"Life begins at retirement."  -Author Unknown

 

   


Retired--Next Phase

Retirement - the Best Phase of your life!   

 

 Ed and Gail
Ed Topar and Gail Cassidy
 (formerly THE SEMINAR SOURCE)
  December 1, 2011    

      Issue #1, Volume 3     


Greetings!

 

Charles Kingsley said, "We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life when all that we need to be really happy is something to be enthusiastic about." By the time we reach retirement, many of us finally understand just how valuable it is to wake up every day really excited about what lies ahead, regardless of the comfort and luxury value involved.

 

This month's interviewee is an example of someone who has made his retirement a time of helping others and also earning money doing what he does best--making a difference in the lives of others.

 

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INTERVIEW -  "Ken" in Westfield       

 
Ken
He always sold something. "It started with a hand-me-down bicycle which enabled me to sell and deliver newspapers on a 7.3 mile paper route." In 7th grade Ken picked berries--blue berries, black berries, raspberries--and went door-to-door selling them for pennies. His mom made potholders which he sold for ten cents a piece or three for a quarter. He bought wholesale greeting cards and sold them individually, and he did the same with repackaged seeds he purchased. He even sold hundreds of tins of Suave in order to earn enough points to buy a b-b gun, which his father quickly confiscated.

And he did this all before he graduated from high school. Sales was in his blood.

Ken's father encouraged him to get into sales as a way to earn a good salary. He remembers advice once given to him by his dad, costing nothing to implement: "Comb your hair and shine your shoes. It's the first two things people look at."

After returning from his stint in the Army (17 months and three days in Korea), Ken continued in sales: Planters Peanuts, ice cream, novelties, and a knitting company factory where he began his life-long career in sales via The Fuller Brush Company.

It was here that he found his niche.
All he had to do was follow the rules: nine-hour days, eight displays an hour, don't ask little old ladies how they feel today (too much loss of time), never accept a cup of coffee, and never sit down in a customer's home, but most important of all, make the customer feel special.
    
That last rule, I believe, comes naturally to Ken. He is truly Mr. Warmth. One would never doubt his sincerity. Those two qualities--warmth and sincerity--I am sure explain his success in the field of sales.
    
After five years with Fuller Brush, Ken from Massachusetts, moved upward and onward with J.R. Watkins Products in Minnesota. He transferred to Buffalo, then on to the home office in Winona, Minnesota. After 14 years Ken joined W. T. Rawleigh Company in Illinois where he was director of Sales, then Vice President of Sales and Marketing, then onto another company in Dallas, Texas.

The one commonality with his last two jobs was the considerable time he spent in airports around the country. He was flying constantly and growing to dislike it immensely.

At age 55, Ken found himself unemployed and felt unemployable because of his age. Subsequently, he made lemonade out of a lemon. He called his first company, The Fuller Brush Company, and asked if he could post their name and an 800# phone number in several major phone directories. That's exactly what he did, thereby starting his own independent distributorship business from his home. He sold their products, recruited customers to pass the word along, and has close to 300 people working for him, all of which takes up approximately ten hours of his time a week.

Although not technically retired, Ken lives the life of a retiree. To him,
the greatest part of retirement is the time he has to visit senior citizens who do not have the freedom of movement that he has.
For example, today while his wife is at the hair dressers, he will be visiting a couple in the next town, bringing them their favorite menu item--pea soup.

Visiting seniors in their homes gives him great satisfaction--a reverse of the rules he learned with the Fuller Brush Company. No nine-hour days; no demonstrations. Rather, he can sit down. He can ask how they feel, and he can enjoy a cup of coffee for as long as he desires, and he asks for nothing in return.

Ken also enjoys the freedom of time to do as he pleases. He's part of a
ROMEO group (Retired Old Men Eating Out) that meets once a week at the diner, and he goes out to lunch every day with his wife, Terry.
    
Retirement was not in Ken's plans when he became unemployed at 55. He was fortunate that his life's occupation, selling, was tied very closely to his passion for interacting with people. That combination has allowed him to be so content in the retirement he never planned for.
    
When asked what he most misses about retirement, he quickly responded, "People!" He has no desire to travel because of his extensive job-related travel history.

When asked, "What advice would you give to someone about to retire?" Ken's immediate response was, "Find something quickly to replace the time you spent on the job--volunteer, take up a hobby, do something or else, or you will be miserable!"

My impression of Ken's main areas of enjoyment for retirement are 1) family, 2) church, and 3) sales, all of which encompass the basis of his enjoyment: PEOPLE!!

As he remarked about his days of selling, "What I sell comes last; people are always first," and that, I believe, is what has made Ken so successful in his working life and in his semi-retirement. He is a special man who positively affects the lives of others--that's his gift to others in his retirement.

BOOK REVIEW - See entire summary at our site

 A Writer's Paris, a guided journey for the creative soul
by Eric Maisel

This little, 5"x7" book with its soft, linen-feel, mustard-colored look reminds me of an authentic Paris writer's book. The writer's enthusiasm for Paris is contagious. He describes the Place des Vosges, which he believes is the most beautiful square in the world. Renaissance townhouses have street-level arcades filled with cafes, art galleries, and classical musicians in the summer. He describes this location as lively, quiet, shady, safe, inviting, and gorgeous. He writes for an hour, moves to a cafe table under the arcade for an espresso, writes some more, strolls twice around the square, and resumes his writing.

Maisel is obviously a veteran writer in Paris. He recommends renting a small studio for three to six months and plan a schedule of writing for two hours, stroll, write for two more hours, visit a museum or other interesting place, and write for a last two hours of the day.

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THE GOOD NEWS ABOUT RETIREMENT
Hang on, mid-lifers; you'll be wiser and happier one day
     BY LINDSEY TANNER, ASSOCIATED PRESS

"The good news is that with age comes happiness," said study author Yang Yang, a University of Chicago sociologist. "Life gets better in one's perception as one ages."

A certain amount of distress in old age is inevitable--including aches and pains and the deaths of loves ones and friends. But older people generally have learned to be more content with what they have than
younger adults, Yang said.

This is partly because older people have learned to lower their expectations and accept their achievements, said Duke University aging expert Linda George. An older person may realize "it's fine that I was a schoolteacher and not a Nobel prize winner."

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WHERE WERE YOU WHEN......?

Or, how old were you--a baby or an adult?



1957 - Russians launched Sputnik

1986 - Shuttle Challenger exploded

1997 - Princess Diana died  
 

SOURCE: http://www.slate.com   
 
MORE ADVANTAGES OF LIVING AFTER FIFTY



1. You no longer think of speed limits as a challenge.

2. You quit trying to hold your stomach in no matter who walks into the room.
 
3. You sing along with elevator music.
 
4. Your eyes won't get much worse.
 
5. Your investment in health insurance is finally beginning to pay off.
 
6. Your joints are more accurate meteorologists than the national weather service.
 
7. Your secrets are safe with your friends because they can't remember them either.
 
8. Your supply of brain cells is finally down to a manageable size.
 
9. You can't remember who sent you this list.
 
10. You appreciate large print. 
 
BABY BOOMERS
  • Random Baby Boomer Generation Influences

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  • Martin Luther King Jr
  • John F. Kennedy
  • Rosa Parks
  • Gloria Steinham
  • Barbra Streisand
  • John Belushi
  • Janis Joplin
  • The Beatles
  • The Stones
  • The Osmonds
  • Kingston Trio
  • Captain Kangaroo
  • Captain Kirk
  • Beaver Cleaver
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  • Just look at those names.. we went from the Leave it to Beaver family to John Belushi and the Stones. Unlike previous generations, we went from one extreme (the perfect family) to another (flower power at Woodstock and rock 'n roll)........

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    Boomer Places in our Memories

    Watergate Hotel, Hanoi Hilton, Kent State and Woodstock........

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    Boomer Things

  • Bell Bottoms, peace signs, mood rings, junk food, McDonalds.....

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    Television was huge to Boomers - tv sets in homes increased from 4 million in 1952 to 50 million in 1960! We could SEE events unfolding on the tv screen, unlike our parents generation - Vietnam, Watergate, womens's rights..........


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