Top Ten Beneficial Conditions for a Truthful Relationship* by Verena Visser Aibel
(*or the Top Ten Checklist for A Highly-Evolved Couple) 
Truth is here for me in this relationship as long as... -
We both desire to be here together -
We're enjoying one another and having fun -
We respect and take good care of ourselves (physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally) -
We respect each other, other people and the Universe -
We're supportive of one another (vs. supporting) -
We're evolving individually and as a couple -
We seek to understand each other -
We communicate our vision, mission, hopes, and concerns as they arise -
We carry out our personal mission on Earth lovingly and in Light -
We respond to our abilities and act as mature, interdependent adults
Photo (top right): Rhiannon and Dondersteen mirroring |
 Are YOU enjoying a Vibrant Life
Rich with Vibrant Visions and Color?
How
great would it be if you were to give yourself the gift of your most
cherished vision? Or the gift of beautifully handling your biggest
challenge or transition?
Imagine giving yourself permission to
enjoy a full year to discover, explore, experiment, brainstorm, and
create brilliant connections, relationships, pathways or strategies?
Desire the inspiration, support, and tools for major transformation and growth? --How about Coaching with Verena? .Experience the. amazing power and joy of expressing and
creating your ideal life, relationship, and/or profession. Schedule
a complimentary consultation where you get to know about our options
and where we can learn about your particular situation to see if we are
a fit! We are here
for you, whether you are just starting out, starting over, or have hit
what seems like a roadblock.
Desire a short term solution?--How
about a "Just in Time" Coaching appointment when you desire a sounding
board or feedback to create clarity around a single issu.e, situation,
or question, or when you just want a good old-fashioned pep talk?
Want a personality assessment? --How about A Colour Energy Personality Profile and a beautiful Colour Energy book as a resource?
Looking for a speaker or workshop presentation for your office or organization? Tell us what you are looking for and we'll help you out ourselves or refer you!
Don't know what you want?
--Just call, we'll listen. Telephone: 201-487-6910 EST or email:
Verena@VibrantCoach.com. For more information and links, check out our
website: Vibrant Visions International LLC.
Global and Local Access: We work
with clients in person as well as remotely.
Photo (top): The Alchemist by Phyllis Moser on display at her "Alchemy: Myth, Gold, Transformations and Legacy" Exhibit at the Institute of Art Wyomissing, PA, USA.
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Indigo-Rainbow-Crystal Children & Grown-Up Magic 
Photos by Delphine, 7, Verena's Daughter   |
Quotations of the Month
The Edge of All Our Possibility
Lois Sekerak Hogan
Edges are about choices and decisions. They define the territory between the familiar and the unknown, hence they are also about learning and the willingness to be temporarily disoriented.
WE may find ourselves in a place where it takes all our courage to imagine taking another step. We worry there will be no solid footing, we fear we will lose something or be hurt. Yet there are times when facing the brink is less a threat to life than the refusal to step out into our own truth.
Something calls us to move out into the darkness, illumined only by an inner vision that draws us like the moon, to an urge we can no longer ignore. Surrendering certainty to step out into the path of no path doesn't mean there is no path - only that we cannot yet see it.
Photo: "Blue Footed Booby" by Rudy Visser, 82, Verena's Dad (watercolor and ink) |
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Vibrant Visions International LLC's
Calendar of Events & Top Picks:
VIBRANT VISIONS INTERNATIONAL CALENDAR ONLINE: Our calendar is updated daily online. Go to Vibrant Visions International LLC and click on "Calendar & Appointments" and scroll through our
calendar which we keep updated year-round. Contact information and
registration information is also listed per event. Calendar listings
also includes events hosted by professional associations such as the New Jersey Professional Coaches Association (NJPCA), New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners (NJAWBO)-Bergen, Institute for Sustainable Enterprise, etc. Please also check their websites for latest details.
Questions? Please call 201-487-6910 or email us at Verena@VibrantCoach.com if you have any questions. Please feel free to make your private coaching appointments with Verena directly via our Online Appointment Scheduler. Additional Photos may be seen via Verena's iWeb Photo Albums: Please note that Verena's offerings are in Purple. Additional listings are in red.
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6th Annual New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Passaic Chapter's Holiday Marketplace
Date: December 4, 2008 (Thursday); Time: 4:30 - 8:30 pm
Description: Verena will be exhibiting and offering mini-coaching sessions w/optional Osho Zen tarot readings at this event which is expected to draw over 100 vendors showcase their products and services and 400 buyers from across the state! Have your professional head-shot picture taken, have air-brushed makeup done, or get a massage (all at discounted prices). View Marketplace Theatre demos every 15 minutes on a plethora of topics. Come early to win some great early bird prizes!
For details, prices and registration go to: www.whoscoming.com/2008marketplace.
Location: The Bethwood, 38 Lackawanna Avenue, Totowa, NJ 07512
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NJAWBO BERGEN CHAPTER'S MEMBER SHOWCASE & NEW MEMBER APPRECIATION LUNCHEON
Date: December 9, 2008 (Tuesday); Time: 12 noon (sharp) - 2:00 p.m
Come learn about various professions and businesses at the NJAWBO Bergen Chapter Showcase and show appreciation for members who joined NJAWBO this year! Hear from successful members, both new and seasoned, who will be bringing an item that showcases their work and they will raffle these items off at the conclusion of this event. Networking at Noon with NJAWBO will help take you to a new level! You've got to be there to find out how!
Fee: FREE to new members who joined in 2008;
Members: $17; Non-members: $22
For further information and reservations: contact Verena Aibel at lunch@njawbobergen.org or call the Bergen Chapter Hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 5 or check out New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Bergen Chapter.
Location: Holiday Inn Hasbrouck Heights, 283 Route 17 South, Hasbrouck Heights
(call 201-288-9600 for directions)
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NEW JERSEY PROFESSIONAL COACHES ASSOCIATION (NJPCA) HOLIDAY DINNER EVENT WITH GUEST SPEAKER LAURA BERMAN FORGANG: "Guiding Clients to A More Meaningful Life While We Build One Ourselves"
Date: December 9, 2008 (Tuesday); Time: 6:00 - 9:30 pm
In this presentation, Laura will share how ministry has changed her coaching work and what you might glean from those changes to grow your own practice. Laura will guide you through five "M words" beyond the godfather of them all-Meaning-that will serve as markers on your path:
* Mystery: Many of us are so busy looking for answers we fail to consider the questions. Laura will guide you and your clients to new questions yielding new answers.
* Minister: Discover how subtle changes in approach will impact your practice for the better.
* Magnificence: If we will just open our eyes-and truly look-beauty and purpose are everywhere! Learn the small tricks to support your clients to see it.
* Mind: Tangled up in our thoughts, we fail to experience the moment.
Explore new ways to allow your mental patterns to be altered permanently.
* Mystic: Learning to see the world through the eyes of a mystic, suddenly everything holds meaning and clues to what will make us and our clients happy.
In her usual, high energy, interactive style, Laura will inspire you and get you ready to act on your discoveries.
Register Early - Limited Seating Available!
For more information and driving directions: visit our Website www.njcoaches.org
Fee: Members:$39; Non-members: $44 (Price includes Buffet Dinner)
Location: Crowne Plaza Hotel, Clark,NJ
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Creating Truthful & Sustainable Love Relationships using Tarot Workshop
Workshop presented by Verena Visser Aibel, Owner, Vibrant Visions International LLC; Workshop Series Hosted by Sue Waldman, President of Advanced Counseling & Coaching Services
Date: Dec. 14, 2008; Time: 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Verena
will be presenting how to use the ancient wisdom of the tarot to help
you gain clarity, wisdom, and a sense of direction regarding your
primary or desired love relationships. The tarot can help you re-discover what you really want. You can use it to explore possibilities so that you can make better decisions. If you make better decisions, you can create the life you long to live. You can find ways to achieve your heart's desires. You can determine how to best realize your dreams. The tarot has, throughout time, helped many find what they are looking for.
Fee: $30.00 early registration ~ $40.00 late registration
Questions or to Pre-Register: Contact Sue Waldman via her website or (973) 857-9090.
Location: Verona, NJ
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Network at Noon Lunch Meeting
sponsored by New Jersey Association for Women Business Owners (NJAWBO)
Bergen Chapter.
Date: January 6, 2009 (Tuesday) Time: 12:00 noon - 2:00 pm
Fee: Members: $17.00; Non-Members: $22.00 - CASH ONLY
To register, call the NJAWBO Bergen Chapter hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 5 or e-mail Verena Aibel at lunch@njawbobergen.org or check out New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Bergen Chapter.
Location:
Rudy's Restaurant, 107 Anderson St., Hackensack, NJ
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Vibrant Life Skills for Success Workshop with Verena Visser Aibel (Held monthly on the first Thursday except in January).Date: January 8, 2009 (Thursday): Time: 7:00 - 8:30 pm visualization, explore life challenges, and share the gifts from our experiences in a sacred and inspiring space. Experience the powerful skill of lightening up and laughing! Questions or to register: Call Verena at 201-487-6910.
Location: Carousel Healing Center & Boutique: 221 Westwood Ave., Westwood, NJ 07675 (201-722-0133), www.westwoodcarousel.com.
Next workshop: February 5.
Photo: Life Skills Workshop Attendees and guest Shamanic Practitioner, Anne Wennhold (middle).
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New Jersey Association for Women Business Owners (NJAWBO)'s Bergen Chapter Business Breakfast
Date: January 15, 2009 (Thursday): Time: 8:00 am - 9:30 am
Fee: Members: $10.00; Non-Members: $15.00 - CASH ONLY
For reservations and information, call the Bergen Chapter hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 4 or e-mail Joanne Clark at jcwills@optonline.net or check out New Jersey Association of Women Business Owners-Bergen Chapter.
Location: Panera's Bakery Cafe, 165 Route 4 West (in Kohl's Shopping Center), Paramus , NJ
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 Photo (right): Tom, Guest Speaker Alan Braverman, Braverman Communications Inc., Host Aparna Mulchanadani, Two by Two, and Verena Visser Aibel, Vibrant Visions International LLC at Aparna's marketing communications gathering in Ramsey, NJ. Aparna designed Verena's business card, logo and brochure.
Photo (left): Cynthia Summers LIVE at Riverspace, Nyack NY.
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Ladies Night Out Talk & Tea: Secrets from a Life Coach and Professional Organizer: Creating Space & Possibilities in Times of Transition
Date: January 20, 2009 (Tuesday); Time: 7:00 - 8:50 pm.
Description: Lively interactions with Verena Visser Aibel and Gayle Gruenberg: Learn how creating space by understanding and managing clutter/chronic disorganization can support you during times of transition and assist you in creating a more vibrant and fulfilling life at any age!
Presentatio n #1: Creating Space & Living a Vibrant Life by Verena Visser Aibel, Chief Visionary of Vibrant Visions International LLC, Hackensack. Learn how creating space can support you during times of transition and assist you in creating (or recreating) a more vibrant life at any age! Learn about the Top Ten Benefits and Top Ten Losses as a result of Clutter or Disorganization, and Identify Your Top 10 Personal Tolerations.
Presentation #2: Change Your Life: Get Organized! A Roadmap for Women in Transition by Gayle M. Gruenberg, CPA, Chief Executive Organizer of Let's Get Organized LLC, Park Ridge. Learn how to change your life or manage transitions more successfully by getting organized. Learn 4 Simple Steps to Clutter Control, Downsizing, and Curing the Paper Plague.
Fee: No fee. Light refreshments will be served. Reservations are requested: 201-358-5072.
For more
information: Verena Aibel, 201-487-6910,
Verena@VibrantCoach.com, www.VibrantCoach.com or Gayle Gruenberg, 201-248-5208, Gayle@LGOrganized.com, or
www.LGOrganized.com.
Location: Hillsdale Free Public Library, 509 Hillsdale Avenue, Hillsdale, NJ 07642
201-358-5072
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NJAWBO BERGEN CHAPTER'S "POWER OF 100 WOMEN" Dinner Networking Meeting
Date: January 21, 2009 (Wednesday); Time: 5:45 - 9:00 pm
Come learn about various professions and businesses at the
NJAWBO Bergen Chapter Showcase and show appreciation for members who
joined NJAWBO this year! Hear from successful members, both new and
seasoned, who will be bringing an item that showcases their work and
they will raffle these items off at the conclusion of this event.
Networking at Noon with NJAWBO will help take you to a new level!
You've got to be there to find out how!
Fee: $45 at the door;
For further information and reservations: contact Stephanie Mace. e-mail dinner@njawbobergen.org or call the Bergen Chapter Hotline at 201-444-8773, ext. 3 or visit our Web site, www.njawbobergen.org.
Location: Holiday Inn Hasbrouck Heights, 283 Route 17 South, Hasbrouck Heights
(call 201-288-9600 for directions)
Photo: 2008 Bernadette Flaim, Attention 2 Detail, Kim Martin, the Hawkins Group, Verena Visser Aibel, Vibrant Visions International LLC, and NJAWBO Diversity 101 Guest Speaker, Willa Edgerton-Chisler, Symphony Coaching LLC.
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NOTE:
All events are subject to change. Please call and confirm event details
prior to traveling. Thank you for your understanding.
Photo Gallery
  Photo (above): Verena and her dad, Rudy, the Blue Footed Booby Artist (see Indigo Section) and former doucent & Asian Expert for the Reading Museum of Art.
Photo (right): Motorcycle from Exhibit at the Reading Museum of Art, Wyomissing, PA.
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Photo (Left): Fun on a fallen log
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