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The Sometimes Weekly Goings-on of Houston's Lesbian Community

August 19th, 2010


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We here are Social Notes (OK, it's just me but I think the editorial WE sounds grander!) do our best to keep you In The Know about all the swell events in our wonderful GLBT community, but the truth is, we just can't cover every little thing. 

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Kindred Spirits 30th Anniversary Reunion Dance
kOMG, has it been 30 years since I spent every Friday and Saturday night at my favorite
bar, Kindred Spirits?????  I was always at the top of the stairs, checkin' out the womens as
they walked in.  And you can tell a LOT about a woman by the top of her head (ha!)  ....but I digress!s

Kindred Spirits was far and away the best bar this town ever had, and one of the premier women's bars evah in the entire country!  Although KS is no more, its fans come together once a year for a reunion and celebration dance.  And even if you weren't a KS regular back in the day, we still want you ALL to join in the fun.  This year's venue looks great, with a huge dance floor, plenty of seating and ample parking.  The DJ will be spinning a delightful mix of vintage dance music, country, hip hop and more, so polish up your dancing shoes!

Tickets are $20 per person in advance
and $25 at the door.  There are also a limited number of reserved tables available.  Please visit the  KS website for more info.   For table purchase & information please call 713-942-9690 or email.  Tickets are also available at Acadian Bakers (604 W. Alabama), Houston Buyers Club (3324 Yoakum) and The Shop (Westheimer at Commonwealth).
Upcoming "Don't Miss" Events

Be sure to check the Calendar page of Social Notes for more details on each of these fine events.  You'll find time, dates, location, a description of the event, along with prices and a links where appropriate.  Click on over so you'll be In The Know.

  • Thursday, August 19th:  :  The Lipstick Lounge, a happy hour for lesbians and their friends at Michael's Outpost
  • Friday, August 20th:  Tribella performs at The Usual
  • Sunday, August 22nd:  If You Think You Can Still Hoop Basketball Tournament
  • Saturday, August 28th:  Kindred Spirits 30th Anniversary Reunion Dance
  • Saturday, Sept. 4th:  Fluff the Kat sailor  womanperforms at Slick Willies
  • Sunday, Sept. 5th:  Lesbian Only Party Barge on Lake Travis
Weekly/Monthly Recurring Events

Here's a listing of events which occur regularly - either weekly or monthly.  As always, please click over to the Calendar page of Social Notes for all the details about each of these fine events.day timer
 
  • Every Tuesday:  Steak Night at The Usual
  • Every Thursday:  Free C&W dance lessons at BRB
  • The 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month:  Free C&W dance lessons at BRB
  • 2nd Friday of each month:  A2 40 Happy Hours
  • 1st Saturday of the month:  Queer Bingo
  • Every Sunday:  The Women's Group meets

"Save The Date" and purchase your tickets now for these future events!
ticket and rope lineEven though these events may be a few days/weeks down the road,
you need to buy your tickets and/or make your reservations NOW, girlfriend!
  You can find out all the details, including ticket purchase information,  by visiting the Calendar Page of Social Notes

  • Saturday, August 28th:  Kindred Spirits 30th Anniversary Reunion Celebration and Dance
  • Sunday, Sept. 5th:  All Lesbian Party Barge Party on Lake Travis

The Rant

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Well, unless you are living under a bridge these days, you've probably heard that folks have got their undies in a bundle over the idea that a mosque is going to be built at Ground Zero.  As Caribou Barbie tweets:  "Peace-seeking Muslims, pls understand, Ground Zero mosque is UNNECESSARY provocation; it stabs hearts".  Gosh, a mosque at Ground Zero, which Palin calls "hallowed ground" sure does sound ill-advised.  Of course, none of what she claims is true, but when has she ever let the facts get in the way of a good opportunity to rouse the rabble!

Here's the real poop behind this boohaha:
  • The proposed facility is NOT a mosque  - it is a Muslim community center (swimming pool, meeting rooms et) that happens to contain a prayer room.  Since the Pentagon also contains a Muslim prayer room, does that make it a mosque as well?
  • The location is NOT at Ground Zero - it is two big city blocks away, in a busy commercial area.  You cannot see Ground Zero from the Community Center and you cannot see the Community Center from Ground Zero.
  • The righties intentionally conflate Al Qaeda with the entire Muslim religion.  If we follow that "logic", shouldn't we shut down churches near the Murrah Building bomb site in Oklahoma because Christian terrorist Timothy McVeigh blew up a building there? 
  • The Center's site is hardly "hallowed ground" - it is a vacant Burlington Coat Factory!  And speaking of hallowed ground, here are other things within a 3 block radius of Ground Zero:  tittie bars, a gay bar, nail salons and all manner of other urban storefronts.  Are you planning on destroying all of those in the name of hallowedness?  For God's sakes, they are currently building a shopping center in the basement of the Ground Zero construction site.  Is Cinnabon going to be judged "hallow" enough to put a store in the basement of the towers.  And who gets to doo the judging?  Oh, you know the answer to that -- only the right wing loves our country sufficiently to define and interpret its precious values.  The left is too busy plotting the overthrow of our government, ramming vaguely progressive legislation down the throats of an unsupportive electorate, and planning the demise of Our Country As We Know It.
  • Oh yeah, it turns out that there are already at least 2 mosques within a several block radius of Ground Zero.  Surely we need to close them down forthwith...or not.
Of course, the Bill of Rights makes it very clear that all religions have the right to freely congregate and worship here in the good ol' US of A.  And make no mistake about it, these are AMERICAN citizens who want to socialize and pray with fellow believers, not some Al Qaeda underground cell who wants to plot our demise in the shadow of the fallen towers.

Palin and her cronies argue that just because it's legal doesn't make it right.  Well, here are the reasons why I think it is positively crucial to support the Muslims in their desire to create this center:
  • The Bill of Rights protects our freedoms at all times - not just when it is popular and/or convenient to do so.  Indeed, those rights were enumerated specifically so that we can protect the minority from the tyranny of a rabid majority.
  • After 9-11, I remember a lot of people wanting the "good Muslims" to stand up and renounce the actions of the bad ones.  This cultural center represents the best of the Muslim world - an effort to reach out to the entire community to build bridges of understanding and hope.  They are doing what we wanted them to do, for gosh sakes!
  • By supporting the creation of this center, we make a statement to the rest of the world that we LIVE by the values we preach.  Tolerance and religious freedom are amongst the values that in theory distinguish us from so many other nations.  Are we really so ready to abandon these principles a at the first shrill tweet from Sarah Palin nd her ilk??
  • If we force the Center's developers to move elsewhere, aren't we confirming Al Qaeda's message to the Muslim world - that the US is waging war on their whole religion?
Palin and other unhinged luminaries of the far right have latched onto this issue because it is in their DNA to search out opportunities to create "Us vs Them" scenarios - the better to pander to their cowering base.  The evil brown people are out to steal your precious freedoms and overtake our country, doncha know.  Sadly, they play their hand so well that even otherwise stalwart Democrats are caving under the pressure.  Thanks for nothing, Howard Dean and Harry Reid!  What profiles in courage - NOT!

As blogger Adam Serwer recently posted:  "Personally, I think every congressman or senator who opposes the Park 51 project should write the families of every Muslim service member in Iraq and Afghanistan to explain how the freedoms they're supposedly fighting for don't apply to them."

Couldn't have said it better myself!
   So Long!

reindeer with lightsIt may be early for you to start thinking about Christmas, but I'M already on it!  Please mark your calendars for Saturday, December 4th, which is the date for my annual Holiday Party.  With over 350 in attendance,
a chance to reconnect with old friends and to meet some new ones.

This year's charity beneficiary is Bering Omega Community Services, which provides compassionate health care and social services to people living with HIV/AIDS.  I'm delighted to report the return of our sponsors Red Bull, Silver Eagle/Bud Light, and Skyy Vodka along with new sponsors Heritage Wines, Pioneer Wine Company and Jagermeister!

So get me on your calendar for now, and stay tuned to Social Notes for more details in the fall.

Hope to see all your smilin' faces at the KS Reunion Dance next weekend!


Sincerely,

Carol Wyatt
Social Notes