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Volume 1, Issue 15 March 2009
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Stressed Out Parents and the Art of Staying Positive
By Ellen Doman

DK Shark

Every week somewhere in the U.S. a mother sits across from me and wrings her hands or pulls at her hair and tells me what a terrible job she is doing as a parent. The really odd thing about it is that this parent's child might be doing great. In the midst of her own anguish over what she isn't getting done, the mother doesn't see the progress. What a waste!

I'm going to share with you a fact that my grown children have shared with me:  a parent's worry doesn't do the child any good. Guilt doesn't either. What both of those emotions do is rob the parent of their hope and enthusiasm, of their joy and creativity. As parents attempting to look to our child's future, there appears to be much to potentially worry about each day. We would all like to save our children from the pitfalls that may lie ahead. We cannot, however, accurately predict all of those pitfalls and often lose sleep over things that don't happen and may never happen. In short, we don't even necessarily worry about the right things.

 
NACD KIDS: Andrew & Daniel

Andrew

Andrew & DanielI brought Andrew to NACD when he was 9½. He had always been homeschooled and was an early reader, but I knew he had some sensory issues and some problems with fine and gross motor skills. I had heard about NACD before, but I had no awareness of "sequential processing" and how improving that could help Andrew.

When Andrew came to his first evaluation, his auditory forward digit span was a 5, and his auditory reverse digit span was a 3.  At this time, he had a lot of temper tantrums and frustration, often saying, "I can't do this."  He struggled with math.  Seven months later I had a different child.  His auditory forward digit span was a seven, and his auditory reverse digit span was a five. As a result, not only had his behavior issues resolved, but also his math scores had gone up nearly 1½ years, and his vocabulary and reading comprehension had gone up 2 years' worth.

When Andrew started on program, he was hyper-auditory (i.e. overly sensitive to sound).  In noisy or congested areas, he would shut down emotionally or become very cranky. After listening to The Listening Program as part of his NACD program, this improved. He is still hyper-auditory (I call it his "super-sonic hearing"), but now he can cope with noisy, confined environments much better. He no longer feels claustrophobic or overwhelmed in such an environment.

Before NACD, Andrew seemed to have a chip on his shoulder; but now at age 14 he is very relaxed.  He can deal with complicated situations and solve complex problems. He is more academically independent. His auditory forward digit span is a 10-11, and his reverse is a 9. He is now a very confident, capable young man. For Andrew, a defining moment occurred about a year ago and was related to how he dealt with a social situation. He was in a small group of teens that met once a week for a game night. Andrew was the youngest member of this group but was accepted as an equal. After about 18 months of consistent participation, he told me he was not enjoying the group any longer. Andrew found one of the boys highly manipulative, so game play was frustrating. He told me he was going to quit the group, and proceeded to do so, with no qualms. He remains in social contact with that group of teens, and he is on friendly terms. This to me is a reflection of his higher-order thinking and problem-solving skills, as well
as emotional maturity. I realized at that point what a long way he had come.


Daniel

Daniel came to NACD at age 6. He was doing reasonably well academically, although he was struggling some with reading.  After seeing Andrew's progress, I wanted Daniel to be on program as well. At his evaluation, his evaluator identified visual tracking and visual dominance problems.  She said, "I bet you anything he's seeing double some of the time."  When I talked to Daniel, I found out that he WAS seeing double -- he thought that was how everyone saw!

We started his Targeted Developmental Intervention™, and his reading ability skyrocketed.  In one year, he jumped nearly 6 years in reading levels! Today at age 10, his auditory forward digit spans are 8-9, he does seventh grade math, and he reads on a 12th grade level.

A recent example of Daniel's progress is related to a pet corn snake. Shortly after bringing it home, he scoured the Internet for instructions on how to care for it, what kind of habitat it required, how to feed it, etc. He was totally comfortable wading through the information presented to get the pieces he needed. He was also able to synthesize the information from several web sites into a mental summary of how to care for his new pet. Not only does this reflect his improved reading skills, but also his higher-order thinking skills.

As a parent, I appreciate NACD's unique, holistic approach.  I like the fact that NACD is function-based rather than skill-based.  Rather than focusing on a symptom, they fix the source of the problem. NACD has helped both of my boys progress academically, socially, and emotionally.


QUESTIONS, COMMENTS, & BRAGS

"I love Bob's article on estimation in Maths. As a family we always encouraged my then 4 year old daughter to understand the 'language' of maths. Needless to say, now as a 14 year old, she is far more in love with maths (and physics!) than any of her peer.
 
I really believe that maths has to be acquired by the child as any other language. How does our kid learn the fundamentals of his/ her mother-tongue? Definitely not by being taught it as grammatically correct stuff. I have never seen a parent correct an infant baby- talking, in fact more often than not, all members of the family adopt the abbreviated word that the infant used like 'da da' for the 'father/ dad' or 'ta ta' for 'bye' etc. Yet, when we introduce arithmetic to our kids, we pounce on every mistake they make in adding 2 and 1 or 3 and 5. We somehow believe that to learn maths we need to teach our kids to be absolutely correct and precise. I think we make a terrible blunder there.
 
I truly believe that through this route of estimation, our kids can really start enjoying numbers and thrive on understanding the 'value' of numbers in our daily lives.....teach them to distribute crackers/ candies/ cookies amongst guests equally. Don't jump the gun, let them give only one each to start with, and then stare at the remaining stuff still on their plate to be distributed. You will notice that within no time your 2 year old will be dividing 20 cookies equally among 4 people by starting off giving 5 to each one. We know it works!!! Thanks for the reminder call Bob. I need to start this again with my younger babes."

Shalini

If you have a comment about an article in a previous newsletter, a question for one of the staff, or a "brag" about your child, we would love to hear it!

Please send to us at: newsletter@nacd.org.


NACD ANNUAL RENDEZVOUS 2009
JUNE 25-29
OGDEN VALLEY, UTAH

2008 Rendezvous Collage
 
Welcome, Discussion Groups and Swimming all held at Moose Hollow

Group Activities and Family BBQ held at various locations in the area


Thursday, June 25   
Registration    4:00 - 7:00 p.m.

Welcome        7:00 p.m.


Friday, June 26   
Discussion Groups   
     9:00 a.m.

     10:15 a.m.
     3:00 p.m.

Activities
     Swimming, Boating, and more    1:30 - 4:00 p.m.
     Group Activity                              7:00 p.m.


Saturday, June 27   
Discussion Groups   
     9:00 a.m.

     10:15 a.m.
     3:00 p.m.

Activities

     Swimming, Boating, and more    1:30 - 4:00 p.m.
     Group Activity                              7:00 p.m.


Sunday, June 29   
Discussion Groups
     9:00 a.m
.
     10:15 a.m.

Activities

     Swimming      1:30 - 4:00 p.m.
     Boating           4:00 - 7:00 p.m.
     Family BBQ    6:00 p.m.


Monday, June 29   
Discussion Group    9:00 a.m
.

LODGING

Wolf Creek Lodging
800-301-0817

http://www.wolfcreekutah.com/lodging.php

Special pricing for lodging at Moose Hollow Condominiums - ask for the NACD rate

Moose Hollow Condominiums

    One bedroom Condos        vary - at locations close to Moose Hollow
    Two bedroom Condos        $165
    Three bedroom Condos    $206
(Note: In the past, some families have been able to share condos.  If you are interested in sharing a condo with another NACD family, please e-mail Jennifer at Jennifer@nacd.org.)
 
UPCOMING EVALUATION DATES
 
DK SharkNACD will be conducting evaluations in the following cities.

To schedule an appointment,
please click here for instructions.
  
MARCH 2009


Boise
Chicago
Orlando
Seattle
West Chester
Ogden
Dallas

APRIL 2009

Cincinnati
Dallas
Flint
India
Milwaukee
Minneapolis
Ogden
Phoenix
Sacramento
West Chester

MAY 2009

Atlanta
Los Angeles
West Chester
Dallas
Ogden
Ft. Lauderdale
St. Louis

JUNE 2009

Boise
Chicago
Dallas
Ogden
Orlando
Seattle
West Chester

 
CONTACT US

NACD - The National Association for Child Development
National Headquarters
549 25th Street
Ogden, UT 84401

801.621.8606

info@nacd.org
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