COMPLETE FOCUSING SESSION: "How am I today?"

Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director                                Week One 

• order the Self-Help Package with manual, audio CDs of exercises, and DVD of people practicing Focusing with a Focused Listener as helper
• visit the Store at The Focusing Institute to find many books and audio and visual materials to help you learn Focusing

CLASSES AND WORKSHOPS WORLDWIDE

There is also a wide array of Classes and Workshops you can take, by phone or locally in many regions and languages, one-to-one or in less expensive class situations.

Ruth Hirsch, Creative Edge Associate and Certifying Focusing Coordinator, is starting a new Level One Teleclass this coming Sunday, Jan. 20. Read all about it and her other Levels classes and register under Teleclasses. Ruth combines her training with Ann Weiser Cornell as an InnerRelationship teacher with the Caring Feeling Presence and Focusing Inner Child work of Dr. McGuire, as well as 17 years experience working with Focusing and Body Work.

Agnes Rodriguez, Creative Edge Associate and Certified Focusing Professional, offers 1-on-1 Sessions by phone in English and Spanish.

      In Intuitive Focusing, first, you relax and find a felt sense, an "intuitive feel" that is before words and more than words. Then, you go back and forth between open-ended questions ("Why is this hard for me?", "What's the meaning for me?", "How is this related to that other decision?") and the "intuitive feel," looking for words or images that exactly capture "the feel of the whole thing," until you find a sense of resolution, of knowing the meaning.

     At this moment of "Ahah!" you are experiencing a "felt shift," a Paradigm shift. The kaleidoscope turns, and the whole situation is new. New ideas, emotions, and action steps suddenly become possible.

      Try these long instructions only as long as you feel comfortable. Don't be judgmental of yourself if nothing huge seems to be happening. It can take a long time to learn to recognize a felt sense, the "intuitive feel," amidst all of the other things going on inside of your body (thoughts, images, muscular sensations, etc.). If you've recently joined this e-newsletter, later exercises will take you back to practicing separate steps of Focusing, like Relaxation, Clearing A Space, and Getting A Felt Sense. Impatient? You can check earlier e-newsletters about these exercises at the Creative Edge Focusing E-Newsletter Archives. And/or you can start at the beginning of Intuitive Focusing, Disc 1, and try each exercise in sequence.

     Don't force yourself to stay quietly inside longer than is pleasurable for your. Remember, many people learn the basics of Intuitive Focusing and having "felt shifts," or Paradigm Shifts better if they can be in interaction with a Listening partner. Start your own self-help group, using the Focusing In Community (Focusing en Comunidad) manual from the Self-Help package, or seek individual Coaching or a class/workshop with a Creative Edge Focusing Consultant or Certified Focusing Trainer

      If any tears arise during Intuitive Focusing, let them come.  Be very gentle and curious with the place the tears come from, asking "What are these tears all about?", "Why does this move me?", "What's the meaning of these tears?"

     1. "How am I today?"-Allow 20-30 minutes

---Lie down and get comfortable---loosen any clothing that is too tight---

1 minute

---Now, stretch your arms up over your head, point your toes, and stretch as long as you can---and relax---10 seconds

---Let your body relax into the floor---10 seconds

---Now, tense your feet, hold for a second---and relax---and breathe, in and out---10 seconds

---Now, tense your calf muscles--- hold---and relax---and breathe---in and out---10 seconds

---And, now, your thighs---tense---hold---and relax---and breathe---10 seconds

---And now your pelvis and buttocks---tense---and relax---and breathe---10 seconds

---Now, your stomach and lower back---tense---and relax---and breathe---10 seconds

---Your arms---tense---relax---and breathe---10 seconds

---Now, your face and neck---tense them up---wiggle your face all around---and relax---10 seconds

---Notice your thought process---and gently set it aside---10 seconds

--- Find a peaceful place inside of yourself, a place of Caring Feeling Presence. Bring to mind the Anchoring images, your inner Nurturers, from this week's Caring Feeling Presence exercise---30 seconds

---Now, ask yourself, "How am I today?" and just wait and see what comes---30 seconds

---Now, ask yourself, "And what's the feel of that whole thing?" and, again, wait as long as a minute for the "intuitive feel," the more-than-words,  of the whole thing to form, probably in the center of your chest/heart area.

1 minute

---Again, find some words or an image that are just right for the feeling.

1 minute

---And ask yourself, "And why does that matter to me?" and see what comes---

1 minute

---Find some words or an image to capture it just right, going back-and-forth between intuition and symbols until there is a sense of fit: "Yes, that's it."

1 minute

---Now, ask yourself, "What would this be like if it were all okay?" and see if you can get some words or an image for that.

1 minute

---Now, ask yourself gently, "What's in the way of that being okay?" and just wait and see what comes as a bodily sense, an "intuitive feel" around your heart center.

1 minute

---And find words or an image to capture that, going back-and-forth until the sense of "fit."

1 minute

---Now, hold those two intuitive senses next to each other: the way it would be if it were okay, and the way it is now, and see if you experience any change or shift in how it is.

1 minute

---See if you can find any small step that would bring you closer to how you'd like it to be.

1 minute

---Now, just spend another minute receiving what has come---

1 minute

--- If you feel like you want some more steps of problem solving on this issue, you can do more rounds of Focusing: ask yourself an open-ended question, wait for a felt sense, the "intuitive feel," then look for words or images to capture it---

5-10 minutes---

--- When you're ready, end the Focusing for today and slowly come back into the room.