Assisting Angels
CARING ConnectionsJuly 2010
In This Issue

Fighting Loneliness and Depression in Seniors Online

Multi-Generational Homes Making a Comeback

Caring for Spouse With Dementia May Cause Dementia

Compulsive Hoarding

WORLD'S SCARIEST HIKE


Scary Hike


Hiking off the beaten path can take you to interesting places. But not many people could tackle El Caminito del Rey. This cliff-side path in Spain was built in 1905. It has fallen into severe disrepair. It's actually illegal to hike it today. But that doesn't keep thrill seekers away. Just watching this video made my stomach clench in fear. To view the video...

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Play the Retirement Game



Want some hands-on experience at retiring and the retirement planning process, beforehand? Play Get Rich Slow (for free) to make decisions for a fictional couple at four life stages. Experience the implications of their decisions and also chance events.

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All You Need to Know About Social Security



The Social Security Claiming Guide sorts through all the options and answers frequently asked questions in a clear, easy-to-read and colorful format.

Learn more here.

Brenda's Recipe Corner

Sour Cream Cucumber Salad

Cucumber Salad


Cucumbers are in season! This dish is one of my family's favorite summer salads. The combination of sour cream, fresh dill and cucumbers makes it very tasty. Right now we use cucumbers from our garden for that wonderfully fresh, crunchy taste. But store-bought cucumbers work almost as well if you're not into gardening.


Ingredients


3 medium cucumbers, peeled

          and thinly sliced
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup finely chopped green

          onions

1 tablespoon fresh minced dill

1 tablespoon vinegar

1 teaspoon sugar

1 dash pepper
1/4 cup sour cream


Directions


Sprinkle the cucumbers with salt. Mix gently and let stand 15 minutes. Drain liquid. Add onions, dill, vinegar, sugar and pepper. Just before serving, stir in sour cream.





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Greetings!

As the nation is becoming grayer, we are taking notice of some interesting trends with seniors. The days where our parents didn't know how to access the Internet are swiftly coming to a close. Likewise, the resurgence of the multi-generational household has brought about interesting new dynamics and issues. These trends have also been noted by those studying the effects of how seniors can benefit from these changes. While the summer heat sets in, we hope you can take a few moments to relax and review the articles in this newsletter that we trust you will find informative and beneficial.

Thank you,
The Team at Assisting Angels Home Care
oneFighting Loneliness and Depression in Seniors Online

Who would have thought that the Internet would play such an important part in each and every life, regardless of age and socioeconomics? Last year Dr. Gary Small, a professor of psychiatry at the Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior at UCLA, reported that middle-aged and older adults with little Internet experience were able to trigger key centers in the brain that control decision-making and complex reasoning after just one week of surfing the Web. For the elderly, Internet use may be an effective, low cost way to expand social interactions, reduce loneliness, get health information and treatment, and, consequently, reduce depression.

Read about Project GOAL (Getting Older Adults Online).

Download a 35-page PDF detailing positive effects of the Internet against depression in the older adult population.

Visit the UCLA Memory & Aging Center Web site.


twoMulti-Generational Homes Making a Comeback

After rising steeply for nearly a century, the share of adults ages 65 and older who live alone flattened out around 1990 and has since slightly declined. It currently stands at 27%. This report, based on the Pew Research Center's analysis of U.S. Census Bureau data, shows that family household living arrangements have changed over the last three decades.

Some findings:
  • In 2008, an estimated 49 million Americans, or 16% of the total U.S. population, lived in a family household that contained at least two adult generations or a grandparent and at least one other generation. In 1980, this figure was just 28 million, or 12% of the population.
  • This trend has affected adults of all ages, especially the elderly and the young. For example, about one in five adults ages 25 to 34 now live in a multi-generational household. So do one in five adults ages 65 and older.
Read the full report here.

threeCaring for Spouse With Dementia May Cause Dementia
 
A 12-year study led by Johns Hopkins, Utah State University, and Duke University reports findings that husbands or wives who care for spouses with dementia are six times more likely to develop the memory-impairing condition than those whose spouses don't have it.

A strength of the findings of this particular study is that the participants are highly representative of a community, and not just memory centers and their caregivers. It is speculated that the stress of caregiving might be responsible for the increased dementia risk for spouses, although more research is needed to identify what that mechanism might be. If this is correct, doctors who treat dementia patients should pay more attention to efforts to decrease stress for spousal caregivers.

Read about the study here.

Read the full article here.

compulsivehoardingCompulsive Hoarding
Sensitive Solutions to Help
Hoarding

Understanding Hoarding
Helping people who hoard understand how their problem interferes in living the life they desire can be a powerful motivator, especially as it pertains to being able to live independently. Here are some sensitive solutions to help.

· Don't use judgmental language. Like anyone else, individuals with hoarding will not be receptive to negative comments about the state of their home, their character, or their possessions (e.g., "What a mess!" "What kind of person lives like this?" "This is nothing but junk!").

· Use motivational language. In communicating with people who hoard about the consequences of hoarding, use language that reduces defensiveness and increases motivation to solve the problem (e.g., "I see that you have a pathway from your front door to your living room. That's great that you've kept things out of the way so that you don't slip or fall.")

· Don't try to persuade or argue with the person. Efforts to persuade individuals to make a change in their home or behavior often have the opposite effect-the person actually talks himself into keeping the items.

· Highlight strengths. All people have strengths, positive aspects of themselves, their behavior,
or even their homes. A visitor's ability to notice these strengths helps forge a good relationship and paves the way for resolving the hoarding problem (e.g., "I see that you can easily access your bathroom sink and shower." "What a beautiful painting!" "I can see how much you care about your cat.")

· Attend to the meaning of important objects. Attention to objects with sentimental meaning or memorabilia from past experiences and life events can assist in establishing and maintaining the trust necessary for continued work addressing a hoarding problem.


· Focus the intervention initially on safety and organization of possessions and later work on discarding. Discussion of the fate of the person's possessions will be necessary at some point, but it is preferable for this discussion to follow work on safety and organization.

Hoarding Resources: Read On....

 



Brenda Critell, President / CEO
Certified Senior Advisor (CSA)®, A native of Boise, Idaho and a 4th generation Idahoan.





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Skip Critell, Executive Vice President
Provides outreach and education to the community regarding our services. He presents educational seminars; conducts free memory screening for Dementia/Alzheimer's and related diseases, and in-home assessments.

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Diana Drake, Outreach Coordinator
Provides home assessments and information to guarantee quality care for our clients and provides outreach and education to the community regarding our services.

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Joy Kelly, Client Care Coordinator
Provides quality client care and supervision of direct care services for the Treasure Valley.