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Jeff Kemp

Answer the Bell!

School is starting! In addition to new teachers, new classes, home work, and reuniting with friends, a return to school also means reengaging in competitive activities such as band, drama, choir, debate team...and sports. 

Before the harried schedule overtakes us, I encourage parents to not let activities and sports happen to us, but keep the big picture in mind and recognize the impact such activities and school can have on our kids' character. 

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September 24, 2009
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September 18-19, 2009
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parental involvementResearch Shows that Parental Involvement Makes a Difference!
By Krista Fogelson

Back to school! Although many parents look forward to the break from being with their kids all day, the beginning of the new school year can be a hectic time as parents make sure to buy the require school supplies, arrange afternoon child care, and plan a new schedule to balance work, home, and their kids' school schedules and extracurricular activities.

Right about the time their head stops spining, many parents receive a letter from their school listing all the ways they can help their child succeed by volunteering at the school and at home. As their eyes scan the list: classroom aid, field trip chaperone, playground supervisor, lunch buddy, booster club, helping your kids with homework, etc...panic sets in.  Life is busy enough! Is there time to volunteer?  Overwhelmed, one has to wonder if parent involvement really helps kids succeed.  If so, how much is necessary?


homeworkHow to Minimize Homework Conflict
By Luke Nelson

Believe it or not, 'back to school" is upon us. Many parents will be happy to see their children off to school for six hours during the day, but each day when they return there is a potential challenge--homework. Too often battles over homework drive a wedge between parents and their kids. Many times these ongoing conflicts give our kids a distaste for learning and send parents to bed at night wondering, "Is there a better way to handle homework?"

The following keys are designed to create happier homes for kids where they are free to fall in love with learning and parents no longer have to dread homework disputes.

textingPreparing for the Back to School Battles
By Rose Fuller (Guest Writer)

Soon the slower pace of summer with camping trips, festive BBQs, and warm summer evenings will be replaced with "grab and go" meals as school is just around the corner. While a new year brings excitement, most of us dread the change to the faster pace. "I like everything about the beginning of school, but I can't stand all the conflicts I have with my daughter," explains Olga. "My pleasant 12 year-old suddenly turns into a monster as she demands certain school supplies and clothing -- many of which don't fit into our tight budget."

Her daughter is responding to peer pressure. Teens today are often overbooked and can become stressed over trying to meet others' expectations. One of the primary forms of pressure comes from peers: classmates, teammates and friends. Peer influence can be positive, like keeping grades up to stay on a sports team. But it can also be negative, resulting in the adoption of unhealthy behaviors and attitudes.

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Wired for War---Keeping Families Connected During Deployment
By Mike Schindler

"There were two hard things that stuck out the most when Will was gone: eating dinner with two toddlers and my husband not sitting across the table where he should be; and no one to hold me and tell me that everything is going to be alright." - Tonia, spouse of deployed soldier

After eight years of our military being involved in overseas conflicts, this story isn't so uncommon for our military families: one family, two different missions in two very different worlds. But unlike wars and deployments of the past, we live in an era of techno-savvy individuals and a techno-friendly military which allows its families, especially children of deployed parents, to stay connected.

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Love and Logic LogoUpcoming Blog Giveaway! 

This month, we're excited to announce our first ever giveaway on our Stronger Families blog.  On Tuesday, September 8th, you'll have a chance to enter to win a free copy of Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster W. Cline and Jim Fay. Just in time for school, the book offers tips to help parents establish healthy control and "raise children who are self-confident, motivated, and ready for the real world..."  To learn how you can enter, check our blog, subscribe by clicking on the RSS link to your left, or visit our site to sign up via e-mail!  Instructions to win will be posted on the blog on September 8th!