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Thanks to the following for their recent support:
Andrew and Jama Badinghaus
John Burke
Michael Gillespie
Jacqui Griswold
Jill Hilgefort
Carole King
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Special Dates | November 1
All Saints November 2 All Souls |
November 6
Marianist Martyrs
of Madrid
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Relationship. Is that something we take for granted? What

does it mean to be in relationship? What does it mean to be in right relationship? What does it mean to be in relationship to our loves ones? To those around us? To those we've never met? To those on the other side of the world? To the earth?
I recently heard a presentation by Jane Elliot, the teacher, who as a result of the death of Martin Luther King Jr., did the brown eye/blue eye experiment in her classroom to teach the students the effects of racism. She highlighted for the audience how racism and prejudice are alive and well right here in the land of the free. Her views on diversity, world religions, politics, oppression, and power might have angered some in the audience. She probably made some people squirm. And the reality is that she was right about what she was saying.
So as I think about Columbus Day and Thanksgiving I think about the American Indians. As I think about politics and upcoming elections I think about the rich and the poor, black and white, majority and minority, and where decision-making power is in relation to those demographics. I am a white man aware of the increasing diversity around me - in my local community, the nation, and world.
I'm also Christian and Marianist. Along with being part of one race - the human race - I share values and beliefs with brothers and sisters around the globe. We have our very own world wide web in the Marianist family. We are interdependent. We have something to offer and something to receive whether in relationship to those around us or to those on another continent whom we have never met. MLNNA includes the United States, Canada and Haiti. We are part of a region that includes Ireland, Australia, Philippines, India, South Korea, and Japan. And we have counterparts throughout Africa, Europe and Latin America.
We have connections. We are many yet we are one. That is a gift to us, to our communities, to the Church and to the world. We realize that we are part of something larger. We are inclusive. We welcome diversity. We are a discipleship of equals living out our baptismal call.
We also have connections to the past; to those who have gone before us. As we prepare for All Saints Day and All Souls Day I am conscientious of the communion of saints and the benefits I reap as a result of our relatives and ancestors. I reflect on the lives of our Marianist saints and martyrs (click the language you want, then Family, then Saints). I am grateful for the charism they shared and the example and courage by which they lived and died.
I wonder. Where is my place in the world? What do I owe to those around me? To those I don't know and have never met? To those who will come after me? To those whose lives I will touch by every action or inaction, regardless of intent? Do I live a life of courage and stand up for what I believe in? And where is my place among the communion of saints?
Food for thought: how would you or your community answer the questions above if you were the ones asking them?
In closing, I offer this poem attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson but possibly written by Bessie A. Stanley:
That Man is a Success Who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; Who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children; Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; Who leaves the world better than he found it, whether by improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; Who never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it. Who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.
Peace and Love, Matt Dunn Editor |
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On September 17 a "mini-regional" picnic was held at the home of Steve and Marilyn Goldhammer in Rockville, Maryland. Members of the SM community in Baltimore and two lay communities --- the Metro Marianists of the Washington DC area and the Maripins led by Mike and Annette Wasno of Beltsville, MD -- attended.
They report they had a wonderful day of reconnecting, making new friends, sharing about their community activities and aspirations, praying, and, of course, eating and enjoying the hospitality of the Goldhammers. It was the first time that groups from the Baltimore-Washington area have met all together in a very long time.
First row: Mike Wasno, Louisa Ward, Larry Boesch, Fr. Richard Kuhn, Bro. Frank O'Donnell; Second row: Paul Schirmer, Annette Wasno, Marge Cavanaugh, Virginia Ebbert, Kay Mercogliano, Tony Mercogliano; Third row: Brendan McCracken, Lisa McCracken, Mary Beaudoin, John Holden, Bro. Tom Trager, Steve Goldhammer, Rachel and Ricky Ward, Marilyn Goldhammer; Photo by Paul Schirmer.
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Get on the Bus
The Magnificat Community, in Dayton, invites those in the area
to join them and UD's Fitz Center on a tour of some Dayton neighborhoods and social service organizations that are helping the Dayton community to grow through support, education and other initiatives. Details are:
Date: Saturday, October 22 Time: 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. Cost: $5 to help defray transportation expenses
Bus seating is available on a first-come, first-served basis and space is limited.
For info/reservation: Contact Helen Sills, 937-432-6715 or
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Marianist Manna: Feeding Ourselves in Formation
We've mentioned this a couple times over the months but this is a reminder that the gathering that has taken place in Dayton every six weeks is due to convene on Thursday November 3 at 7:00 for a potluck dinner and discussion led by NACMS staff. This is open to all Marianists who would like to attend. The address is 104 Edgar Avenue, Dayton, OH 45410. Contact Caitlin Cronin Bennett for more information and to let her know you are coming! |
Saint of the Day
In the spirit of All Saints Day, we'd like to draw attention to this wonderful resource available from our friends at AmericanCatholic.org. You can subscribe to daily emails or you can download an app! A link is also available in our newsletter and on the Resources page of our website.
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Share Your Stories!
Don't be the proverbial lamp under the bushel basket!  We'd love to feature a new/different community or even an individual lay Marianist in each issue of the newsletter. As a community of communities we want to remember and celebrate that we are all companions on this journey inspired by Fr. Chaminade, Adele, and Marie Therese. If you have a prayer service to share, meeting topic suggestions, stories about social experiences or service projects please let us know!! If you know a lay Marianist doing great things let us know so we can give them a shout out! You can send stories and pictures to laymarianist@gmail.com to be included in our newsletter! |
The MLNNA Leadership Team met Septmber 30-October 2 to discuss and discern its role along with its hopes and expectations of MLNNA and of what the laity offers both to the Marianist Family and the wider community. We await a written summary so that we can make you aware of the highlights! Watch future newsletters for the exciting direction we hope to take in serving our members and communities!
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A Final Thought on our Spiritual Ancestors
Whether we know it or not, we transmit the presence of everyone we have ever known, as though by being in each other's presence we exchange our cells, pass on some of our life force, and then we go on carrying that other person in our body, not unlike the springtime when certain plants in fields we walk through attach their seeds in the form of small burrs to our socks, our pants, our caps, as if to say "Go on, take us with you, carry us to root in another place." This is how we survive long after we are dead. This is why it is important who we become, because we pass it on. - Natalie Goldberg Taken from Out of the Ordinary, �2000 by Joyce Rupp. Used by permission of Ave Maria Press. All rights reserved. Thanks for reading to the end! |
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