TOTAL TRANSITION INTO THE LIGHT!
On the inside/On the Outside! October was a total Transition Month! We moved our home and office to a sunny, bright, and well-preserved location in Hackensack that Nancy Price of RE/Max Properties steered me towards. She also helped sell our house last week! We've been unpacking, sorting out, pulling out as much as we truly don't love, desire, or use anymore. Feels great!
Nancy Price of RE/Max and Verena outside Verena's new location.



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Quotation of the Month

Flower Stand at Whole Food Market, Paramus, NJ
General Wolf Rules for Life:
1. Eat
2. Rest
3. Rove in between
4. Render loyalty
5. Love the children
6. Cavil in moonlight
7. Tune your cars
8. Attend to the bones
9. Make love
10. Howl often
Source: Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Women Who Run With the Wolves (P. 461)
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Indigo-Rainbow-Crystal Children + Magic Artist: Delphine Aibel, 9
 "DA" Initials on moving box by Delphine Aibel, 9, markers

Artist: Delphine Aibel, 9

Artist: Annelies Visser's 3 Koi on black ceramic vase.
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Animal of the MonthDragonfly - Damselfly

Keynote: The Power of Light
Dragonflies and damselflies are very ancient with estimates of having been around for over 180 million years. They have a beautiful, jewel-like coloring. The bright colors take time to develop, reflecting the idea that with maturity our own true colors come forth. This is part of dragonfly medicine.
For many it is difficult to tell the difference between a dragonfly and a damselfly. Dragonflies have broad bodies and enormous eyes. Damselflies are more slender and delicate. When dragonflies are at rest, they hold their wings out like a glider. Damselflies will fold their wings over their backs when at rest. Dragonflies will often eat while in flight, and damselflies will always land before eating.
Both are known for their fast flight and their dazzling aerial feats, as if imitating how light itself can be moved and directed. They twist, turn, change direction in an instant, hover, move up or down, and even fly backwards. Dragonflies are sometimes known as mosquito hawks. Both the damsels and the dragons are excellent hunters of flying insects. They can spot a movement forty feet away. They use their sharp, spiny legs and strong jaws to capture their prey.
Dragonflies and damselflies inhabit two realms - water and air. The significance of these should be examined. In their early life - as a nymph - they live within water. As they mature and go through their metamorphosis, they move to the realm of air. It is not unusual to find individuals with dragonfly totems to be very emotional and passionate in the early years, but as they get older, they learn to balance it with greater mental clarity and control. Sometimes it can indicate that the emotions have gotten shut down because of emotional issues in early life. Remember that the dragonfly and damselfly are always found around water. There must be expressions of the emotional and the mental together.
If a dragonfly has shown up in your life, you may need some fresh air in regard to something emotional. You may need to gain a new perspective or make a change. It may even indicate that you are neglecting your emotions. Are you being too rational about everything? Are you not keeping the color of emotions alive?
Dragonflies are very territorial. They will lay their eggs within their territory near the water. The egg eventually develops into the nymph stage of metamorphosis in this insect, and remains as a nymph for almost two years before it transforms into an adult. This can reflect the number of possibilities for those with this totem. It can indicate that an approximate two-year period of change is about to reach its culmination. It may reflect that you are coming into a two-year period of transformation. It may even reflect a need to institute changes that may culminate in the colorful transformations you desire within a two-year period. Only by examining your life and activities will you begin to understand its specific role.
Just as light can bend and shift and be adapted in a variety of ways, so can the archetypal forces associated with the dragonfly. It is one of the most adaptable of insects. It is why it has been able to survive so long. Dragonflies have two pairs of wings, but if need be, they can fly with one. Their eyes are kept clean with special combs on their legs and by washing the eyes with water drops collected in the mouth.
The main predators are frogs and birds. Particularly the frog should be studied by those with this totem.
Their realm is the realm of light, and they are only out during the day, as they are cold-blooded. Summer is their most powerful time, as they need the warmth and the light of the sun. For those with this totem, this will be important to consider. Spending time outside in the sun near fresh water sources will be beneficial for restoring and changing health conditions for the better for those with this totem.
Although some have color pigments in their skin, for most the colors are caused almost the same way rainbows form. Structures in their shell scatter and refract the light, making them look iridescent green and blue. As they age, they may pass through several color changes. This ability to reflect and refract light and color has caused it to be associated with many forms of magic and mysticism - including color magic, illusion (causing others to see only what you wish them to see), and more. Dragonfly's magic is the power of light and all that has ever been associated with it.
Dragonflies and damselflies are often depicted in Japanese paintings, representing new light and joy. To some Native Americans, they represent the souls of the dead. Some stories speak of the time in which they used to be real dragons. Often we assume that dragons have to be gigantic beasts breathing fire, but the fantastic creatures of the Faerie Realm often come in many shapes and sizes. Dragonflies because of they are mythical relatives of the ancient dragons are wonderful links to working with nature spirits.
The dragonfly and damselfly reflect and work with the sun and light. The light changes throughout the day. The dragonfly and damselfly undergo their own transformations. If they have shown up, look for change to occur. Are you resisting change when you shouldn't? Dragonflies remind us that we are light and can reflect the light in powerful ways if we choose to do so. "Let there be light" is the divine prompting to use the creative imagination as a force within your life. This is part of what dragonflies and damselflies can teach us.
Life is never quite the way it appears, but it is always filled with light and color. Dragonfly can help you to see through the illusions and thus allow your own light to shine forth. Dragonfly brings the brightness of transformation and the wonder of colorful new vision.
Source: Ted Williams' Animal Speak
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NEWS FLASH! Verena, a licensed XPR Advisor and Integrity Coach, is offering Empowering Now LLC's Introductory Teleclasses related to their cutting edge Course entitled "The Path of XPR... Nature's Path to Let the Integrity of a Higher Power Bloom in You."
Join us for a free introduction to the Path of XPR (XPR is the evolution in Roman script of the Hebrew word for "sound, number, letter, light!")! Our time together is going to be highly interactive, lively, fun, and revealing. Please bring an open mind and/or your most skeptical questions. There is no preparation required for this event. The Path of XPR - to emPower you to receive, develop and maintain the state of mind where all things are possible. 
Free Introductory XPR Teleclass Schedule (TeleBridge)
What Will it Take for Your Voice to be Heard? (Teleclass)
Monday, November 1st from 12-1pm EST Introducing PaRaDiSe Mystery School (Teleclass):
Thursday, November 4th from 12-1 pm EST Tuesday, November 16th from 12-1 pm EST
The BIG Question (Teleclass:)
Thursday, November 18th from 8-9pm EST Wisdom REALLY at Work (Teleclass) Friday, November 12th from 12-1 pm EST
Facilitator: Verena Visser Aibel, Visionary, Shaman, XPR Advisor, Integrity Coach, and President, Vibrant Visions International.
Fee: Complimentary For more information or to register: call Verena at 201-487-6910 EST or email her directly at Verena@VibrantCoach.com and specify preferred teleclass, date, and time. Once you have registered we will email you the bridgeline information.
For in depth information on the Path of XPR, please check out EmPOwering Now's incredible website: www.emPOweringNOW.com.
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Vibrant Visions International's Calendar of Events & Top Picks
Scroll down to see Verena's Top Picks from our VIBRANT VISIONS INTERNATIONAL ONLINE CALENDAR which is updated daily*. NOTE: All events are subject to change. Please call and confirm event details prior to traveling. Contact us if you receive conflicting dates or data. Thanks!
*Go to the Vibrant Visions International LLC website and click on "Calendar of Events" and scroll through our calendar. Contact information and registration information is also listed per event. Calendar listings also includes events hosted by professional associations such as the New Jersey Professional Coaches Association (NJPCA), New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners (NJAWBO), Institute for Sustainable Enterprise (ISE), etc. Please also check their websites for latest details.
Newsletters are now archived: Check them out via "Newsletter Archive" on our new website.
Appointments: Please feel free to make your private coaching appointment or complimentary assessment with Verena directly via our Online Appointment Scheduler. Please note that Verena's Vibrant Visions International LLC offerings are in Purple. Additional listings are in red. Photo: Warren T. Oates, Philips, Corethia V.E. Oates, MorganStanley SmithBarney, and Verena ********************************************************************** New Jersey Association of Women Business Owner's (NJAWBO) Bergen Chapter Breakfast Networking
July 8, 2010 (Thursday): Time: 8:00 am - 9:30 am
Location: Panera's Bakery Cafe, 165 Route 4 West (in Kohl's Shopping Center), Paramus , NJ Fee: Members: $10.00; Non-Members: $15.00 - CASH ONLY For reservations and information, call the Bergen Chapter hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 4 or e-mail Joanne Clark at jcwills@optonline.net or check out New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Bergen Chapter.
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Girl's Night Out! Join us for a fun evening for early holiday shopping, luscious chocolate sampling, tarot readings and more! Complimentary wine, coffee, and lite fare will be served.
November 9, 2010 (Tuesday) (6:30 - 9:30 pm)
Location: Matisse Chocolatier, 260 Grand Avenue, Englewood, NJ 07631, 201-568-2288; www.getfreshchocolate.com
Products: Matisse Chocolatier products and CAbi clothing (Lucille Skroce), Lia Sophia Jewelry (Kimberly Jupin) , tarot reading & mini-coaching sessions (Verena Visser Aibel), Decoupage gifts (Faye), Miche Bags.
RSVP: Lucille Skroce, 201-568-2288; www.getfreshchocolate.com
Lia Sophia: www.liasophia.com/kimberlyjupin Tarot/Coaching: www.VibrantCoach.com
Photo: Verena and daughter at school Halloween parade
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NJPCA: How to Build Your Business by Speaking: The Inside Scoop! Featured Speaker: Denise Hedges
November 10, 2010 (Wednesday): Time: 6:00 - 9:00 pm
Location: Hilton Garden Inn, 50 Raritan Center Parkway, Edison, NJ 08837 (732) 225-0900; www.edisonraritancenter.gardeninn.com
Price: $39 Members; $44 Non-members; $19 Virtual Attendees Register Now * Price includes buffet dinner. Register Early - Limited Seating Available: Click HERE Presentation Description: The skill of public speaking is the number one strategy for building a coaching practice. The speaker will present everything coaches need to know to successfully market your business through speaking. You will learn how to speak with confidence and impact so you generate business and make a positive difference in people's lives. This presentation will be interactive and participatory. *************************************************************
New Jersey Association of Women Business Owner's (NJAWBO) Bergen Chapter Breakfast Networking
November 11, 2010 (Thursday): Time: 8:00 am - 9:30 am
Location: Panera's Bakery Cafe, 165 Route 4 West (in Kohl's Shopping Center), Paramus , NJ
Fee: Members: $10.00; Non-Members: $15.00 - CASH ONLY For reservations and information, call the Bergen Chapter hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 4 or e-mail Joanne Clark at jcwills@optonline.net or check out New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Bergen Chapter.
Photo: Patricia Preztunik of Bright Star Care & Verena at NJAWBO Bergen Breakfast hosted at Affinity Federal Credit Union, Paramus *******************************************************************
NJAWBO Non-Traditional Success in a Traditional World! Bergen Chapter "Diversi-TEA"
November 17, 2010 (Wednesday): Time: 7:00 - 9:00 pm
Location: Bergen Regional Medical Center 230 E. Ridgewood Ave., Paramus, NJ (Directions 201-967-4000) Cost: $15.00 Members & Non-members
Thank you to our event sponsor, Kathleen Rogers of Set to a Tea and monthly sponsor, Lynette Tropp of The Enchanted Palate for the refreshing beverages and delectable desserts!
Thank you also to the Bergen Regional Medical Center for graciously providing us with the meeting venue!
For reservations: Call the Bergen Chapter Hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 3, or send an email to dinner@njawbobergen.org.
Photo: Morning Sun in Hackensack, NJ ******************************************************************* "NJ Dept. of Environmental Protection's Role in Sustainability" - Institute for Sustainable Enterprise/CHRMS Breakfast November 19, 2010 (Friday) 7:30 - 9:30 am EST Location: Fairleigh Dickinson University, the Mansion Bldg 1, Hartman Lounge, 285 Madison Ave, Madison, NJ 07940 Information: Call ISE/CHRMS at 973-443-8577. Fee: $40 ($25 non profit organization members). Register: www.fdu.edu/forms/chrmsregister.html or email your rsvp to pniewski@fdu.edu
Photo: John Moroski, guitarist, and Verena at Central Unitarian Church, Paramus. ******************************************************************* Open Mic Night
November 20, 2010 (Saturday): Time: 8:00 - 11:30 pm
Location: Rest Stop Rejuvenate, 21 Maple Ave Rockaway, New Jersey www.reststoprejuvenate.com
Cost is $10 - $20 (donation). We are a gathering place for well-being. Upon entering you will find a living room atmosphere that nurtures and replenishes your wellbeing as soothing aromas fill the air and mood-enhancing music assists in addressing life's daily stress. Rest Stop Rejuvenate is a place that enhances life by bringing people together and offering enriching conversations, thought provoking exercises, transformational games, creative classes, workshops, and entertainment.
When we care for and nurture ourselves we are better able to make choices that are not driven by the stress and discord of daily life.
For more information contact, Vicky at 1-862-209-1439.
Photo: Verena performing live at Open Mic Night. ******************************************************************* NJAWBO Passaic 8th Annual Holiday Marketplace- Verena Visser Aibel of Vibrant Visions International will be Vending!
November 30, 2010 (Tuesday): 4:30 - 8:00 pm
Location: The Bethwood, 38 Lackawanna Avenue, Totowa, NJ 07512; www.thebethwood.com
This event is expected to draw over 100 vendors showcase their products and services and 400 buyers from across the state!
ATTENDEES: Tickets available for $25.00 - includes: ˇ Entire Holiday Marketplace, more than 80 vendors - shopping, networking, Hot Buffet from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. and International Coffee & Dessert Station from 6:30 to 8:00 p.m. There will be cocktail tables to sit around and network ˇ Soft Music from young entertainer ˇ FUN Game Show in each room ˇ Business Showcase Booklet containing advertisements and promotions to be used during or after the Holiday Marketplace.
For more information contact: http://www.whoscoming.com/njawbo-passaic/PassaicHOLIDAYMARKETPLACE.html
Photo: Kathy Smyly Miller of Wellness Possibilities and Verena at Innovation Conference, Fairleigh Dickinson University, Florham Park campus.
******************************************************************* Verena Speaking at Sue Waldman's Living, Loving & Learning Series. Verena's Topic: Life Coaching: Learn the tools to Change your Life
December 29, 2010 (Wednesday); Time: 7:00 - 9:00 pm EST
Location: Montclair area
Workshop Title: Life Coaching: Learn the tools to Change your Life... Workshop Facilitator: Veréna Visser Aibel,Visionary, Shaman, XPR Advisor, Integrity Coach, and President, Vibrant Visions International LLC, a Global Coaching and Consulting Enterprise Website: www.VibrantCoach.com
Workshop Description: Are you wishing things were different in your life? Perhaps you are experiencing transition in your job, marriage, parenting, or other aspect of your life? In this interactive workshop we will explore 10 valuable tools to suspend judgment, overcome resistance to change, and ease into looking within in order to be the change you wish to see. We'll have an opportunity for live coaching and group coaching in a safe and enjoyable environment. Bio: Verena Visser Aibel is Visionary, Shaman, XPR Advisor, Integrity Coach, and President, Vibrant Visions International. She continues to play an important role in the advancement of people from all corners of the globe. Her mission is to emPOwer Leaders and Visionaries to receive, develop and maintain the state of mind where ALL things are possible. For over 25 years, Verena has been providing international consulting, coaching, training, speaking, and marketing services for business, association, & political leaders, communication & human resources executives, educators, speakers, executive coaches, global and ecumenical professionals, and other professionals in transition.
Photo: Verena and Sue Waldman at 32 Church Restaurant, Montclair, NJ.
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