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Stop Bossing…Start Coaching!
Whose Plan Are You Living?

Upcoming Events from Greystone Guides

January 25:
Teleclass:
Fifty Dollar Friday


January 26:
Workshop:
Plan to Live the Life You Love


January 28:
Free Information Session:
Coaching Tools for Leaders: The UH Executive Coaching Institute


January 30:
Seminar/Certificate Program:
Coaching Tools for Leaders: The UH Executive Coaching Institute


February 15:
Special Event:
24-Hour Coach-a- thon


April 2:
Seminar:
Advanced Coaching and Communication

Greystone Guides
in the Media

Sunday, January 27:
Greystone Guides’ collaboration, the University of Houston Executive Coaching Institute, will be featured in the Houston Chronicle Jobs section. Watch for it.

Mattison Speaks

Mattison is available to speak to your group, class, club, or team on a variety of topics. Mattison is an entertaining and impactful speaker. She was recently asked back to the Governor’s Volunteer Leadership Conference for the third year in row.

Call our office at 832.283.2476 to learn about what she has to offer that would benefit you and your group.

Member:
NSA-National 
Speakers Association


Jump into the unknownI have been studying high performers—and low performers—for years.

The question that comes up consistently is: What sets the high performers apart from everyone else? What are the qualities and characteristics that make some people break out and perform beyond what anyone thought possible? What keeps other people from doing great things?

The so-called experts have concluded that the high performers believe in themselves more, are more persistent, perhaps more talented, more focused, have a better work ethic, etc.

This expert believes that while those things may be have some influence, they are not the secret sauce of achieving high performance. The most impactful difference between high achievers and everyone else is that the high performers are able to navigate and take action in the unknown better than their less-curious counterparts.

Low achievers are constantly stopped by the need to know before they even try. They ask themselves questions like: What will happen? How will the entire thing turn out? How can I start when I can't see how it will go? Because knowing the answer to any of these questions is impossible, they become stuck in the illusion that they have to know in order to do. Inside this double bind, they are often unable to try. The trap of having to know keeps them small.

In contrast, high achievers take action in the face of uncertainty. Navigating the unknown and being able to act in spite of it requires a high level of curiosity.

What is curiosity? How would you define it? We've asked thousands of people this exact question, and all the answers are surprisingly similar. People say curiosity is something like: the need to know, looking for the answer. True curiosity is none of these things. It is being comfortable in the unknown, not having to have an answer, and, oh my goodness! not having to be right.

What do you have to know? And how is that stopping you from taking action?

Where in your life do you have to be right? And how is that keeping you from being the best you can be?

This way of being curious is directly related to innovation. What if Thomas Edison let the unknown stop him? Would we have electricity? It took an immense amount of curiosity for Edison to continue the quest.

What about Sony and the Walkman? They really had no hard evidence that the public wanted it. As it turns out, the Walkman was the first step toward the MP3 player—technology that changes our world. There was no way Sony could have predicted how that would turn out.

George Martinez used curiosity at Sterling Bank and changed the face of small business banking in Houston, Texas. While he was the chairman and CEO of Sterling Bancshares, Martinez grew the bank from $3 million to more than $3.5 billion in assets. During his 32 years there, he was instrumental in taking the bank public and achieving record profits for 15 consecutive years. Martinez used his curiosity to navigate his talent management and staff situations and empowered all his employees to do the same, producing record profits at the same time.

The single most important skill people need to break out of the ordinary and into the extraordinary is the skill of curiosity, which allows people to gracefully navigate the unknown. Curiosity is the central tool in our business practice.

We use our curiosity to find yours. Once you find your curiosity, your brilliance can emerge. Applying curiosity to your brilliance allows you to bring it to the world, which is what the high performers are doing all the time, they just aren’t telling.

If you want to read how curiosity works in high-performance workplaces, read Mattison’s recently published white paper, Coaching for Curiosity, which is free to our mailing list.

Stop Bossing…Start Coaching!

Research confirms that coaching skills have emerged as the force behind the next generation of successful leaders.


Coaching Tools for
Leaders: The UH 
Executive Coaching Institute

"I have worked with my team for three years, trying to get them to do better. After taking the Coaching Tools for Leaders course, I have made more progress with my team in six weeks than I had in the last three years. The coaching tools taught in this course really do work!"

—J.C., head of academic advising for a major university

Coaching provides a powerful framework to transform a leader's valuable knowledge and skills into focused relationships that respect people at the deepest level. Leaders with truly effective coaching skills achieve significantly better results. Employees produce better work, stay longer, and contribute more to the organization in many other ways.

Coaching Tools for Leaders: The UH Executive Coaching Institute offers motivated, results-driven professionals the tools to achieve and sustain excellence. Coaching Tools Fundamentals , the core of the 60-hour certificate program, introduces and activates professional coaching tools that are must-haves for high-performing leaders. Other workshops offered throughout the year build on the foundational training with hands-on, practical learning that will lead to improved interactions and outcomes.

For more information, visit our web site or download the institute brochure in PDF format.

Institute Details
Classes begin January 30, 2008
9:00 a.m.–noon or 4:30–7:30 p.m.
See our web site or institute brochure for pricing and additional schedule information.

Presented by
UH Continuing Education
Greystone Guides

Contact us:

By email or phone 713.743.1185.

Register online

Whose Plan Are You Living?

Plan to Live the Life You Love

Do you want to set goals or do you want to have an amazing life? Traditional goal-setting doesn’t produce amazing results. Clarity does.

In this workshop you will:

  • Get extreme clarity related to what you want to create.
  • Design an exciting and workable action plan based on your ideas of success.
  • Get professional coaching and feedback related to your goals and your plan.

Finally figure out why you sometimes (or often) fall short of your goals, even though you followed all traditional goal-setting recommendations—AND what to do about it!

Read more…

Workshop Details
January 26, 2008
9 a.m.–6 p.m.
$269
Email us for a discount coupon, valid through January 24.

Presented by
Greystone Guides

Contact us:

By email or phone 832.283.2476

Register online

 
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Cool People Doing Cool Things Sarah’s Story

"In 2003, I had a career my dad could be proud of—a B.A. in physics from the University of Chicago. Managing $2 million in projects for a national environmental consulting firm. A client list bursting with Fortune 500 companies. And crying every night in front of the TV with Ben & Jerry.

Sarah Shah photo

Sarah in her corporate power look. Check out her web site for her softer and funnier side.

Sarah Shah
Image Artist, Media Coach, and Speaker

Houston (713) 686-8587
Boston (617) 501-8055
Fax (713) 686-5190

sarah@sarahshah.com
www.sarahshah.com

"Fast forward to 2008—I have a business that makes my soul sing. Helping women navigate the worlds of image, judgment, and the language of fashion, and creating images that express their essence and authentic selves. Helping them shine in the most important moments-appearing on television, speaking in front of live audiences, and in every day 'real life.' My clients are rising, and so am I.

"Thanks to Mattison's masterful coaching, my transformation has been fast, forward, and fun. No more wandering in circles followed by painful dissatisfaction after arriving at the wrong destination again. I'm sharing in the fun and sharing what I know in front of the camera. Now, I'm laughing on TV and having a blast!

"And this is just the beginning. I can't wait to see what's next!"

If you'd like Sarah to help you navigate the world of beauty and judgment, call her at 713.686.8587, send her an e-mail, or visit her web site.

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About Mattison Grey

Mattison Grey M.Ed. IAC logois a professional business coach, consultant, speaker and trainer. She loves to coach, train and speak to high performers and assist them to perform beyond what they ever thought possible. Mattison has been a professional coach since 1997 and has worked in many diverse environments. Her clients include entrepreneurs, coaches, small businesses, large multi-national firms, athletes and individuals. Mattison is certified as a professional coach by the International Association of Coaching.

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