2007 increased 4%    
    2008 dropped 3%
 
18-19 year-olds

    1991-2005 dropped 26%    
    2005-2007 increased 6%     
    2008 dropped 4%
 
Rates dropped for all races by at least 2%, and the 5% decrease for Hispanics was the lowest rate ever reported in the two decades for which rates are available.
The American College of Pediatricians Endorses Abstinence Education
 
The American College of Pediatricians made the following statement:
The American College of Pediatricians strongly endorses abstinence-until-marriage sex education and recommends adoption by all school systems in lieu of "comprehensive sex education." 
The following information is from The American College of Pediatricians website and explains why they have chosen to endorse abstinence education. 
 
Sexually Transmitted Infections - Adolescent sexual activity is detrimental to the well-being of all involved, especially young women, and society at large.
  • Children and adolescents from 10 to 19 years of age are more at risk for contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) than adults.
  • 50 percent of the 19 million new cases of STIs that occur annually occur in teens and young adults under 25.
  • 25% of newly diagnosed cases of HIV occur in those under 22 years of age.
  • 1 in 4 sexually active teenage girls is infected with at least one STI.
  • Herpes, HPV and HIV are generally incurable.
  • Herpes can result in recurring painful sores, may be spread even when asymptomatic and may be life threatening to infants if passed on at birth during vaginal delivery.
  • HPV is found among 90% of sexually active young adults and teens. It may persist for life and result in cervical cancer.
  • HIV causes premature death and significant suffering with life-long dependence on multiple toxic and costly medications. 
 
Teen Pregnancy 
One in 13 high school girls becomes pregnant each year.
Teen pregnancy results in decreased educational opportunities for the mother and increased risk of poverty. Her children have a significant risk of premature birth, low birth weight, poor health, poor school performance, running away from home, being abused or neglected, growing up without a father. 
 
Emotional Problems

  • 1 in 8 teens suffers from depression, and suicide is now the third leading cause of death for adolescents, paralleling the rise in STIs within this population.
  • STIs have long been recognized as a cause for depression among teens. In fact, sexual activity alone has been acknowledged as an independent risk factor for developing low self-esteem, major depression and attempting suicide.
  • Scientists now know that sexual activity releases chemicals in the brain that create emotional bonds between partners. Breaking these bonds can cause depression, and make it harder to bond with someone else in the future.
  • Sexual activity is defined as genital contact. This includes mutual masturbation, as well as oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse. While only vaginal intercourse may result in pregnancy, all of these practices may spread STIs, and lead to emotional trauma.
Condoms
Comprehensive programs (also known as abstinence-plus) are misleading in the emphasis they place on condom use. These programs give teens the impression that condoms make sexual activity safe. Teens must be informed that condoms do not offer complete protection from either pregnancy or STIs.
 
The amount of discussion dedicated to "safer sex" in the comprehensive education exceeds that spent on abstinence by a factor of up to seven. Some of the programs failed to mention abstinence altogether. None of the programs carefully distinguished between reducing and eliminating the risks of sexual activity, and nearly every program failed to mention the emotional consequences of early sexual activity. 
 
The Teen Brain
The American College of Pediatricians position supporting abstinence-until-marriage education, unlike alternative education platforms, also recognizes the unique neurobiology of adolescent brains. The frontal cortex of the adolescent brain is still in development and unable to make the consistently wise executive decisions necessary to control action based on emotional input. Research has found that young people do not have the physical brain capacity to make fully mature decisions until their mid-twenties.
 
Consequently, when it comes to sex education, adolescents need to be given clear direction repeatedly, as is done with programs that address smoking, drugs, and alcohol use. Emphasis on contraceptive use reinforces the ubiquitous (yet erroneous) message presented by the media that engaging in sexual activity is not only expected of teens, but also the norm. Adolescent brains are not equipped to handle these mixed messages. Parents and teachers need to "function as a surrogate set of frontal lobes, an auxiliary problem solver" for their teens, setting firm and immutable expectations. Adolescents need repetitive, clear, and consistent guidance.
 
Abstaining from all sexual activity is the only 100 percent safe and effective way to avoid teen pregnancies, STIs, and the emotional fallout of adolescent sexual activity. Almost 40 years of emphasis on "safer sex" with "values-neutral sex education," condoms and contraception has clearly failed our young people.
 
Abstinence Education is Effective
Abstinence education does not occur in a vacuum, making it especially difficult to separate its influence from the opposing influence of the media and cultural milieu. Nevertheless, effectiveness of abstinence sex education in delaying the onset of sexual debut has been demonstrated in rigorous scientific studies.

Most Americans Agree with the Abstinence Message
According to a 2004 Zogby Poll, 90% of adults and teens agree with The American College of Pediatricians position that teens should be given a strong abstinence message. Programs that teach sexual abstinence until marriage are about much more than simply delaying sexual activity. They assist adolescents in establishing positive character traits, formulating long-term goals, and developing emotionally healthy relationships. These programs increase the likelihood of strong marriages and families - the single most essential resource for the strength and survival of our nation.
 
Note: If you've seen the various Aim For Success programs, then you know we cover all the topics outlined in the preceding article. 
 
Click here to view the American College of Pediatricians article in full.
Article Headline
Comprehensive Sex Ed
How Safe Is It? 
 
The Internet is filled with websites ready to teach your children how to have Safe Sex. One such website is The Coalition for Positive Sexuality (CPS).
 
Here's what they tell young people in their section called Just Say Yes:
"While it is normal and healthy for people to enjoy active sex lives, there are more than 30 sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) that can make things unpleasant. Every year 2.5 million U.S. teenagers get STDs. Nobody is immune. Practice Safe Sex, so you won't have to worry about STDs and STIs, and sex will be a lot more fun."
Really? People who practice Safe Sex don't have to worry about STDs or STIs? I wonder where they are getting their medical facts.
 
They go on to state, "Condoms, latex surgical gloves, and plastic wrap are the only ways to protect yourself and your partner from STDs and HIV, but they're not foolproof. You've got to use them correctly every time you have sex."
 
Amazing! This group is actually teaching teenagers that condoms, surgical gloves and plastic wrap are the ONLY ways to protect yourself from STDs and HIV. WHAT ABOUT ABSTINENCE? Ever hear about that? And how dare they teach teens that condoms, surgical gloves and plastic wrap protects from STDs or HIV. They might reduce the risk if the infected area is covered, but they certainly DO NOT prevent STDs or pregnancies.
 
The group then has the audacity to ask for your help, "Please help us to continue providing teens with candid sex education materials." And then they tell you where you can send donations.
 
Click here to view their website. WARNING it is rather graphic.