Having-ness means how much room you have within you to consciously receive abundance from the universe. How much abundance and joy and bliss are you willing to be open to receive in your life? It's all about consciously saying to the Universe, "I am open to receive good things in my life."
For as we have seen in The Secret and the Law of Abundance, you must ask, believe and receive. Here is an easy to follow recipe to bring more havingness into your life:
RECIPE FOR HAVINGNESS:
Step 1: Sit in a quiet place where you will not be disturbed; any meditation corner will do.
Step 2: Close your eyes and ponder the word 'Havingness'. Inside your mind's eye and look up (to heaven) and stay there awhile.
Step 3: Add the following ingredients:
-one large scoop of faith (in Divine Timing),
-one chunk of allowing (of good things to come)
-one tablespoon of certainty (of outcome)
-2 heaping teaspoons of surrender (fears)
-a psychic invitation to the universe for receiving your greatest good
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Step 4: In an empty compartment in your heart, mix all ingredients in step 3 until they become a golden vapor that rises out of your heart and up to God's ear to be completed.
Havingness is opening yourself to God's grace and perfect timing. The "having" of what you desire will be more likely to occur if you leave it in God's ever diligent, loving hands.