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DAP

Board of Directors

  

The DAP board of directors is a body of elected volunteers who oversee broad areas of responsibility.

DAP is proud and honored to partner with the following professionals in the mission to end domestic abuse.

 

 

Shannon Heim,

Chair

 

Maura Murphy,

 Vice Chair

 

Angela Conrath,

Secretary

 

Vidyotham Reddi,

Treasurer

 

Inspector

Kris Arneson

 

Lisa Crum

 

Mary Foote

 

Susan Johnson

 

Stacy Kennedy

 

Robin Lackner

 

M. Kathleen Murphy

 

Mickey O'Kane

 

Joan Peterson

 

Ann Poole

 

Jessica Schmidt

 

Sara

Rothholz Weiner

 

 

 
Act as 1 Against Domestic Abuse
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Click here to save your seat TODAY for DAP's Transforming Families 10th annual fundraising luncheon  

 

Tuesday, October 18

11am  Registration opens

Noon - 1pm  Program & Light Lunch

Earle Brown Heritage Center

Brooklyn Center

Click here for directions. 

 

LUNCHEON SNEAK PEEK

 

Bennie Joppru

Former NFL player

& former DAP client

 

Charlie Maquire  

Singing "Bobby & Darla"

 

Premiere of DAP's new Transforming Families video

 

Jack Strawder

Jack will share the story of evolving from a violent childhood to being an abusive partner to now helping men to stop using violence in their intimate relationships

 

Kristine Castelluzzo

Hear this inspiring young woman courageously share her struggles with abusive relationships and how her DAP advocate is helping her to believe in herself and her potential.

 

Click here to read about DAP's special partnerships. 

 

If you can't join DAP at this special event please consider making a contribution today to invest in the lives of people like Jack and Kristine.  DAP sees people make monumental changes in their life everyday, and support from our community makes this possible.

 

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Look Forward

 

I want to share a story about an incredible young man named Lionel.  man praying  Between having an absent father and a drug addicted mother, Lionel has had an incredibly difficult childhood and adolescence.  As a young adult in relationships he used the kind of behavior he learned from his role models...that fear, threats, violence will result in greater control and respect.  He was ordered to DAP after an abusive incident with an ex-girlfriend.  Lionel came to my therapy group angry, disconnected and quiet. I'm happy to tell you that Lionel stayed with us for the full 24-weeks of men's therapy.  The last night of group I always have the guys who are completing share words of wisdom with the others.  He typed up the message below and shared it with the whole group.  With his permission, I now share it with you. Click here to read Lionel's message.

Reading Lesson

 

I know how to read.purple ribbon

 

I have a dictionary,

 

and I know what words mean.

 

So when the CNN banner

running across the TV screen

says that police are calling

this thing

"a domestic dispute"

a clear image comes to mind...

 

Click here to read the entire poem.

"I learned to be an expert..."sad girl

 

At DAP's 10th annual Transforming Families fundraising luncheon on October 18thguests will have the opportunity to view the brand new DAP video.  One of the featured former clients in that video is Lindagail.  Lindagail's story is powerful.   It reminds us that the essence of abuse is not the blows themselves, but the patterns.  The terror lies in the belief that no one can - or even wants to - help.  That is the cycle DAP works to break.  Click here to read Lindagail's story.

Yoga. Women. Therapy.

  

 DAP has been awarded a Community Pilot grant to study the feasibility and effectiveness of incorporating components of yoga into women's therapy services. The funding, from the National Institutes of Health through the University of Minnesota's Clinical and Translational Science Institute, supports the collaboration of University researchers with community services providers. A member of DAP's Board of Directors, Robin Lackner, explored the project in more detail in a recent blog post.  

Click here to read more. 

SSponsors of Change

  

We've grown accustomed to corporate sponsors.  New Year's Day used to mean watching the Rose Bowl.  Now that simple 8-letter name is something like: the ABC Corporation Rose Bowl, presented by XYZ Company, with support from Worldwide Widgets.  DAP's Transforming Families luncheon has sponsors, too, but their role is much deeper. 

 

 

verizon     SCC    am950

 

Dorsey         remax          cuningham 

 

DAP's luncheon sponsors are true partners in our work. Verizon and Success Computer Consulting have been partners with DAP for over nine years. In addition to ensuring that funds raised at the luncheon go directly to help families, the two companies have connected DAP to other caring businesses, donated valuable in-kind services and increased awareness of the work happening at DAP.  As a new partner, AM950 and DAP will not only build a successful event but look forward to creating a public awareness campaign in the year to come. 

 

These companies, including long-time supporters Dorsey & Whitney, REMAX Results (Marshall Saunders & John Collopy) and Cuningham Group, aren't seen by millions of tv-watching football fans.   They work with DAP because they believe that families should be a safe haven.  These are social-minded businesses that are aware and engaged in a collective effort to improve our community.