Helping out with tasks around the house develops children's self-confidence and responsibility.  As children develop motor and language skills, they can do more and more things on their own.  Here are some ideas for age-appropriate tasks for your child.

0-12 Months: Let your toddler do it "By myself!"   Give your toddler the opportunity to practice "big kid" skills like choosing his own snack from a selection of healthy options, washing his face or body in the bath (with close supervision), or brushing his teeth (of course, you get a turn, too).

12-24 Months: Let your child be a family helper. Give your child tasks that match his age and skills.  After you slice the strawberries, ask him to put them into the oatmeal bowl.  When he drops his elbow macaroni on the floor, ask him to help you pick them up.  Have him help you put napkins and spoons on the table while you set down the forks and knives.  Helping out makes children feel good about themselves and builds their confidence.

24-36 Months: Give your child lots of chances to do "real" jobs.  Preparing meals-tossing lettuce into a bowl, pouring milk into cereal, breaking eggs-offers many opportunities for your child to take on responsibility and feel successful.  Your toddler can help you with chores like doing laundry and gardening.  He can match socks or separate shirts from pants, or water plants in the garden outside.