Get Others Involved
Don't be a Loner -- By Mike Kramer
Coaches, mentors, trainers, teammates, partners, fans. Even the greatest athletes in the world can't do it alone.
People naturally perform better when others are on their side and helping out. Even in everyday weight loss and fitness, we've found that people who involve others and ask for help get much better results and stick to their programs longer than people who try to go the distance on their own.
Why is that? For starters, positive peer pressure can be one of the most powerful motivators around. It's tougher to quit when someone else is counting on you. In fact, with a team that's pulling for you, it's less likely that you'll want to quit.
When you involve others, you have access to more knowledge, more ideas, more enthusiasm, and more resources. Bicyclists and race car drivers are finding out that they need teammates looking out for them if they have any chance at all of winning. You can take advantage of the same benefits.
Finally, having other people help out just makes weight loss a heckuva lot more fun. In particular, if your fitness personality is a Social Scene Exerciser, and you're trying to lose weight alone, you're probably bored out of your mind.
Business people draw on a team of accountants, lawyers, financial advisers, headhunters, board members, etc. Together, they form a team of specialists that open up possibilities to that businessperson and his/her business goals. You can build a similar team around your weight loss goals. People that can help with your diet are all around you. You can do this without making a lot of demands on anyone's time. Some possible ways to build a strong team by only asking one thing of each person:
* Ask a friend to check with you once a week to see how you're doing.
* Ask your spouse to be there when you need to unload.
* Ask a coworker to keep you upbeat.
* Ask your kids to help you find ways to have active fun.
* Ask your brother-in-law to pass along inspirational reading and interesting health news.
* Ask your photographer sister to take "before" and "in-progress" pictures.
* Better yet, why not ask someone to join your quest for a healthy lifestyle? Going through and succeeding with a weight loss program with a friend or diet buddy can create a bond that carries over into other areas of your life.