glowing chaliceThe FORUM
Newsletter of MVUUF
May 1-15, 2010
~  A Welcoming Congregation  ~
MVUUF Building by Lew Hann
Miami Valley Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
8690 Yankee Street, Dayton, OH  45458
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Letter from the Minister
Keeping Up with Our Members
Around the Fellowship
Letter from the DRE
YRE Information
Don't Forget!
Save the Date!
Letter from the Minister
Finding a Voice and Taking Action
Over the past couple of years, I have been getting more and more involved in our community and taking an active part.  I've had great opportunities to get to know our local officials and our state representatives as I've been called on to visit with them for various reasons. 
Being involved in Centerville Washington Township Diversity Council has allowed me to become familiar with our Centerville and Washington Township officials and to play an active role as Co-Chair of the Program Committee.  We've been hosting some interesting forums for them in our Sanctuary, which has allowed more people from the community to discover who we are. 
Through the community organizing efforts, I've gotten to know many of our area's clergy from various faith backgrounds.  We're beginning to meet with state and city officials to learn more about Dayton's problems and how we can use our voice as citizens to develop solutions to those problems.  The main issue that we're focused on right now is jobs.  Stay tuned to find out specifically how we will find ways to impact bringing more jobs to Dayton.
I've also been working with a small group of clergy to impact state legislation for equal rights for LGBT for jobs and housing.  We've met with several of our state legislators and have received positive commitments to support this legislation.  The bill has already passed the house with Peggy Lehner and Terry Blair's full support after our group had successful meetings with both of them.  Several people will be visiting the State House again on May 19th for Lobby Day to support this legislation.  Let us know if you are interested in joining us that day.
Being involved in this way is very meaningful to me.  It means I have a voice and I'm using it.  As a Unitarian Universalist, working on social justice within our community is a part of my spiritual practice.  Our faith tells us that we are an interdependent part of all of life.  Getting involved in the wider community makes that a reality. 
~ Rev. Amy Russell
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May 2 - Morality Without God  Rev. Amy Russell
~ Many theists postulate that goodness without God is not possible.  Our UU faith believes in the inherent worth, dignity and goodness of humanity with or without a belief in God.  What makes us good?  How do we define goodness?
May 9 - Mother of Peace: Honoring Julia Ward Howe  Rev. Amy Russell
~ This Mother's Day marks the 140th anniversary of Julia Ward Howe's Mother's Day Proclamation.  Howe, a Unitarian, was known as an abolitionist and proponent for peace.

May 16 - 100th Anniversary of First Unitarian Church of Dayton  Rev. Amy Russell, Rev. Chuck Thomas & Don Ferguson
~ On May 18, 1910, 48 Daytonians met to discuss founding a Unitarian church.  They were two people short of the required fifty needed to charter a church.  A quick phone call was made to two sisters who soon arrived and First Church was born.  We'll celebrate this event that eventually led to the founding of MVUUF.

May 23 - Coming of Age  Natalie Spriggs-Trobridge & Steve Trobridge
May 30 - Memorial Day  Dawn Bellinger, Scott Leonard, Denny Smith & others
Keeping Up With Our Members
For all those members who are experiencing difficult times in their lives, please know that your Fellowship community is here to support you.
Printable MVUUF Calendar!
Click HERE for a printable PDF version of the MVUUF calendar.  Please note, this calendar does NOT include outside events (ie: private parties, etc.), so for the most up-to-date information, you will need to access the MVUUF web site calendar or call Kristin in the Fellowship office.  She can be reached at 436-3628.
A Letter from the DRE
This month, the Age of Reason class is coming to an end.  This class is for our 2nd and 3rd graders here at MVUUF.  The class supports children on their religious path.

Our main focus in this class is our seven Unitarian Universalist principles.  Each class emphasizes on one principle and how it applies to our lives.  Now for some children (and perhaps some adults) this may be easier said than done.  For example, look at our first principle; to affirm and promote the inherent worth and dignity of every person, or in children's terms; respect every person-yourself and others.  We discus in our class what this means.  It is easy to say, respect everyone, but when someone at your school pushes your best friend down, then what?  Our first reaction may be to push the pusher down, but is that really respecting each person.  I honestly tell the children that I don't know.  What would they do?  How could they handle themselves in that situation?  Getting them to think about it before it happens is really a great starting point.  Allowing children to dialog and giving them a safe place for discussion is really an important part of helping them find their own spiritual path.

A few Sundays ago, we discussed principle five; the right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large (children's: Believe in the value of each "voice" as we work together).  Again, easy to say everyone gets a vote.  But what happens when what you voted for doesn't get chosen?  Do you feel like your voice was heard then?  Our activity we used with principle five was choosing a cake for our Age of Reason reception.  The children came up with a list of cake flavors, eliminated the ones that were impossible (ie. ant flavored cake), and then took a secret vote on what flavor we would have.  But alas, a flavor was chosen that not everyone liked.  So what do we do then?  Children were encouraged to use their voice on why they did or didn't like a flavor of cake.  They also took time to discus, is it fair to have a flavor of cake that is specifically for all of them if not everyone likes it?  Then, they brainstormed solutions.  What happened, you may be asking yourself???  Well let's just say some very thoughtful smart kids, and a few more times of voting, came up with a great solution.  We will now be having three flavors of cake (three different cakes) and all in the class like at least one of the flavors (can you say red velvet, lemon, and chocolate). 

A huge part of being Unitarian Universalist is our seven principles.  We continue to support and educate our children and youth here at MVUUF through our seven principles.  As First Parish of Watertown states so beautifully about children and the Unitarian Universalist seven principles, "We don't want our children to memorize these words. We want our children to experience the loving spirit of these messages." Could not have summed it up better myself!

Please check out the children and youth of MVUUF's art show.  Their work will be on display during the month of May.  Most, if not all, of their creations will be on sale for anyone to purchase.  All the money raised from this art show will go towards new playground equipment in our MVUUF backyard.  Please help support our children and youth by taking a moment to look at their natured themed pieces.  
As always, if you have any questions, I am happy to answer!  You can call me at 436-3628. 
Smile, Natalie; Director of Religious Education
YRE Calendar for May:
Chalice Children class (Preschool):
May 2 - Class: Me & My World - People help me (Sean)
May 9 - Class: Me & My World - People teach me (Genevieve & Ed)
May 16 - Class: Me & My World - People know me (Sean & Genevieve)
Kindergarten - 5th grade class:  
May 2 - Children's Worship
May 9 - Workshop Rotation
                ~K & 1st grade: Workshop 1 - Acts of kindess for our families
                ~2nd & 3rd grades: Workshop 2 - Acts of kindness for MVUUF
                ~4th and 5th grades: Workshop 3 - Acts of kindness for our community in Dayton
May 16 - Workshop Rotation
                ~K & 1st grade: Workshop 2 - Acts of kindness for MVUUF
               ~2nd & 3rd grades: Workshop 3 - Acts of kindness for our community in Dayton
               ~4th and 5th grades: Workshop 1 - Acts of kindness for our families
6th - 12th grade class:
May 2 - Youth Worship
May 9 - Class: Neighboring Faiths
May 16 - Class: Neighboring Faiths (tentative field trip day)
**For more detailed information about the YRE program, as well as YRE events and schedules, please go to our web site at and click on "Religious Education."
Around the Fellowship
Community Discussion Group Topics*
May 2
- "Religulous - The Myths of Religion."  Moderator: Joe Lawrence
May 9 - "All About Pet Therapy, with Guest Therapy Dog, Bear."  Moderator: Diane Dermody
May 16 - "Light at the End of the Tunnel."  Moderator: Don Heidorn
*This adult group meets every Sunday at 9:30 a.m. in the Founders' Room for fellowship and thought-provoking discussions led by member volunteers.  For a more detailed listing of topics, please see the Sunday bulletin.

Daytime Book Club Title*
May 19
- Loving Frank, by Nancy Horan
June 16 - Our Choice: A Plan to Solve the Climate Crisis, by Al Gore or Our Choice: How We Can Solve the Climate Crisis (Young Reader Edition), by Al Gore.
July 21 - The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down - A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and the Collision of Two Cultures, by Anne Fadiman
*We meet one Wednesday a month, at 10:30 a.m., in the Fellowship Library.  We then go out for lunch together.  All are welcome!

Evening Book Club
Our May 11 selection is Mudbound, by Hillary Jordan.  We are now meeting in the Fellowship library!  Join us at 7 p.m.  Our June 8 selection is The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, by Stieg Larsson.  New participants are welcome.  Contact Ann Snively if you'd like more information.
Bon Voyage Bev & Sylvia!
Bev & Sylvia Wince, longtime MVUUF members, are heading south to warmer pastures.  Please join us for a reception following Sunday service on May 9 as we say good bye, best wishes and thank you to two devoted members. 

Food Fanciers
Janice Beers will demonstrate how to make dulces de miel, which is a peanut-honey candy.  The recipe comes from Ecuador, where the Guana family runs a beekeeping and honey-selling business.  Please join us on May 21 at 2 p.m. in the Fellowship kitchen.  All are invited!  

Congregational Meeting
Our next Congregational meeting will be June 13 after Sunday service.
Memorial Day Service
During our May 30 service, we'll honor our loved ones who've passed away since June 2009.  If you'd like to include the name(s) of loved ones, please contact Kristin in the Fellowship office at  436-3628 no later than May 25.
Smart Choices
Smart Choices will meet at the Fellowship on May 13 at 10 a.m. to caravan/carpool to Cincinnati and shop/have lunch at Jungle Jim's!  This is a fantastic "global" grocery store - if you've never been there, please join us for an adventure!
St. Vincent de Paul 2nd Saturday Lunch*
May 8 Menu: fruit salad, 100% orange juice
~ Natalie Spriggs-Trobridge's home school group will be providing most of the food and will be serving & cleaning up. 
*All items must be delivered heated and ready to serve 15-20 people.  Donations should be taken to 120 W. Apple St. by 10:30 a.m.  Sign up in the Gathering Space.

Offering for May
The Social Concerns Committee invites plate offerings for Planned Parenthood of Dayton.  The mission of Planned Parenthood is to prevent unplanned pregnancies and protect the health of low income women.  Planned Parenthood is the nation's leading sexual and reproductive health care provider and advocate.  For more information about Planned Parenthood, the services offered, as well as their educational programs, please visit  
100th Anniversary of First Unitarian Church
Come celebrate the 100th anniversary of First Unitarian Church on Sun. May 16.  The service will be dedicated to a century of liberal religion in the Dayton community and commemorate the founding of First Unitarian Church on Salem Ave. in 1910, from which MVUUF later emerged.  Come learn our history, share memories, and meet old friends.  Reception with refreshments will follow the service.
Guest At Your Table Donations
Thanks to all those who contributed to the 09-10 Guest at Your Table campaign.  MVUUF sent $1987.92 from 24 individuals or households and some anonymous donors.  The Unitarian Universalist Service Committee has acknowledged our contributions and is putting them to work in its projects for international and domestic human rights.
YRE Needs YOU!
It is that time to sign up to volunteer in our YRE program for the summer months.  This summer our theme is PEACE.  Children will be learning cooperative games, the joy of singing for peace, meditation for their inner peace, and much more.  Take a look at the display table out in the Gathering Space, ask Shannon Harper (LRE Rep.) or Natalie (DRE) for more information or with questions.  Please consider donating a few Sundays in the summer for our MVUUF children and youth.  They need you!
Juline Renfro Award Nominations
The YRE Committee is seeking nominations for the Juline Renfro Award for outstanding service to YRE. The recipient should be someone who has devoted significant service to our young people, nursery through high school, through the YRE program. Anyone can nominate! Your nomination should include a paragraph or more explaining your recommendation. Nominations are due to Natalie, in person, in the DRE mailbox or via email by Sun., May 16 at noon. The award will be presented on May 23 during our intergenerational teacher appreciation ceremony during service.
Harvest the Power - Leadership Development Curriculum
Are you a new leader in the Fellowship?  Are you a veteran leader?  Are you considering leadership?  Wherever you may fall on this leadership journey, we are offering a religious education opportunity for you.  It is based on a new curriculum developed by the UUA called Harvest the Power, focusing on three areas of leadership: identity, purpose and path.  We will offer this curriculum in three different units. You may wish to participate in one or all of the units.  Each unit will be only four weeks in length.The first unit onIdentity will begin on Tuesday, May 18 at 7:00 p.m. and will end on June 8.  The second unit will be held this fall.  From the curriculum: The Harvest the Power program was created not only to strengthen the skills and the confidence of individuals who have accepted a leadership role in our congregations, but also to provide the intentional faith development of integrated leaders who model healthy personal, spiritual and leadership practices.  Faculty includes Alice Diebel, Amy Russell and other Fellowship leaders. Please sign up in the Gathering Space or contact Kristin Freeman, Fellowship administrator or Alice Diebel.  If you have questions, please call Alice at 350-7763.  Please join us!
Changes Proposed for Endowment Bylaws
Our MVUUF Endowment Fund was created in 1992 to receive fellowship bequests and to fund long term projects.  Despite its very small beginning, and minimal deposits, a rising stock market and earnings reinvestment enabled it to reach a high value of $110,000 in June 2007.  However, starting in 2006 MVUUF had several years of financial problems & we began using the Fund to make up budget shortfalls.  We withdrew $3,853 in 2006, $5,000 in 2007 & $3,235 in 2009--a 3-year total of $12,088.  The Fund still went up in 2006, but our 2007 action forced a slight loss & our 2009 withdrawal hurt recovery from a $65,000 stock market low.  Last year our Endowment Trustees closed four of the Fund's separate accounts and joined the UUA's Common Endowment Fund, which has unified management & also earns higher returns.  Since our initial $76,000 deposit in August, our Fund has gone up to $87,000.  We are now also proposing Fund bylaw changes (see below) to clearly define Net Income, allow the Fund to recover its losses & to return to its long term purpose.  We want to do this by restricting withdrawals in three ways:  1) No withdrawals in a down market  2) No withdrawals forcing the Fund into a loss and 3) No withdrawals until the Fund equals 50% of the MVUUF budget (now at $190,000).  These changes must be approved by the June 13 Congregational Meeting, and we invite you to a discussion of the Endowment Fund at 12:15 p.m. after church on Sun., May 23.
John Bierman
Endowment Fund Secretary
Formal Proposals
Add the following sub-paragraphs:
3.01.01  Definition of Unrestricted Net Income
Unrestricted Net Income is defined as the Fund's declared dividends, interest & other income, minus the fees & expenses for the July 1 - June 30 fiscal year as shown in the Statement of Activity & Balances provided by the Fund's professional management company.

3.01.02  Required Current Market Value Net Increase
No part of the Unrestricted Net Income may be requested unless the Fund's total Market Value has shown a net increase for the last reported fiscal year. 
3.01.03  Limit of Unrestricted Net Income Request
No request for any part of the Unrestricted Net Income of the Fund may exceed the amount of net increase in the Fund's total Market Value for the last reported fiscal year. 
3.01.03  Required Current Market Value as Budget Percentage
No part of the Unrestricted Net Income of the Fund may be requested unless the total Market Value of the Fund equals or exceeds fifty percent (50%) of the current MVUUF budget.
Change the following paragraph:
7.01  Amendment
FROM:  "It may, nevertheless, be amended in the manner in which it was created."
TO:  "The Fund Bylaws may, nevertheless, be amended by the same procedures as those for amending the MVUUF Bylaws."
Lobby Day
This congregation has been very supportive of MVUUF's lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) members and friends, and of the larger LGBT community.  We are a Welcoming Congregation which means specifically that our Fellowship invites, supports, and "welcomes" LGBT people into our community of worship, life-long learning, fellowship, and social action.  Those of us who are "straight" are important allies in support of LGBT rights.  Part of our mission as a congregation is to advocate for human rights.  We are in the midst of a state legislative struggle to bring equal housing and employment rights to all Ohio citizens.  Last year, the Ohio House of Representatives passed H.B. 176, the Equal Housing and Employment Act, a bill to prohibit discrimination in housing and employment based on sexual orientation and gender identity.  Now, a similar bill will be soon introduced in the Ohio Senate for consideration.  It needs our support.  On Wed., May 19, members and friends of the Fellowship will join hundreds of other people from around the state to lend our support to the passage of this Senate bill. We will be going to Columbus and visiting with our senators to encourage them to pass this bill. This effort is called Lobby Day and it is sponsored by Equality Ohio.  We hope you will consider taking this trip with us for a late morning and early afternoon day of lobbying.  We'll carpool and we'll have lunch together.  And we'll stand together LGBT and allies together for human rights.  Please contact Antonia Harter, Joe Law or Bob Lewis if you wish to be a part of this important effort.

Chalicelight Gallery
Our artist for April 4 through mid-May is Nancy Fisher.  Nancy says "art has always been a part of me.  It is a way of thinking, feeling, observing and perceiving."  While many of her oil paintings take on a realistic quality, it is the study of light, shadow and color reminiscent of Impressionism that is her true forte.  Nancy says "the work I create is the response to whatever stimuli I may see; a reaction to a beautiful sight, observations of human emotion or simply the sun's transformation of an everyday object into a thing of beauty.  My art is an extension of myself."  Her art has been recently exhibited at the Centerville Police Headquarters and the Annual Art at the Trace at Yankee Trace Golf Club.
Don't Forget!
**Cinemaniacs will meet May 2 at the Danbarry around 5 and on May 16 at the Neon..  Please contact Pete Hering at 974-0360.
Save the Date!
**June 13 is the next Congregational meeting.