Small Steps

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Lao-tzu
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Part of the journey is celebrating all of you,  and that may mean learning to embrace that part you aren't happy with.  Here's my ode to my thighs & hips: 

I'm sorry for the years and decades I've spent hating and despising you and calling you names.  At the best of times I just ignored you.  But you've been there regardless.  You've been doing what you were made to do with only minor complaints.

You carried me where I wanted to go. 
You provided a seat for dogs, cats & kids and a pillow for a lover's head.
You allowed me to sit and listen to stories and learn new things.
You kept pumping as I swam, biked and ran my way across the finish line.
You grew strong and flexible as I held downward facing dog a little bit longer.
You swayed to the beat of the music even when it was only in my imagination.
You closed car doors when my hands were full.
You propelled me upwards as I jumped in celebration.
You stored the extra calories I took in when I dealt with life by eating; and
You let them go again when I learned better ways to handle stress.
You reminded me, quite loudly, to slow down and stretch; but
You were willing to keep going once I did.
Thank you for all the steps, hops and skips that were possible because of you.

It's been a long journey towards acceptance, but I see a different beauty in my thighs now.  Sure they aren't the thin, toned and sleek ones that I always thought I wanted, but I see and accept them for what they are.  Thighs.  Human thighs.  Good quality and useful.  They're MINE and I'm keeping them.

What body part will you celebrate, enjoy or accept this week?
How'd it go?

What did you experiment with last week?
 
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Another supportive voice with compassion, Rochelle Rice's Blog.

For previous editions of my Small Steps
Quote:

The secret of health for mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly. 

Buddha

My Journey:
Shawndra's AFTER
I've lost weight twice before but I gained it back eventually.  This time I'm determined to keep it off and I realize that it's not a one time fix.  It's a journey.  And as with all great journeys, you learn as you go. 

I take these small steps with you each week because I also need to build and maintain the habits and behaviors that support me in my journey.  Thanks for joining me each week.  Have fun and enjoy your life!

more about my journey


Shawndra's BEFOREForward to a Friend




photos
above:  Shawndra,  2008 by Perceptions Unlimited

right:  Shawndra, Christmas 2003
 
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Shawndra Holmberg
Life Coach / Organizer

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808.969.3800

 



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