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Several "firsts" have occurred since the last e-newsletter. The NEW Workplace Meditations audio CD launched with very positive feedback. This unique product is a business tool for people that are suffering from stress at work and are looking for relief.

The Netherlands Chapter For Spirit at Work had it's inaugural meeting October 1st, 2007 in The Hague. This will be a non profit, bi-lingual forum for business people to freely discuss their spiritual values and how to integrate them into their work. From time to time throughout the year, there will be guest speakers, book discussions, review of current trends in spirituality at work and other lively discussion topics.

It will be held on the 1st Monday of each month at the Westeinde 101a in the center of The Hague from 19:30 - 21:30 and all are welcome. There is no membership fee but donations will be requested to cover the cost of the room and refreshments.
Barbara is the Chapter Leader and Facilitator.
For more information on any of these developments, contact Barbara by email.

Two new workshops will be presented in the Hague called:

Down-To-Earth Meditation for Busy People; Body, Mind & Soul

Self Mastery and Soul Awareness Through Simple Meditation



Ask Barbara...


Question:How can I reduce the negative self talk in my mind that so often sabotages me with fear and doubts?
 


The ego or ego mind (not the same as Freud's Ego and ID) is that negative voice inside your head that fills you with fear and doubt and wants you to "stay small" in your life. It has many names such as the gremlin, monkey mind, the "Yeah But Syndrome", the voice of your nagging Mother from the past (no offense intended) or other figures from the past that said you were not good enough or filled you with doubt.

Think of it this way: There is a constant battle in your head between a place of fear and negativity (ego mind) and a place of peace, love, self acceptance, courage and strength. You often spend much of your thinking time in the fear place and don't even realize it.

How often do you knock yourself or not dare to do something that takes courage? How strong is your negative self talk about yourself? Are you so afraid of the unknown that you will never take a leap of faith to perhaps get to a place that will allow for your greatest good to appear? That is the ego mind wanting to keep you small.

One way to get out of this fear place is to be aware of your ego mind's presence and be aware of the battle raging in you between peace and fear. When you do find the self talk dominating and limiting you, simply catch yourself and say, No - I dont live in this fear place and simply push the negative feelings out of your mind. It is not easy, and requires some practice, but you can do it. If you are successful, you will be able to focus on the positives in your life and reach for your destiny.

Believe that you have control over who wins this battle and work to stay in the place of calm centeredness.


 

Upcoming Events

Take a Break and Meditate Drop in Morning
October 19, 2007, 9:30 - 11:30

The Netherlands Chapter for Spirit at Work
November 5, 2007, 19:30 - 21:30, The Hague

Down-To-Earth Meditation for Busy People; Body, Mind & Soul
November 13, 2007, 9:30 - 11:30 or November 18th 20:00- 21:30

Self Mastery and Soul Awareness Through Simple Meditation
November 16th, 2007 , 19:30 - 21:30 or November 30, 2007, 9:30 - 11:30


Uplifting Spiritual Websites



Everyday Spirituality E-Newsletter
Celebrate the Spiritual in You!
October 2007, Volume 2, Issue 9-10
Greetings!
Welcome to the October edition of Everyday Spirituality. The last e-newsletter published in August had several interesting pieces in it, including a heartfelt letter from God and an introduction to The Spiritual Nod in the 5 minute meditation. If you did'nt get a chance to read it, or listen to the recording, - check it out. This month I will offer several links from past 5 minutes meditations for you to enjoy again.

This month we will look at the amazing poem called The Desiderata. This is a short but powerful poem that was writen about 1920, but is still relevant today. See also the Ask Barbara section that talks about the ego.

I would like to acknowledge the work of Al Gore with regard to the Nobel Peace Prize he won recently for his dilgent and non-compromising efforts to save our planet. If you watched the film, An Inconvenient Truth, you saw that he traveled a lonely road for many years with his message of warning and never gave up in his faith and belief in the important message he was trying to get people to listen to. Well done and well deserved, Mr. Gore!

Many readers have stated that they would like a very short. weekly uplifiting message that is similar in nature to this monthly e-newsletter. I will start an Everyday Spirituality Weekly Contemplation" e-mailing with one thought or idea presented to you for your quick glance. It is meant to be read and then discarded or stored and is a kind of "quick moment" of inspiration and uplifting words in your busy and hectic week.


I am pleased to send you these thoughtful passages about Spirit being present in our everyday lives and simple reminders of how we can maintain the connection, no matter what happens.

Thank you for your support and readership.

Sincerely,

Barbara


Feature Article: The Desiderata
ancient panel 2 There is an amazing and well known poem called The Desiderata that I would like to share with you in this month's feature article.

Although some readers may know the poem, the intention here is to introduce it to those who don't, and for those who do, to focus on a few passages of the poem that are very powerful. I could analyze each line as it is so profound, but will look at only a few for your consideration.

The Desiderata is motivational in nature and meant as a guide to life and is spiritual in nature. Although believed to be found in 1692, it was in fact written by Max Ehrmann in around 1920. "Desiderata" is Latin and means 'things that are yearned for', which in the context of the poem more closely means 'essential things'.

DESIDERATA

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others, even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.



EVERYDAY SPIRITUALITY COMMENTARY

Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. This is one of the most pleasing first lines in the history of poetry. Consider the words as they flow so well together to make a point. Life is hectic, chaotic, and full of stress. We must try to remember to slow down and make time to find peace in the silence. It addresses two aspects of the Everyday Spirituality philosophy: find time to be still through meditation, contemplation or silence and to keep a place of balance within you where you can find peace and centeredness in good and bad times.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. With age, comes wisdom and with wisdom comes the understanding of the need to surrender. With great clarity, this passage advises us to accept what life throws at us with inner strength to face what comes, even in the worst of times. If we have a practice of returning to center, and can tap into that place within when we need it, these misfortunes will not seem so bad and we will have an inner connectedness to true self and God to draw upon.

You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars. You have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. This section refers to our unity with all people and things in the universe. Referring to us as children of the universe, reminds us that we are not separate from our brother/sisters or the animals or plants on this planet or the stars that surround it. We are all one with the universe. The universe is unfolding as it should, seems to mean that we often try to force our will on events or people in our lives. The concept of Divine Timing refers to everything happening in divine right order according to God's plan for our lives. And whether we accept it or not, things that happen in our lives, both good and bad, are meant to happen in this way.

Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be and whatever your labors or aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul. We are in a constant battle within ourselves between the ego - which is fearful, self sabotaging, critical and desperate for us to "stay small" vs. a place of peace where we are working together with God and in communication with our inner self and God. Peace or fear, fear or peace; a constant struggle between these two forces rages in our minds and hearts. Mr. Ehrman urges us to keep the confusion of life in perspective and strive to keep a peaceful place within.

Visit the link below to get your PDF version of this timeless work of wisdom. It is really an excellent guide to life for us all.



Five Minute Meditation
key shadow Here are 3 short 5 minute meditations from previous newsletters for you to listen to again. When you click on the title, a small purple box should be the only thing that appears on the screen.
Hit the play button and the recording should start.

We Only Have the Now.


The Spiritual Nod

Return to Center


From Our Spirituality Library
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As a Woman Thinkith by Cindy Cashman. A real success story from the woman who "wrote"the book, Everything Men Know about Woman which was an empty book!
This exceptional book addresses the power of your thoughts, and your ability to harness your feelings to serve the greatest discovery of good in all areas of your life - physically, financially, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Inspired by As A Man Thinketh by James Allen. Cindy Cashman brings you life changing ideas in language that you can understand, absorb, and use. A must read for every woman who desires to take control of her life.


The Inner Guidance Movie by Mary Reynolds Robinson. A short flash film that is inspiring and uplifting and can be downloaded as screensaver. Many interesting and empowering products on this website at http://www.ma keadifference.com


Our Products and Services
br web 12 revised Barbara is a teacher of self mastery and soul awareness. This means becoming more conscious of our connection to self, connection to others at a deeper lever and connection to something bigger than ourselves.

Authentic Matters offers keynote presentations, workshops/training and inspirational products to aid in the process of this re-discovery.


PRODUCTS
Workplace Meditations; Reduce Stress for Greater Success audio CD and MP3 available from the US host CD Baby. Click here to listen to samples of the CD and ordering details. You can also order from the Authentic Matters Website.
WORKSHOPS
Half day or full day workshops available for your group or organization:
  • Meditation for Busy People; Body, MInd and Soul


  • Self Mastery and Soul Awareness Through Simple Meditation


  • Success at Work is an Inside Job


PROFESSIONAL SPEAKING
If your organization would be interested to have Barbara come and do a presentation or training on:
  • Take a Break and Meditate to Reduce Stress at Work


  • Success at Work is an Inside Job


  • Self Mastery through Meditation

please send an email to our website for booking details.



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Everyday Spirituality Weekly Contemplations email will begin the first Wednesday of November. Each week,thereafter on a Wednesday you will receive a short uplifting message from different spiritual sources. Meant for a quick "return to center" moment in your busy week!



The Netherlands Chapter for Spirit at Work will will have the 2nd meeting on November 5th at the Westeinde 101a in the Hague from 19:30 - 21:30. If you live in Holland, you are welcome to attend this new spirituality in business initiative. It is a bi-lingual open forum for discussion about ethics, values and spirituality in the workplace.
Guest speakers, meditation, book reviews, people in the news profiles and shared experiences will create an environment of like minded people coming together. Come join in this new and exciting initiative.



Closing Thought

Try to reach down into your mind to a place of real safety. You will recognize that you have reached it if you feel a sense of deep peace, however briefly.

Let go of all the trivial things that churn and bubble on the surface of your mind and reach down below them to the Kingdom of Heaven.

There is a place in you where there is perfect peace.
There is a place in you where nothing is impossible.
There is a place inside of you where the strength of God abides.


A Course in Miracles

For more information or to give feedback, contact:
Barbara Rogoski 31 626 898 717
 
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