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Wednesday, February 29 
Sam Cornish An Apron Full of Beans with Sam Cornish

Boston Poet Laureate Sam Cornish and Roxbury Repertory Theater are teaming up to give audiences a unique performance piece of selected poems and prose from Sam's collection An Apron Full of Beans. Click HERE for more information.


Thursday, March 1      
CWP Best Neighbor 2012 Begins!

Nominate an individual who has made your neighborhood safer, friendlier, and a more pleasant community! The grand prize winner will receive $2000 and a plaque. All of the prizes will be presented at the "Taste of Dorchester" event on April 26. Click HERE for more information.


Friday, March 2   
Health Resources
Youth Work Conference Sign-up Deadline

The 11th Annual Youth Work Intensive Conference, sponsored by Health Resources in Action, will not be taking place until March 13 and 14, but the sign up deadline will be coming to a close on March 2nd. Click HERE to learn about conference and how to sign up.

Dot2Dot
Open Mic Night 

This Friday night Dot2Dot will be holding their first Open Mic Night of March.  Starting time and dinner menu can be found by clicking HERE.


Saturday, March 3 
Adams Branch War of 1812

The Adams Street Branch and the National Park Service are teaming up to bring the community a free 45-minute slideshow about the War of 1812! Click HERE for more information.


Sunday, March 4
Farmers' Market Winter Farmers' Market Continues
The Winter Farmers' Market continues this Sunday with the theme: Dot Grows! BNAN will be sponsoring with a workshop on home compost. Click HERE to learn more about this week's market.

Monday, March 5
February 29, 2012 

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In This Issue
An Apron Full of Beans with Sam Cornish
Best Neighbor 2012 Begins!
Youth Work Conference Sign-up Deadline
Open Mic Night
War of 1812
Winter Farmers' Market Continues
Wine Club Salutes Codman Academy
Dot Youth and UMass Hold Billboard Unveiling

This Past Week
Bball Game
Above: Dot youth in recent game at Madison.
Below: "Wednesday Double" at Dot2Dot Cafe
Bball Game

Ashmont Grill Wine Club Salutes Codman Academy 
During every Monday in March, Ashmont Grill will be hosting Wine Club with a healthy portion of the proceeds going to support the college-preparatory public charter school, Codman Academy. Click HERE for wine selections and further information.

Wednesday, March 7  
Billboard Unveiling Dot Youth and UMass Hold Billboard Unveiling 

Clear Channel has donated billboards across the city to showcase the creative work of Boston's Bridge to Excellence Mentoring Programs. UMass Boston teamed up with BCYF Cleveland Community Center to create two designs that will be put up on a Dorchester billboard.  Click HERE to learn where and when.



HOT in the DOT

Dot Youth Art Contest

The Dorchester Day Parade Committee is hosting the 1st annual youth art contest! The contest is open to all Dorchester residents in the 3rd through 6th grade or students that attend a Dorchester school. Two prizes will be awarded to entries that are chosen from a panel of local judges. MORE INFO

 

Boston Tree Party

Boston Tree Party is looking for communities and organizations of any and all kinds in the Greater Boston Area to plant and commit to caring for a pair of heirloom apple trees! It is part of the Tree Party's Spring Planting Campaign. MORE INFO

 
FREE Tax Preparation @ DotWell Sites

As a member of the Boston Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) Coalition, DotWell offers FREE tax preparation for hard working Dorchester families. Taxpayers who earned less than $50,000 in the previous tax year can have their taxes prepared for free and claim important tax credits such as the EITC. There are two DotWell sites currently providing this service.  MORE INFO

*If you are looking to assist and would like to volunteer with tax preparation, please contact Arjun Verma by either calling 617.822.8269, or emailing arjun.verma@dotwell.org*

MyDorchester Photo Contest 
Can you identify where in Dorchester this photo was taken? Can you take one yourself and leave others guessing where it is? Email eblast@mydorchester.org if you know where! 
Attention Participants! 
For a limited time, MyDorchester will be giving away 8 x 10 prints to the contest winner. 

Weekly Photo Contest
    Winner: Katherine McInerney and Ruth Roudiez
    Location: Window of Hancock 306/Intersection of Dot Ave and Hancock St.
 
 
  
Photo of the Week

Tips for Thriving KidsThrive in 5

Tantrums: Helping your child learn self-control

A tantrum signals a loss of control.  Children are not able to learn anything when they are in this emotionally overwhelmed place.  So when a child is having a tantrum, the goal is to help her regain control. It is only when your child is calm again that she can learn from the situation.

 

Most often children throw a tantrum because they have been denied something they want.  The tantrum is often the result of a limit being set and enforced.  Perhaps they have been denied a cookie before dinner, TV time is over, or you told them it was time to leave the playground.  Helping your child recover from a tantrum is not coddling her or giving in. (Giving them the cookie or turning the TV back on would be!)  It is helping her learn to manage life's disappointments-a very important skill. 

 

What You Can Do:

  • Stay calm. This is the essential first step. The calmer you are, the calmer your child will be.  Children take their cue from our responses.  When we get agitated, upset, and frustrated at their tantrum, it increases their upset. They need you to be their rock when they are "losing it."
  • Take a break.  Some children actually calm down much more quickly when they are breaking down by being by themselves in a safe place. families call this safe, quiet space the "cozy" corner.  It might have some pillows, stuffed animals, books and small, safe toys.  When your child pulls herself together, it is very important that you acknowledge it by telling her what a good job she did calming herself down.
  • Reconnect after a tantrum:
    • Discuss what happened.  Ask for details, and help your child think through the choices she made: You were really angry and you hit your baby brother. What made you angry?  It's okay to feel angry, but in our family, we do not hit. Hitting hurts. 
    • Brainstorm different ways to handle the situation next time. The next time you make a tea party, let's give you brother some of his own cups and pretend food to play with so he won't take or mess up yours.
    • Do not talk for too long or ask too many questions.  Keep it short and to-the-point.
    • End with a kiss, hug, and an "I love you."
 
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Save the Date
 
 

 
~Wed. Mar 21: Fully Fund BPS Rally
 




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Dorchester Flashback
Clapp Family Barn Dorchester Illustration of the Day

Today's image is a photograph taken Feb 17, 2012 showing progress in the restoration of the Clapp Family Barn at the Dorchester Historical Society. Donations raised over the past few years plus a grant from the City of Boston through the Partners with Non-Profits program are funding this essential construction project to replace deteriorating foundation sills and posts and beams in an effort to make the building structurally sound.

  
The Illustration of the Day is brought to us by www.DorchesterHistoricalSociety.org
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