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This July I Turned Fifty

This July I turned fifty...a tough blow for a guy with a Peter Pan complex, even with an artificial hip, sore neck and arm that can't throw a football as far as my sixteen year-old.
But, thanks to my astute and awesome wife, I had the best birthday, maybe the best day, of my whole life.
 
As I share what made it so great, my intent is to fire up your imagination and intentionality so you can help make the people you love as happy and secure as I feel thanks to the amazing gifts my wife encouraged. 

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As Long As We Both Shall Live
By Michelle Berger

Wedding RingsMy fiancé and I are having the time of our lives - yes, even in the midst of the craziest and busiest time of our lives! We are getting married in August, and are enjoying our engagement so much. Not just because of all the gifts, showers, cake-tasting, fancy clothes, apartment-searching, and well wishes from family and friends, (though all of that is nice too!) but most of all because of the chance we're getting to really work on our relationship.
 
So much time during engagement is spent on planning the wedding that , oftentimes, planning for the MARRIAGE takes the back burner.  I have known this, contemplated this, struggled with this, and even fallen into this trap, but am fighting back with every fiber of my being to make sure that my wedding day will be a celebration of the hard work and effort that Jeff and I have put into planning for a successful and healthy marriage.

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Jack Kemp Awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom

On Thursday, July 30th, President Barack Obama awarded the late Jack Kemp the Presidential Medal of Freedom.  Created in 1945 by President Harry Truman, the Medal of Freedom is America's highest civilian award recognizing exceptional service.  In response to this great honor, Jeff Kemp and his family released the following statment:

"The family of Jack Kemp is sincerely grateful to President Obama and our nation for this unique American honor. The Medal of Freedom would deeply move Jack Kemp because of his motivating belief in America's founding document which declares freedom to be a universal gift from our Creator to all of humanity.  Jack Kemp loved his country, his fellow man, his family, and his Creator.  This award acknowledges his passionate pursuit of all of these.  A tireless optimist, he endeavored to make the world a better and freer place."

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Investing in Our Nation

By Admiral Mike Mullen, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff (Guest Writer)

American FlagHow we care for our military families today influences the willingness of future generations to serve. Indeed, every American dreams of a prosperous future, earned through hard work, honest deeds, and prudent sacrifice. They desire to create beautiful families, raise their children together, and, one day, earn their own "piece of the rock."

For those who have volunteered to serve a cause greater than themselves - and donned uniforms to fight on distant shores - those dreams are no different. Neither are those of the families who support them.

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How to Maximize Marriage Preparation
By Luke Nelson

Bride and GroomIn 2002, I was one of the pastors in Clackamas County, Oregon, who signed a Marriage and Family Agreement that set minimum standards for performing weddings. 

Our goal? Lower the divorce rate by 15% in 5 years. By the sixth year, the divorce rate was down 21%!  Thousands of couples were spared the ravages of divorce!  

Today nearly 200 area churches operate with this agreement.  One of the key elements in that agreement was premarital preparation using an assessment called Prepare / Enrich.  The focus on helping couples be prepared for a "life together" instead of just a "wedding day," is crucial.  Research by Life Innovations has shown that couples who go through premarital preparation have 34% lower chance of divorcing.

Improving the Odds!  Is Cohabitation a Good Test for Marriage?
By Krista Fogelson

Gold Wedding RingsAs they make the final deposits, pick up their rings, and stand still for one last fitting, how many brides and grooms take a deep nervous breath and wonder will this really work?  Can we make it last?  Or, will we end up with the proverbial 50% of those who divorce?  I love him...she makes me happy, but is there a way we can improve the odds for a lifelong marriage?

According to researcher, Scott Stanley, couples are increasingly trying to beat the odds by living together before marriage. The problem is, Stanley has found, that it doesn't usually work.