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 Dear Colleagues,
As we celebrate Memorial Day, Flag Day (June 14), and the upcoming July 4 holiday, it is important to remember those who have served and continue to serve and protect our country and the rights of others around the world. You may remember the campaign, "Have you hugged your kid today?." Perhaps we need a new campaign, "Have you thanked a service member today?." Never let an opportunity to thank someone go by.
In this newsletter:
- If you wonder about the proper way to display the U.S. flag, see the article on U.S. Flag Etiquette.
- Learn about our new partnership with the Edina Country Club.
- If you are looking to help your teen improve his or her manners, see the book recommendation, How Rude!
Best,
Laura
Laura A. Barclay
President & Founder Etiquette Centre of Minneapolis, LLC
"Good manners will open doors that the best
education cannot."
(Clarence Thomas)
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U.S. Flag Etiquette
Many people enjoy displaying the U.S. flag. Here are several important reminders stated in U.S. Code, Title 4 as provided by the National Flag Foundation.
"Our reverence for our flag is justified by past and present sacrifices for freedom and liberty."
Where do I place a U.S. flag lapel pin? Unlike your name tag which would be placed on your right shoulder, the U.S. flag represents a living country and is itself considered a living thing. Therefore, the lapel pin, being a replica, should be worn on the left lapel near the heart.
What is the proper way to salute the U.S. flag?
When the U.S. flag is raised or lowered as part of a ceremony, when it passes by in a parade, or the national anthem is played, stand at attention, face the flag, and place the right hand over the heart (uniformed military should give the military salute; military members and veterans not in uniform may give the military salute or place hand over heart).
Men are to remove their hats (yes, this means baseball caps!) with the right hand and hold it at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart. Women do not need to remove their hats.
Must citizens of other countries salute the U.S. Flag?
No, though they should stand at attention in the situations stated above.
What is the proper way to carry the U.S. Flag?
The U.S. flag should never be carried horizontally, instead it should always be aloft and free.
When displaying the U.S. flag from my home, must I take it down every every evening?
No. If displayed at night, the U.S. flag must be properly illuminated (that the stars and stripes can be seen readily from a reasonable distance - about 25 feet). So at a private residence if when flag is affixed to the home via a pole, ambient lighting such as a porch or street light would be acceptable. When the U.S. Flag is displayed in the yard on a long pole, then a dedicated light is expected.
I display a flag at home. How do I display it when the President or Governor has ordered half-staff?
If your U.S. flag is fixed to a pole (common in residential situations), you'll be unable to fly it at half-staff. It is proper to instead attach two black ribbons to the end of the pole (not to the U.S. flag) to show respect.
Scheduled days for flying U.S. flag at half-staff:
Memorial Day (half-staff until noon) - Last Monday in May
Peace Officers Memorial Day - May 15
Patriot Day - September 11
Firefighters Memorial Day - Sunday before or on October 9th
Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day - December 7
Adapted from the National Flag Foundation.
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Edina Country Club and Etiquette Centre Partner to Offer Etiquette Training to Members!
The Edina Country Club and the Etiquette Centre of Minneapolis have teamed to provide etiquette training to Club members. We will offer programs for children, teens, and adults.
Our first offering in August, "Children's Etiquette", is part of Kid's Camp for young people ages 9-12. Children will build skills in writing thank you notes, attending after school events, cell phone use, helping at home, dining out, privacy, greetings, and interacting with a person with a disability.
 The Edina Country Club is a full-service private country club in the Twin Cities offering a variety of recreational and clubhouse amenities that include an 18-hole Tom Bendelow-designed golf course; Olympic-size swimming pool, cabana and snack bar; four Har-Tru (clay) tennis courts and two hard courts; a 65,000-square foot clubhouse; and many activities for individuals and families to enjoy. To learn more about the Edina Country Club, visit: www.edinacountryclub.org or call 952-927-7151.
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| Laura in the News
"Splashy or Sexual? Calendars Stir Attention for Good Causes. But Some Say They Objectify Women," 5/7/10, St. Paul Pioneer Press.
"But Only Women Can Call Them That" 5/7/10, St. Paul Pioneer Press.
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Do You Have a Question You Want Answered?
I love hearing from all my friends and clients who enjoy reading my monthly newsletter. And I'm always looking to answer pressing questions you might have about anything relating to etiquette, protocol, and civility. If you have a question, please feel free to call me at (763) 432-9008, (763) 257-4722, or email me at laura.barclay@etiquette-centre.com.
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About the Etiquette Centre of Minneapolis, LLC
The Etiquette Centre of Minneapolis provides business professionals with solutions to successfully navigate the challenges and nuances of today's world through business and social etiquette, international protocol, refinement, and civility training and coaching.
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Ph: (763) 432-9008, (763) 257-4722
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