Resident Interview:
Meet Naomi
Q: How did you find out about Mary's Shelter?
A: I was referred to this shelter by someone at Birthright. I went to them for assistance after having to leave my apartment with my daughter and they were kind and responsive to my need for assistance.
Q: Are there things about living here that you find difficult?
A: It is difficult living so far away from friends and family. I also have to travel long distances to handle some of my business. I find it difficult sometimes juggling all of the responsibilities that I have. Sometimes schedules are tight and I go from one thing to another very quickly. But I manage to get it all done. Living here teaches you about the responsibility of running a home and taking care of the children. You take away a lot of life lessons.
Q: Tell me a little about your other children.
A: Jordan is four years old and quite precocious. She has her own little personality and is so smart. She is very friendly and open to everyone and most people we meet like her immediately. She loves animals and loves to watch shows on Qubo where they talk about them. She will be a good big sister to her new baby brother.
Q: Did you ever consider having an abortion during this pregnancy?
A: I have never considered having an abortion. I have very little family and am looking forward to welcoming my son into the world. Children are a gift from God.
Q: What are some of the greatest challenges you have faced?
A: There have been many challenges for me recently. Just over a year ago I lost my Mom, who was an important part of my support system. It has been difficult to find stability for myself and my daughter. Finding employment during pregnancy has also been a challenge; having money has been very hard.
Q: What aspects of your life are trying to change?
A: I want to be gainfully employed in a position that will pay me a living wage so that I can provide stability for myself and my children. What that means is a stable home in a safe neighborhood, enough food to eat and sufficient clothing. I also want to be in a position to ensure that the children get an excellent education so that they won't have to face some of the same challenges I have.
Q: What goals do you have for yourself?
A: My next goal is to deliver a happy, healthy baby boy. From there I plan to work to achieve the stability the children and I need. I plan to return to school to further my education and to land a good position in nursing where I can advance in my career.
Q: What place does God have in your life?
A: God plays a very important role in my life. I look to him for guidance and lean heavily on him during difficult times. I want my children to know his word and for our family to attend church regularly. I know that God will see me through to achieving my goals and providing for my family.
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