Some people don't understand what I'm doing on my show and they may wonder what's with all the sexual references. If they know me from real life or they may know me as Barbara the faux painting teacher, then they should understand this is a character I've created. I don't usually go around flirting with every man that crosses my path and I don't get turned on by everyone I meet, though I'm sure its possible because at the heart of all of us is love no matter how well disguised it may be.
Sex is one of the most beautiful and powerful expressions we have but most of us don't experience it to its capacity. It's the one process that got us all here in the first place and then we're too blinded by distractions to really learn and understand it and all of its potentiality. I think life would so much better if everything was a turn on as it is with The Handy Goddess. She's always happy and everything is exciting and possible in her world.
I've had a few teachers in my life that have had a profound effect on me and one of them is Laurie Handlers with Butterfly Workshops. She is a sex educator, author, and intimacy coach. I've yet to meet her in person but I'm sure I will be attending her workshops at some point. I think everyone should learn from her or someone like her.
It's said, if you don't like what you're doing, then why are you doing it. And I love doing my show. I totally enjoy dreaming up sexual references that relate to home improvement. It just makes the creative hosting process so much more fun. And I don't think I'm the first one to relate sex to home improvement, just take a half hour and go sit in a plumbing supply store and listen to the language used there.
We can all use a little more humor in our lives so that is why I do this show. I do it for myself and also do it to add some lightness to the topic of sex and hopefully make people smile in the process while teaching them a few things.