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In This Issue
Meet Isabel
The House Blessing
New Baby!
Volunteer Corner - Ginny Foreman
Baby Teijon Got 2nd Place!
The Mary's Shelter Bake Sales
The Mary's Shelter Cookbook
Monday Night Madness
Thank You!
Meet Isabel

Q: What are the greatest challenges you have faced in your life?

The greatest challenge was losing custody of my children.  I was 20, and they were 3 and 9 mos. old.  Losing them led me to a 7 year struggle with alcoholism.  The next greatest challenge was overcoming alcoholism.

Q: What does motherhood mean to you?

Motherhood means taking care of the blessing that God has given me. It means being responsible, loving, caring, nurturing, understanding, and patient! When my girls were born, I was too young to understand about motherhood. I thank God for the second chance He has given me.

Q: What are your goals in life?

1. To stay as close to God as I am today.

2. To regain my relationship with my daughters.
3. To learn to be the best real estate agent I can be.

Q: What hopes do you have for your child?

 That he would be a gentleman, love life, and most of all, be happy.


Q: Can you give some words of advice or encouragement to a woman in your situation?

Please hold on and never give up on yourself, no matter how big the obstacles are in front of you.  Trust and hold on.  Never, ever give up faith.

Q: How did you come to Mary's Shelter?

I had been living at Sober Living House in Alexandria.  I lived with 7 other recovering substance abusers.  It was pretty rough there!  I got pregnant while living there, and since there are no children allowed, I knew I would have to leave.  I went to the Arlington Gabriel Project for help, and they told me about Mary's Shelter.

Q: What do you like or dislike or find difficult about your life at Mary's Shelter?

I like everything!  Really, I do.  I have nothing to complain about.  This is a blessing that just fell out of the sky.  I am allowed to be myself, to do what I enjoy, but there's structure, and everyone needs that.

Q. What would you do if you won the lottery?

I would give back to the charities that have helped me. I'm not saying I would give all of it!  But I'm serious about The Man upstairs, and I think I would need to show God how grateful I am for what he has done for me.

Q. What place does God have in your life?

1st Place!!





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 Mary's Shelter April Newsletter
Vol. 2, No. 4
Greetings and a Special Welcome

It has been such a wonderful month at Mary's Shelter.  We have been blessed with new babies in our homes - always the best part.  We have received generous donations which will go a long way in keeping our homes up and running.  Father Tran, from St. Matthew's Catholic Church, blessed our newest home, which we dedicated to a beautiful baby boy.  It is such a joy to witness so many come together to give to those who have less.  Thanks to all for the love, support, prayers and joy you bring to this ministry.  We could not do this work without you. 

And last but not least, we would like to welcome our first intern. Amanda Lord works by day at American Life League, and by night at Mary's Shelter! We are so pleased to have her on board. 

God Bless. 
Kathleen Wilson

 
"Each one of them is Jesus in disguise." 

-Mother Teresa



The House Blessing and Dedication


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The blessing and dedication of our new house occurred on April 17th.  Fr. Augustine Tran was kind enough to bless our new home, and to preside over the dedication.  We have dedicated each of our homes to a benefactor who, in passing away, requested that donations be made in their name to Mary's Shelter.  This home we dedicated to the memory of Paul Thomas Rocky Sowa, a  baby boy who died three minutes after birth.  His parents, Paul and Kristen, discovered during her pregnancy that the baby would be born with Trisomy 18, a fatal birth defect.  They were advised to abort their child, but for the Sowas, that was simply not an option.  They wanted to cherish whatever time God would allow them to have with their son.  To honor their son's memory, Kristen and Paul requested that donations be given to the residents of Mary's Shelter, many of whom, like Kristen,  were advised to abort their babies but chose otherwise.

Paul and Kristen Sowa with Fr. Tran.
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dedication pic with kathleen

In this picture, the Sowas have presented Mary's Shelter with a framed photograph of Paul Sowa cradling his son's feet. The picture was taken by a professional portrait photographer, Rosanne Rainville, who volunteers with Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep Ministries. A word of caution about this link: it will make you cry!

We are honored to have such a beautiful testament to life hanging in our home. Paul and Kristen, we can't thank you enough for your inspiring example of grace and generosity. God Bless You!
Resident Profiles

The following are profiles of some of our current residents.  All names are fictitious. 


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BERNADETTE:  Congratulations to Bernadette on the birth of her son, Kullin, on March 29th!  Bernadette is very excited that he is here and that her swollen ankles are gone.  The go-getter that she is, Bernadette is already making plans to go back to work.  She had a set-back with starting her CNA classes, which was very demoralizing for her, but with patience and perseverance, she will get there.  Please pray that she continues walking the straight and narrow path and does not get discouraged!


CELINE:  Celine had an abortion two years ago, and it has haunted her every day since.  When she discovered she was pregnant again, she knew she could never go through with another abortion.  However, some of the nightmares she has had since her abortion have cast a shadow of doom upon her current pregnancy.   She dreams that she will never be able to carry another child to term, and the fact that she is now experiencing a high-risk pregnancy only confirms her fears.  She was rejected by every high-risk pregnancy doctor in Fredericksburg because of her fibroid tumors, her borderline hypertension, and her weight.   We told her about Tepeyac Family Center, a group of pro-life OB-GYNs in Fairfax, and she made an appointment.  As we hoped, Tepeyac accepted her as a patient.  But a few hours after her first appointment, she became so ill that she was admitted to Mary Washington Hospital.  One of her fibroid tumors is the size of a grapefruit and the baby, undoubtedly annoyed by this invasion of her space,  started attacking it.  Celine was in excruciating pain.  After two days in the hospital, the doctors were able to get her stabilized, and released her with a cocktail of drugs to manage the pain.  There is nothing else they can do for her.  Celine had just been offered a great job at Macy's right before this happened.  Please pray that she is able to keep her job, keep her pain under control, and keep her faith.


CATHERINE:  Catherine, in her 8th month of pregnancy, was offered a job at Wal-Mart.  Kudos to Wal-Mart!  She was hesitant about accepting the job since she did not have daycare for her son, and since the Fredbus has such a limited schedule.  However, the other Mary's Shelter residents came together and took turns watching her son, and her great volunteer Christina offered to help with transportation.  It was all going so well for about two weeks, and then her doctor put her on partial bedrest!  Catherine was very disappointed.  However, her baby will be here soon, and after a suitable recovery and baby-bonding period, we hope she'll be back at Wal-Mart!  Please pray that there is still a job for her after her baby is born, and that she can continue to find reliable daycare and transportation.


LUCY:  Lucy is due in July with her first child, a girl.  Were it not for the moxie of a concerned neighbor, Lucy would have aborted her baby girl, whom she plans to name Melody.  Lucy's mother was not thrilled that her 20 yr. old unemployed and poorly educated daughter was pregnant.  She let Lucy know, under no uncertain terms, that no more babies were welcome in her house.  Lucy and her mother made a visit to the abortion clinic, but were told that she was not far enough along and needed to return at a later date.  Somehow, Lucy's neighbor got wind of this, and had the courage to invite Lucy to the Arlington Project Gabriel office.  The counselors there told Lucy about Mary's Shelter.  She told them that if Mary's Shelter had room, she would consider canceling her abortion, which was scheduled for the following week.  Fortunately for baby Melody, we had room!  We are proud of Lucy for choosing life, but she still has a lot of growing up to do.   We are praying that she will pass her GED test this summer, that she will find gainful employment, and that she will take the initiative to prepare herself for childbirth and parenting.  Please pray that Lucy can meet the many challenges that lie ahead.


FELICITY:  Felicity is technically due in mid-May with her second son, but she has been experiencing a lot of early labor, and will likely give birth early.  Just last year, 20 yr. old Felicity was living with her husband and baby son.  Their brief marriage fell apart, and Felicity moved out.  She began seeing another man and within a few months, Felicity became pregnant.  The baby's father quickly left her, wanting nothing further to do with her.   The friend with whom she was staying moved away, and Felicity found herself homeless.  She sought help from Birthright, and they put her in touch with Mary's Shelter.  Since moving to Mary's Shelter, Felicity has been attending GED prep courses, and her instructor tells her that she is prepared to take the test in May.  She is in touch with her husband, and is hopeful they can make amends.  Please pray that Felicity is able to discern what is best for herself and her children.


In addition to the moms you have read about, Mary's Shelter provides homes to other mothers and children.  Please keep them ALL in your prayers.



Volunteer Corner

ginny picAn Interview with Ginny Foreman 
In addition to being a homeschooling mother of 5, Ginny is a homesteader, photographer, and knitter.





Q: What do your volunteer duties involve?


I spend time with the ladies on Monday nights helping to teach them knitting and crocheting skills.

Q: How did you first get involved with Mary's Shelter and begin volunteering?

I have been involved sporadically for a couple of years, but only recently became a regular volunteer.

Q: As a mother of 5 young children, how do you find time to volunteer?

I am careful to limit my time so that I don't get overwhelmed as that can quickly lead to burnout ,I've learned.  When I was told that the ladies were interested in learning to knit and crochet, I felt that was something I could help with on a regularly scheduled evening, keeping me free to care for my family during the day.  My husband is happy to care for our children so that I can spend time with these ladies and share with them one of my skills.

Q: What is the best part of volunteering at Mary's Shelter? What have you learned from your volunteer experience?

When I spend time with these ladies, all of whose company I truly enjoy, I am reminded to be thankful for the ways that God has provided for me throughout my life, even during times when I wasn't following Him as I should, making mistakes similar to those that many of these ladies have made. I was a little nervous about teaching, but the ladies have taught me that I really do have something that I can share with them.

Q: What would you recommend for others who want to get more involved in Mary's Shelter through volunteer work?

I would recommend that they talk with one of the volunteer coordinators about helping them find a way to give a little time, even if it is only twice a month.  It really is a joy to work with these ladies.

Q: What is the best thing about Mary's Shelter?

I really like the way that the women are pushed to be best they can be, and to learn that the best decisions in life aren't always the easiest.  These women are having their basic needs met, but they aren't given a "free ride."  They have to prove that they want to lead the best life they can in order to be part of the program.

BABY TEIJON GOT 2ND PLACE!

TEIJON IN STROLLER

Baby Teijon's mother entered him in a Cutest Baby Contest last month at the Walmart in Central Park. Baby Teijon collected $40 in support of the Children's Foundation. Congratulations Baby Teijon, and thanks to Lori Fowlkes, of Lori Elizabeth Photography, for taking such a cute picture!
The Mary's Shelter Bake Sales

Several of our residents have acquired an entrepreneurial spirit! They have been selling their homemade baked goods in front of Giant Supermarket, as well as inside a local Nail Care Spa to raise money for their educational expenses. We are so proud of their efforts! They have raised $534.00so far.  We hope you will visit Simply Carol's Advanced Nail Care Spa, buy some cookies, and support our ladies! And please follow us on Facebook to find out about their next bake sale at Giant!

Simply Carol's
317 Deacon Rd. Suite 103
Fredericksburg, VA 22405
540 419 4562
The Mary's Shelter Cookbook Project

If you haven't submitted your recipe to Tanya for the Mary's Shelter cookbook, it is not too late! Please email Tanya Guthrie at

Please submit your recipes soon! Even our Mary's Shelter ladies are submitting recipes. If they can do it, you can too!


Monday Night Madness!

heather knittingMonday Night Madness has begun, and what a success it has been so far! Every Monday night, our residents gather at our new, spacious abode for a crocheting class, a book club meeting, a cooking class, or another fun activity. The structure and the fellowship has been transforming.  We are so grateful to our wonderful volunteers who are making these evenings possible.

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Thank You!

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*Thanks to Karen Scanlon, Marge Callahan, and Ginny Foreman for teaching our ladies how to knit and crochet.

*Thank you to Vicky Sampson for teaching our ladies how to cook Tortellini en Brodo.

*Thanks to Lori Fowlkes, as always, for the last-minute baby photo shoot, and for the 3 beautifully framed photos of our babies that are now hanging in our new house!

*Thanks to Regina Hiney for the monthly book club meetings!

*Thanks to Laurie D'Antonio and Stacy Ferry for participating in our Saturday Night Speaker Series. Their talk, "Chosen for all Eternity", was very thought-provoking and definitely planted some seeds. We are looking forward to the follow-up talk!

*Thank you to the the Family Career and Community Leaders Group from Mountain View High Schoolfor the beautiful shower they threw for our ladies. Special thanks to Lauren Patton and Chelsea Riedel (pictured below with three of our ladies) for the organizing and delivery. The gifts are wonderful, and are both needed and appreciated!

Mountain View Shower

A Final Thank You

We are very grateful to the wonderful volunteers, prayer warriors, and donors who are crucial to the survival of Mary's Shelter. Through your ongoing support, we pray that this ministry will continue to foster a culture of life in our community for many years to come.

We hope you will continuing praying for the success of our "Fulfill the Promise" Campaign. Please help us by spreading word!

For more information about our "Fulfill the Promise" Campaign, please visit our website at www.marysshelterva.org, or simply press the button below.

Thank you and may God Bless you!

Sincerely,
The Directors and Staff of Mary's Shelter