May 2009 

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Phase 3 update!
From Pastor Bo Matthews
Women's retreat
Small groups by the numbers
May highlights
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Correction:
 
Wendy Vaites' name was misspelled in an article about the BVBC Work Day in the March issue of BVBCNews. We regret the error.
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A sneak peak into
Brandywine's future
 
BVBC leaders review values 
and progress of construction
 
About 70 leaders of various BVBC ministries met Saturday morning, April 25, for a briefing on the church's ministry blueprint -- its mission, vision, and values statements -- and a quick tour of the steel-and-concrete project that will help the congregation pursue those goals.
 
Blueprint and markers
Members of the pastoral staff spent about two hours explaining refinements to the mission statement (included at the bottom of each issue of BVBCNews) and discussing the five values identified as crucial for BVBC:
  • Being devoted to Christ
  • Pursuing holiness without self-righteousness
  • Practicing generous Christian orthodoxy
  • Building relationships
  • Working together

The refinement of such statements and values is part of a multi-year effort to change the "silo" mentality that can become an obstacle, said Senior Pastor Bo Matthews. The discussions are often intense, he said.

The "silo" concept is a reference to the phenomenon that often occurs when people work together in groups. Each subgroup is tempted to pursue its own priorities,
even at the expense of the larger group's mission. Only by deliberate effort will subgroups reach across to support and cheer on the work of others -- and that cooperative effort provides enormous traction toward any group's mission.
 
Beyond the congregation's need to work together is Brandywine's goal of connecting with the community and culture in meaningful ways, staff members said.
 
Those intersections can bring tension, too, said Brenda Wilson, director of assimilation and communication.
 
"But true holiness makes us bearers of grace, not condemnation," she said. "... Our heart is for people who come here to see God's compassion and grace, not condemnation. We value holiness for ourselves and grace for other people."
 
"Generous orthodoxy" refers to Brandywine's commitment to its statement of faith (click here to read it online) and to the time-honored truths of the Apostles' Creed, approaching all issues -- essential and non-essential -- with respect for others.
 
"Unity does not mean total uniformity," said Executive Pastor Bill Parsons.
 
The sharpened mission and values statements got good reviews from leaders in attendance.
 
Dick Lawyer, a longtime broadcast editor and BVBC teacher, said he believed the document would work well not only at Brandywine but in multi-cultural settings.
 
Others said they could imagine using the list of five values as conversation starters with neighbors and friends.
 
After the 2 1/2-hour meeting, participants took a walk through the construction site -- ducking around dangling cables, stepping past racks of pipes and stacks of ductwork, and through still-empty steel door frames to get a feel for the new, expanded layout.
 
Karl Nockengost leads a tour
Though much work remains, many were struck by the natural light already illuminating the area, the way architect George Yu masterfully expanded the sanctuary's capacity while making it feel more intimate, and the new possibilities the project brings.
 
Sanctuary space
It has been almost a year since the walls of the old sanctuary were torn down, Bill Parsons noted, a day that produced mixed feelings of nostalgia and anticipation.
 
"But what has just been flat lines on paper for a couple of years now really is starting to take shape," he said. "It's going to serve us well in carrying out this mission and this vision."
From the Pastoral Staff
 
This Month:
Bo Matthews, senior pastor  
 
On lunchtime encounters
with carrots and granddaughters
 
I have two granddaughters in Wilmington, Jessica (2) and Molly (1). They call me Gamper. Carole (Gam) and I care for them four or five hours during most weekdays.
 
I like to have lunch with them. Molly's range of creativity with a small, cooked carrot makes many a lunchtime a study in orange.

Pastor Bo & MollyShe may pick up the carrot and just eat it. Life is good when she does that.
 
She can also take the carrot, squish it between her right thumb and forefinger, and then eat it. Or not.
 
A variation on that theme is to take the mangled carrot and rub it back and forth on her tray - fast.
 
The stakes rise when Molly takes a carrot and carelessly throws it on the floor. We make sure she knows that's not acceptable behavior. The cunning kicks in when she takes a carrot, fixes me with her eyes, while her arm swings out over the floor, and drops the carrot. That's the sign that she's had it. I take her out of the chair, set her on the floor, and she promptly stoops down with great cheer, picks up the carrot and eats it.
 
Meal time battles go with the turf. The relationship is bigger than that. That's what the picture is about.

Pastor Bo Matthews
Women's retreat draws 92
to Chesapeake Bay area
 
With the sparkling waters of the Chesapeake Bay as a backdrop, 92 women -- members and friends of BVBC -- converged on the beautiful meeting ground of Sandy Cove Ministries in North East, Md., the weekend after Easter.
 
Jill Goldner of Wilmington, author and mother of two, used humor and biblical insights to challenge women to "Count it All Joy" -- noting the distinction between happiness and joy, and offering practical ways to avoid the things that rob us of joy and embrace the things that build joy in our lives.
 
In addition to four teaching sessions and a series of four buffet meals, the women enjoyed time to savor the bayside Sandy Cove waterfrontenvironment, watch the antics of Sandy Cove's resident osprey, enjoy tennis and other outdoor sports, read, nap, take a hike to a nearby lighthouse, and see the sights and shops of tiny-but-quaint North East, Md.
 
"What I appreciate the most about these events is connecting with the other women," said Theresa Gillaspy (in the center of the photo below). "We really do need each other."
 
April Wilson (on the right in the photo below) attended with her mother, Angela (on the left), and they were among about 20 women who took the two-mile hike to Turkey Point Lighthouse on Saturday.
 
Lighthouse hike"Having such a beautiful weekend we were able to Count It All Joy -- a time of reflection to realize that our Lord is with us even in times of trouble," April said. "We can look for the opportunity to know and serve God."
 
The 2009 retreat was the third sponsored by BVBC. The first, in 2006, was in Avalon, N.J. Last year's was in Rehoboth Beach, Del.
 
"The retreats give women a chance to get away from the busy-ness of their daily responsibilities, time to think about their relationship to God and to be encouraged by each other," said Brenda Wilson, director of assimilation and communication.
 
In addition to Brenda, the retreat planning team included: Cynthia Brown, Karen Douglas, Jaimy Gillow, Jennifer Grayson, Carol Houseal, Mary Jane Schwab, and Joan Wagner.
Have you met ...?
 
Ed Rowse travels the world
to teach and encourage pastors 
 
What in the world is Ed Rowse - a former DuPont Co. chemical engineer and now grandfather of eight - doing in China, Kazakhstan, Peru, Ukraine, and other far-flung places around the globe?

He's reporting for duty, pursuing a mission that started in July 1998, when he was part of a BVBC trip to Ukraine. That trip led to a BVBC partnership in building a church in the village of Volitsa.

In 2001, he visited Peru with Gabe Agostini, who had a concentrated ministry there at the time, and the experience changed Ed's retirement plans.

"The Lord confirmed to me that he wanted me to spend my retirement teaching pastors who have little chance to be educated," he said.
 
Class in Peru
That's what he has been doing ever since - in 16 trips to Ukraine, in 16 trips to Peru (he and Gabe are in the center of the front row in this photo). He has also taught in Chile, Argentina, Ecuador, Paraguay, Senegal, Cote d'Ivoire. He goes by invitation, he said.
He has taught Old Testament Survey, New Testament Survey, survey of world religions, marriage and family issues, and other subjects.
Bible teaching is not permitted in his work in China, he said, but he is able to present his life of faith as he addresses subjects such as how to develop a business and cross-cultural business relationships in large universities there.
Other BVBC men who have criss-crossed the earth in similar teaching roles are Fred Eck and Dick Lawyer, seen below in this photo with Ed (far right).
 
Fred, Dick and EdEd, whose wife is Suzanne, believes his 37 years of work with DuPont helped to prepare him for this work, as he traveled widely on assignment to Europe, South America, India and Japan, as well as many parts of the United States. Since 2000, he has been self-employed as a consultant.

"I have found that my engineering background has equipped me well in systematic thinking and problem solving to use the Bible to address many of the everyday problems that pastors face," he said.
Small groups
by the numbers
 
I thought you'd like to know some of what God has been doing in small groups in 2009:
  • 1 group was started for those who have suffered unemployment.
  • 2 people came to Christ in outreach groups.
  • 2 marriages were saved through Divorce Care.
  • 3 Alpha groups were started at our latest dinner.
  • 4 Asian students formed an Alpha group and are now advertising this group through the English Language Institute in Newark.
  • 5 women formed a women's group.
  • 6 women took small group leadership training.
  • 7 Alpha groups now exist.
  • 8 men are now part of a small group follow-up to a prison ministry.
    They are studying the Alpha course.
  • 9 groups are currently studying "Just Walk Across the Room."
  • 15 groups have pledged to study "Just Walk Across the Room."
  • 25 people attended our third Alpha retreat.
  • 30 people attended our latest Alpha celebration dinner.

This shows the diversity of ministry and caring occurring through small groups at BVBC. We are caring for each other and reaching out to our community with the love of Christ. Small groups are a core ministry at BVBC and we encourage everyone attending our church to join a small group or help form one.

Pastor Karl Nockengost
Coming in May ...
  • Junior High Joust Night, 6:30-8 p.m., Friday, May 1. Cost: $5.
  • Senior High Endless Night, starting at 9 p.m., Friday, May 1. Cost: $35. Much more information is available on the church Web site by clicking here.
  • Children's spring retreat at High Point Camp in Geigertown, Pa., May 8-9, for children in first through fifth grades. For more information, contact Cindy Donohue at the church office, 478-4255, or click here to go to the children's ministry Web site.
  • Annual churchwide budget meeting, 7 p.m., Thursday, May 14, in the gymnasium.
  • "Just Walk Across the Room" academy class with Pastor Mark Smith, at 6 p.m. Sundays -- May 17 and 31 and June 7 and 14, all in the West Wing.
  • Churchwide work day, 8:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., Saturday, May 30. Assorted building and grounds projects.
Our Mission

To introduce people to Jesus Christ and help them to follow him.

Our Vision
 
To be a community of Christ-followers, known by our love:
  • Engaging our God in heartfelt worship
  • Engaging our community with compassion
  • Engaging our culture with gracious discernment

Our Values

  • Being devoted to Christ
  • Pursing holiness without being self-righteous
  • Practicing generous Christian orthodoxy
  • Building relationships
  • Working together 

BVBCNews is produced by: 

Brandywine Valley Baptist Church
Office of Assimilation & Communication
Brenda Wilson, director
(302) 478-4255
Parting
Thought
 
"By perseverance the snail reached the ark."
 
-- Charles Haddon Spurgeon