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Teen Healthy Relationship e-bulletin 

 

Welcome to the second issue of the Teen Healthy Relationships e-bulletin.  

 

The theme of this issue is: "Social Media."

 

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In this e-bulletin, you'll learn how to become a strong ally to young people as they navigate their on-line relationships.

 

The late Steve Jobs, the infamous Apple co-founder, once said: "Technology is nothing. What's important is that you have a faith in people, that they're basically good and smart, and if you give them tools, they'll do wonderful things with them."

 

Canadians spend more hours on-line than any other country.  

  • 81% are using the internet and they average 45 hours a week on-line - a full work week plus overtime! Incredibly, over 17 million people in Canada are registered on Facebook.

 

When it comes to relationships, technology is simply an alternate way to communicate. In fact for teens, the boundary between their "on-line" and "off-line" lives is almost non-existent.  

 

Connecting on-line can be lots of fun. However, young people need help learning how to develop healthy relationships on-line, just as they do in real life. If anything, the need is even greater.  

 

Young people's on-line lives are largely invisible to adults. On-line communication is hard to monitor, and easy to hide from parents. Teens are highly skilled in social media, while adults often feel intimidated by the technology - they may tend to back away. Adults may feel we have no right to "interfere" in teens' on-line social life. But meanwhile, too many teens are being victimized by abusive on-line behaviour.  

 

The resources in this e-bulletin are designed to help healthy relationship program practitioners to begin navigating the world of social media and on-line relationships, so you can better help young people to build these communication skills and set safe limits.

 

Anuradha Dugal

 Anu

 Director, Violence Prevention Program

Canadian Women's Foundation


Tips for Adapting Programs for Online Relationships

Today, most classes, workshops, and lectures begin with the familiar phrase: "Please turn off your phones and electronic devices."  

 

no cell phones Most people comply without grumbling, but some - especially teens - hate to disconnect. Losing their on-line connection feels like they are being deprived of something essential.   

 

Dr. Rena Bivens, Adjunct Professor at the Pauline Jewitt Institute for Women's and Gender Studies at Carleton University, has spent a lot of time thinking about the link between social media and relationships. She delivered the "We Aren't Dating Until it's Facebook Official" workshop at the Teen National Skills Institute, in February 2012.  

 

We are pleased to share two articles based on Dr. Bivens' work.  

 

The first discusses the issues and challenges that social media brings to relationships. Read more... 

 

The second provides specific tips for adapting healthy relationship programs to include on-line realities, as well as the slides from Dr. Bivens' workshop presentation. Read more... 

 

E-Relationships: How Do We Stay Socially Connected, Healthy and Safe?     

We are pleased to present news about the Atlantic summit on social media, presented by young women from Making Waves, as part of their Young Women in Leadership project. This was held just a few months after the National Skills Institute and is a great example of how to engage young people meaningfully. Teen VP

 

The discussion focused on a single question, which was posed by the young women: "E-relationships: How do we stay socially connected, healthy and safe?"  

Learn more about this intriguing Open Forum, an event that took John Sharpe out of his comfort zone!

 

Issue 2  
In This Issue
Tips for Adapting Programs for Online
How to Stay Socially Connected, Healthy and Safe
Learn More


 

UPCOMING ISSUE

Over the next month, we will be looking at the Learning Guide and how you can apply this information to your own programs.  

 

Our first in depth look will be Gender Analysis.  

 

If you have any questions about this section of the Learning Guide, please email us at teenvp@canadianwomen.org
 so that we can include your questions in our upcoming info sessions!
 

 

 

 

AN INVITATION FROM YOUTH

In February 2012, after the National Skills Institute on Teen Healthy Relationships was over, dozens of Youth delegates from across Canada joined together through Facebook to keep the conversation going.  

 
Led by the Youth Advisory Committee, the Youth delegates created the Teen Healthy Relationships Community Facebook group. Over the last few months, they have been exploring how to use this new group to build a social change network.   

 

This group is now ready and eager to connect with other individuals and organizations who are also working to promote healthy relationships. 

 

Join the Teen Healthy Relationships Community Facebook group.  

 

The Youth Advisory Committee invites you to join the Facebook group, post questions, take part in discussions, dialogue with youth, and connect with other groups with expertise in teen healthy relationship programs.

 

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