September 2007: Proactive Involvement with Your Loved One's Care Support For Caregivers and Seniors
Minding Our Elders Ezine:
 

A Note From Carol

Dear Friends,

Fall is my favorite time of the year, especially after the first frost, when temperatures are warm but not hot, and the lazy fall bees and bothersome mosquitoes are gone. Of course, here in North Dakota, it's easy to get into the "yeah, but winter's next," mentality. I try not to do that. I try to treasure each season, just as it is.

With caregiving, we often have to actively look for moments to treasure. When we are tired and stressed and it seems no one appreciates our considerable efforts, it's easy to just see the negative. I've done that. I do that. But I try to be aware of my mood when I get negative, and remind myself to look for something good - anything!

Acceptance of our situation usually has to come before we can see anything positive in what is going on. Then, realization that we can get through almost anything, for one day, can follow. We may not like the situation. We many even hate it. But we can do it today. We may even see something positive, if we dig deep enough.

If our situtation is really tearing us down, we need to take steps to improve matters, Whether that is making a phone call to vent to another caregiver, getting ourselves to a doctor, hoping on-line to a caregiving site or reading about how other caregivers cope, it's time for action. If you find yourself feeling low too often, you need to seriously look into respite care, through your Social Services or Area Agencies on Aging (check helpful links and agencies on the MOE main site). You may need a checkup to see if you are suffering from clinical depression. Caregivers are at high risk for depression, and there is help for it.

One other note: If you signed up for the ezine before April, and you'd like to be on a list to receive an occasional email from MOE that is not the ezine, please sign up again, from either the main site or the blog. Only click the second option, this time. You can download a chapter from Minding Our Elders, in the process, if you'd like. I never want to send excessive emails to anyone, and we each have a different point that we consider "excessive." That is why I set it up that way. If you end up with duplicate mailings, please let me know. The system is set so that shouldn't happen, but I will take care of it, if something goes haywire.

Do take care of yourselves,

Carol

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Here's how I begin -

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Proactive Involvement with Your Loved One's Care

By Barbara Mascio, Senior Approved Services

It is obvious, when you think about it, that when a spouse, parent, or other loved one is in need of outside services that he or she has become less independent. This lessening of independence also affects, on many levels, the lives of each the other spouse, the adult children, and the friends and family members of this person.

So, the person in need of help or services is vulnerable. This vulnerability is measured in degrees proportionate to the lessening of independence. It is then the caring friends and family of this person who, sometimes by design, sometimes by default, become the advocate. Speaking up for the rights of this person, ensuring that this person receives the best possible services or care.


Featured Site: Communication Connection

Kathryn Kilpatrick of Communication Connection has an impressive collection of educational products.

This is what Senior Approved Services has to say about Communication Connection :

Communication Connection is the first geriatric consultation service to be awarded the Senior Approved Certification in the state of Ohio. This distinction clearly separates Communication Connection from other geriatric consultants in OH. Only those that achieve a 90% (or higher) customer satisfaction rating receive Certification.

Kathryn Kilpatrick, founder and president of Communication Connection, received her Master's Degree in Speech and Language Pathology in 1968 from the University of Massachusetts. She has worked in a variety of settings, primarily in Ohio, including hospitals, rehabilitation centers, home health care agencies and she has her own private practice.

Kathryn is the author of over 30 products sold nationally including the Visiting Nurse Service Therapy Guides (Volumes 1-5) for Speech and Language Disorders. Her background in speech and language pathology, specializing in serving the older adult population for over 3 decades, led to the development of Communication Connection in 2000 as a geriatric communication consultant.




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